Through a Therapist's Eyes Podcast

In this episode about Resentments, we dive deep into the complex and often overwhelming feelings of anger and bitterness that arise from past experiences or relationships. We explore the psychological and physical toll that holding onto resentments can have, from anxiety and depression to strained relationships and health issues. We discuss why letting go can be so challenging, touching on feelings of justification, lack of closure, and fears of vulnerability. Our conversation also covers current events, including the tragic school shooting in Georgia and the debate over banning cell phones in schools. Finally, we provide actionable strategies for overcoming resentment, such as practicing mindfulness, journaling, therapy, and setting healthy boundaries, all aimed at fostering healing and personal growth. You will learn how to transform your resentments into opportunities for peace and resilience.

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In Episode 286 of Through a Therapist's Eyes - How to Overcome, we're diving deep into the power of resiliency with special guest Zay Grastley. From spending 14 years in prison to embracing his dreams and becoming an inspirational figure, Zay shares his incredible journey of overcoming adversity. We explore the impact of culture, the importance of vision, and how pivotal life events can reshape our paths. Zay discusses his affinity for Bob Marley, his strategies for managing anxiety and insecurities, and the importance of persistence. Join us as Zay opens up about his passion, the lessons he's learned, and how he's using his story to make a difference in the world.

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In episode 285, "Willpower: It is a Challenge in Life," we dive into the complexities of willpower and its impact on various aspects of our lives. We'll explore what willpower truly is—an ability to control our actions, emotions, and urges—and discuss why it's crucial for achieving long-term goals, forming healthy habits, and maintaining strong interpersonal relationships. From overcoming temptations and procrastination to understanding willpower's limitations, we'll also tackle the factors that weaken it, such as decision fatigue. Additionally, we'll look at how the substance abuse field contributes to our understanding of willpower. Finally, we’ll provide practical tips for strengthening this essential skill, including mindfulness, goal-setting, and avoiding temptations.

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In episode 284, Empathy: Have We Lost It?, we explore the complex and multifaceted nature of empathy and its significance in today's world. We dive into the definitions and types of empathy—cognitive, emotional, and compassionate—and discuss the factors that contribute to the current empathy deficit in society. From the overwhelming influence of social media to the rise of individualism and the constant exposure to negative stimuli, we examine how modern life affects our ability to connect with others. We also tackle the importance of empathy in interpersonal relationships, community building, and mental health, and provide practical strategies for cultivating empathy as a vital life skill. Join us as we delve into whether empathy can be nurtured and how we can all contribute to a more empathetic society.

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In this episode of "Through a Therapist's Eyes," we explore the multifaceted nature of ambition—what it is, where it comes from, and how to cultivate it effectively. We discuss the balance between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, the role of personal values, upbringing, and even trauma in shaping our drive. While ambition can lead to success, we also examine its potential downsides, such as burnout and toxic behaviors. Finally, we provide practical tips on how to nurture ambition in a healthy way, focusing on goal setting, self-care, and learning from failures.

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In Episode 282, we review July's highlights and welcome new YouTube subscribers, Trevor Brown and Toshiaq. We revisit a listener email from Episode 221 on emotional detachment in intimate relationships, discussing the balance between being interconnected and maintaining boundaries. We also recap Episodes 278, 279, and 280, which cover therapy modalities, sensory defensiveness, and the impact of mental health on emotional intelligence. Listen for insightful discussions on these topics and practical tips for personal growth and relationship management.

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In episode 281, "What are True Needs vs. Wants," we explore the difference between essential needs and luxury wants. We answer key questions about identifying and meeting your true needs, drawing on Maslow's Hierarchy and Andrew Benjamin George's comprehensive list. We also discuss the impact of unmet needs on mental health, social media pressures, and cultural influences. Look for practical tips on distinguishing and managing your needs and wants with mindfulness and gratitude.

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In Episode 280, we unravel the fascinating interplay between mental health, therapy, and emotional intelligence (EI). What exactly is EI, and can it be learned or is it hardwired into our nature? Can our EI be weakened or lost over time? We'll break down the key components of EI—self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills—and reveal how therapy can significantly enhance these traits. Discover how mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, and trauma impact EI, and gain practical tips to boost your emotional intelligence through mindfulness, journaling, and more.

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In Episode 279, we delve into sensory defensiveness, a condition where individuals experience extreme sensitivity to stimuli like touch, sound, light, and movement, often linked to sensory processing disorder, autism, ADHD, and anxiety. We explore its causes, ranging from neurological and genetic factors to early childhood experiences, and its impact on social interactions, education, and daily activities. We discuss therapeutic approaches, highlighting the role of occupational therapy and sensory integration techniques, and offer practical strategies for creating sensory-friendly environments and advocating for those affected. 

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In this episode, we explore the diverse world of therapy modalities, addressing key questions about therapy types and their significance. We cover eclectic versus specific therapies, the differences between substance abuse and mental health treatments, and the ideal contexts for various approaches. Learn about popular modalities like CBT, DBT, Psychodynamic Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, Family Therapy, ACT, EMDR, and more. Whether you're curious about mindfulness, art therapy, or motivational interviewing, this episode provides valuable insights into choosing the right therapeutic tools for your mental health journey.

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