In this first episode of the year, we explore the concept of "fvcks" – your limited pool of emotional and mental energy – and why it's crucial to be mindful of how you spend them.  It's like your life savings account, except instead of dollars, you're dealing with precious emotional currency. And just like money, if you spend it all on stupid crap, you're gonna end up broke and miserable.

Oh, and Happy New Year to you and yours! May your fucks be limited this year, and your smiles be plenty! 

With Love of course. 

Join us for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about the intricacies of love, relationships, and infidelity. In this episode, we delve into the controversial topic of dating a married man, exploring the motivations behind such actions and the potential consequences. We also examine why people choose to remain in unhappy marriages while seeking external validation. 

Welcome back to another episode of the Thus Far Podcast with Eskay, also known as DJ Wangu. In this episode, Come_Dine_Neni joins us again as we dive into the complexities of relationships, forgiveness, and the importance of keeping the romance alive. We discuss a viral video that sparked an intense conversation about infidelity, trust, and how to handle such situations delicately.

We also explore what it means to truly commit to a relationship, the essential role of communication, and the various forms of intimacy that help maintain a strong bond. SK shares personal insights and wisdom on how to keep love consistent over the years, emphasizing the importance of deliberate and intentional actions.

Moreover, we touch on the often overlooked aspect of how men appreciate being romanced and the significance of mutual gestures of love. This episode is packed with practical advice, heartfelt stories, and thought-provoking discussions that will resonate with anyone navigating the ups and downs of romantic relationships.

Join us for a candid and enriching conversation that promises to leave you reflecting on your own relationships and how to nurture them better.

Welcome back to another episode of the Thus Far Podcast. In this insightful and candid episode, our host shares personal reflections on aging and the wisdom that comes with it. Turning 39 has brought a blend of excitement and a stark reminder that time waits for no one.

The discussion takes a humorous turn as our host vents about the mundane aspects of work life, from unnecessary meetings to uninteresting conversations about coworkers' pets. It's a relatable take on the universal struggle of balancing work and personal joy.

The episode also delves into significant life lessons learned over the past year. From understanding the importance of patience to recognizing the true colors of people around us, these reflections offer valuable insights into personal growth and self-awareness.

Tune in for a heartfelt and thought-provoking journey through life's ups and downs. Whether you're looking for wisdom, humor, or just a friendly voice, this episode has something for you.

We are officially in my birthday month so, let's talk birthdays! You know that whole cycle, right? We're welcomed into the world with fanfare, birthday parties are a yearly tradition, and then... crickets? It's weird, isn't it? We go all out for the beginning and the end, but what about all the amazing stuff in between?

In this episode, I want to challenge that. I'm talking about celebrating the people we love, not just when they're born or gone, but while they're here, breathing the same air as us. Forget the generic "Happy Birthday" spam; what if we focused on genuine messages, words straight from the heart that truly show how much someone means to us?

Wouldn't that be something? Let's turn birthdays into "you-logies" - celebrations of life overflowing with real love and appreciation. Because trust me, a heartfelt message goes a long way further than some internet copy-and-paste job. Imagine making every day feel like a birthday for the people who make your world brighter!

So, buckle up, my friends. Let's talk about celebrating life, all of it, because you know what? We deserve it!

Forget the fairytales - virginity in men is a topic shrouded in more confusion than chivalry. This episode tackles the pressure men face, the societal myths surrounding male virginity, and the question: Do women ACTUALLY care?

We'll bust the stereotype that all women are obsessed with a man's "experience." Is there a secret desire to "pop the cherry"? We'll explore the truth behind the fantasy.

But what if the tables are turned? We dive into the story of Sarah, a woman in her mid-30s who just discovered her long-term boyfriend is a virgin. Does it change everything? Can a seasoned partner navigate the world of "firsts" with a grown man? Is there such a thing as being "too late" to learn the ropes?

Join us for a frank and open discussion about male virginity, shattering stereotypes, and exploring what truly matters in a relationship – experience or connection?

We've all been there - the sting of betrayal in a relationship. But what ACTUALLY constitutes betrayal? Is it just physical infidelity, or is the emotional stuff just as bad?

In this episode, we dive deep into the murky waters of relationship breaches. We'll explore why so many people equate betrayal solely with sleeping with someone else, and unpack the reasons why emotional affairs can sometimes cut even deeper.

We'll also tackle the tough questions: is there ever a "too much" when it comes to betrayal? And can a relationship ever truly recover after the trust is shattered?

Join us for an honest and thought-provoking conversation that will help you navigate the complexities of betrayal, and understand where the line truly lies.

Remember @Come_Dine_Neni from the podcast vortex we got lost in last time? Well, we dove back in, and guess what? We completely forgot our talking points AGAIN. Instead, we went straight to our happy place: bota (wine, for the uninitiated)!

But hey, between the giggles and questionable coping mechanisms, we got REAL about the struggles of married life. From making sure the "downstairs party" is poppin' to accidentally saying "I do" before you're ready to clean toilets for eternity.

Prepare for an episode that's equal parts insightful (we tried, okay?) and hilarious (because let's face it, our forgetfulness is a gift).

#ThusFarStillClueless #WineFixesEverything #PodcastLife #MarriageSurvivalGuide

In this episode I was joined by one of my most favorite humans, Come_dine_neni_263  and the plan was to talk about  our trip to and how we met for the first time in Zimbabwe but we ended up talking about everything else (bota related) 

iIs been almost a year since the last episode but here we go again! #EscapeWithMe #FindYourEscape