Wouldn’t it be nice if people start seeing the good in us and we begin to see the good in ourselves. We can then stat to ask ourselves the question what is right with me. Words has power. Action gives your words strength.

Escaping from my abuser with my children was not easy but i did it. I now have a lifetime restraining order and I am happy. We should be able to make our own decisions. No one should control us. I want you to know if you are in an abusive relationship and you are ready to escape, you can. Get support. I am on the dancefloor waiting for you to join me. Happiness is waiting.

I went to visit my last apartment in Bronx  New York. The apartment where I lived with my first abuser and a short time with my second abuser. I  recall a lot of my memories in that apartment but no triggers. I do not know if it was because I had one of my sons with me. Whatever the reasons I was glad.

Being a survivor and living with not just one but two abusers, i wonder can an abuser change? i read it is possible if they really want to change. It is not for the victims to make them change. it is the abuser who needs to seek out the support and follow through.

When I started this podcast I said I was going to share some of my poetry and my memoir with you.I have shared my poetry today i am sharing  a  section of my memoir. I will also input some of my poetry. 

enjoy and give me your feedback.

 Ty a 30 year old man from Brockton has been using since he was young. He is now 4 years, 3 months and 13 day clean from all substances. Ty wants us to know that no one needs to die from addiction. We can survive and overcome whatever we put our mind to. Please join me in congratulating TY while he shares his amazing story.

I am a survivor. I got out of an abusive relationship knowing that I was on my own. I had four children.  I had faith in myself that I could care for my children on my own.  I found out how strong i was and i want to tell you, you are strong too. 

Have you ever lost a child? I did. I lost one after birth and, one six years ago. Losing a child hurts more then giving birth. It hurts but we have to give tanks for the time we had to love our child. I will share one of my dreams i had. Come, listen. I hope you enjoy.