Ticia The Diva “This Is For My Ladies”

S5 97: In this episode, "show up," I share my thoughts on industry relationships after the recent news of a porn star from Norfolk,VA admitted to having sex with a popular rap star. I express how SOME men get with the women that they need and leave them for the women that they want once they reach a certain level of success and the importance of self dependency when single and in a relationship.  This episode, show up encourages women to show up for yourself by taking care of your priorities, putting your needs and happiness above anyone else and taking care of your shit!

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S5 Ep 96: In this episode, push through, I recap my trip to Laguna Beach and the message that I received while en route.

I also remind you all of how Groupon is still the goat and reigns supreme in the ultimate go to for self care and how purchasing and decorating my first live Christmas tree was so therapeutic and nostalgic for me.

The word push, can be defined as a vigorous effort to do or obtain something and/or exert force on (someone or something), in order to move them away from oneself. The term "push through" is to force someone or something to perforate, penetrate, or pass through something. This week, I want you all to push through with whatever dreams, short term or long term goals you have. Start small, write down what it is that you want to do and detail the first step to get started. Sometimes the first step is research. Ask yourself, how long will you commit to research, 30min-1hr a day, what time of the day, do you work best early in the morning or are you a night owl, doesn't matter, make the time to push through and do something for yourself with one small step this week. 

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S5 Ep 95: Happy Thanksgiving Ladies, can you believe that we are literally one holiday away from the New Year, get us out of here right? I wish there was some reset button that we can press and everything could go back to normal where covid didn't exist, we didn't have Donald Trump as a president and outside was open backup, granted, it's getting cold and I personally prefer to be inside during the cold months but still, give us FREE! 

And because it is thanksgiving, I still want to give thanks and in this episode, of course I share those things that I'm truly most grateful and thankful for and encourage everyone to buy black this Black Friday. rotate that dollar back in the black community and find a black business to support.

Also in this episode, I talk about grounding, being off balance and the measures that I'm taking to gain that control with some self care practices this week.

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S5 Ep 94: I saw a post on Facebook that said, “You meet ur 18-year-old self. Ur allowed to say 3 words. What do you say?”

In this episode, “Girl, just leave.” are the three words that I’d tell myself 18-year old self and I share my thoughts on things that if I could hit the re-set button on, I’m talking about college experiences, the lack of financial literacy within the black community growing up and the consequences of choices.

Girl just leave, is a declaration to release anything, any person, relationship, any fears, doubts, ideas or thoughts that aren’t of your own, that may have been projected on you and now who and where you are in life, those things no longer serves you nor the best interest in reaching your greater self. Girl, just leave (you fill in the blank).

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S5 Ep 93: Taking care of business can be a hassle, damn right exhausting but nevertheless, we pull through to get things done. Mind your rich business, I share some of the things to consider before moving to a new city and state, mainly my 90+ minute phone call with Geico.

In this episode, I share details of the holiday giveaway that my sister LocsXLish on Instagram is doing for FREE 18-inch faux locs installation with makeup provided by ItsDesireable_beauty on IG as well, so if you or you know a woman that deserves a little pick me up during the holiday, reach out to her, its completely confidential.

Congratulations are in order for Joe Biden and Kamala Harris, our new 46th President and Vice President, with Kamala being our first afro-indo female vice president, this is a historic moment in history so congrats to her. Also, I share in this episode the tax increase that Trump passed in 2017 that will increase those that make less than 75,000/years every two years after 2020, crazy right? Speaking of crazy, how bizarre was it for Keke Palmer to be worried about folks and what they spend on their EBT?

I looked up Keke’s net worth for this year and the gag is this year she’s worth 7.5 million. I’m still trying to figure out why is EBT even apart of her vocabulary? Keke is rich and in broke people business, no offense to anybody receiving food stamps and snap benefits but why of all people, Keke worried about it when she can have her meals brought, provided and prepared for her daily, if she chooses. Mind your rich business and stay out of poverty affairs.

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S5 Ep 92: In this episode, “Go vote.” I talk about the election ads that we’ve been seeing on our social media platforms for some months now, that has been practically harassing everyone with an electronic device. The audacity but that what happens when we don’t pay to be on social media, did anybody watch The Social Dilemma on Netflix yet?

I also share the idea that a best friend of mine, Jonathan Trey, who’s a community developer and has worked on several projects in Connecticut, Rhode Island and currently Detroit, where residents are benefiting from the initiatives he’s worked to put in place. Jon, who’s a Norfolk, VA native, created an initiative, a Community Blocks Agreement, that will grant African Americans and minorities government contracts to help build the casino, provide jobs to those from low income communities, a certain percentage of money from the casino will go back to low income communities and so much more that will directly impact those black and brown people in Norfolk.

I can’t express the importance of voting during the presidential election but the general and local elections too.

Think of how frightening 2020 has been for many Americans, coronavirus has plagued America  and claimed the lives of hundreds of thousands of people, lockdowns, the mass cop killings of unarmed African American and the many immigrants who are being separated from their families and/or receiving involuntary hysterectomies. It’s A LOT!

Think about that and the many other things that has happened under this presidential term. What’s been great about any of those things? I’ll wait. America won’t ever be great again because they never started on great terms. From the time of the first settlement and the genocide of the indigenous people, to the slave trades and the enslavement, lynching and torture of African, Caribbean and Latin people, to the bombings and domestic terrorist acts on communities, African American leaders and children, need I go on? History has been fucked up and I hate the saying that “history repeats itself.” Just to think, that for many generations to come, even after we are gone, the history we’ve once endured, will resurface on some other level and our loved ones will have to experience that. It’s disheartening to even think about.

So that’s why we must vote, to have a hand in what we envision for our future, it’s about humanity and what you wish to see for the world. Take for instance, those millionaires who are for Biden and Harris, they are willing to be taxed an alleged 65%. Some millionaires, rich now, who have endorsements, million-dollar investment deals, NY Times best-selling books, has or brought Birkin bag, has royalties and etc., are against being taxed 65%, these people are wealthy, rich, millionaires, mind you. Are these the people that we even want to support going forward? Need I also remind you; our support is what pays them. When we listen, watch or pay for anything they do or are a part of, we pay them. Whether it be money or mind, we are paying them something. Speaking of paying, I went on both Donald Trump and Joe Biden’s website, just to see what they are talking about and yeah, Trump is a mess.

Go vote.

S5 Ep 91: For Colored Girls, now this episode isn't the "For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow Is Enuf" but it is for colored girls, who've struggled with  insecurities, colorism/racism and finding confidence. During this episode, I share my own stories of colorism that I experienced from adults as a chid. I also talk about the importance of building confidence in young colored girls. 

In this episode, I share the importance of teaching young girls to love themselves and the skin they are in to eliminate insecurities and any insecurities that they feel aren't those thoughts of their own but the projections of others that don't feel confident with themselves. I also encourage women to teach their daughters and/or other colored girls, how to compliment others. This teaches them to be secure and confident within  themselves. As women, it is our duty to build other women up, we shouldn't be putting other women down to embarrass them in front of others but to correct them in private. 

This episode is real light and just encourages black women to be better to themselves so that they are able to better to other women.

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S5 Ep 90: Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be, Let's Talk About Sex! So, ladies, we are gather here today to discuss something that is so beautiful, pleasurable, mind blowing, disappointing, scary and/or traumatic. Depending on your experience, sex may have been all of those things and in this episode, I ask those questions about what's a healthy number of times to have sex on a weekly basis? How do you let your partner know they aren't sexually pleasing you? I also talk about threesomes and "trains" aka a mans "bisexual experience", let's call a spade a spade. 

During this episode, I talk about different relationship types and how monogamy is a choice, I also discuss platforms like Only Fans, sex workers, the new term I just heard "Street Sex" which are couples who use condoms (psst, that's some shit a man came up with, go figure), birth control and most importantly, having those conversations about getting tested and knowing your status before two people engage in sexual energy exchanges. 

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S5 Ep 89: Issa Vibe!

In this episode, I share what lead to my ultimate decision to stay in LA. Listen ladies, I appreciate each and every one of you all that have been my help and support encouraging and motivating me through this tremendous transition of my life!

I speak about leadership, being a follower, the term NLP (Neurolinguistics Programming), which is the methodology where a person can "model" the skills of exceptional people, allowing anyone to acquire those skills. I share how my natural energy has been attracting people here in LA, being a vibe while suffering from a level of high functioning anxiety and the recent Netflix documentary, The Social Dilemma.

This episode is scattered with affirmations just pouring into myself and speaking positive things into my life and yours. I want the positive vibrations of this podcast to resonate and penetrate your spirit deeply and that you are able to step out of your own comfort zone and do something that will change your life, maybe that was just a word for me but hey, I’m just a model and a testimony. When my autobiography book drop, don’t say I didn’t tell you.

Listen, God, the Holy Spirit was definitely speaking through me, I think I even left y’all with a closing prayer, receive it and with so much love.

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