Til Podcasts Do Us Part

On episode one we talk about Relationships over 30 and the different challenges that come with that, how to keep things spicy, adjusting to different sex drives and our goals as we inch closer to our 10 year anniversary.

In this fun episode we introduced The Couples Challenge. A 2v2 trivia game where couples battle it out to see who knows their partner more with a chance to win a gift card for a date night. We start off each round with some never have I ever shots, followed by questions about their partners preferences, relationship questions and of course some dirty talk. The winning team will stay on to face a challenger couple next month.

In our first Couple's Challenge we brought back two audience favorites John & Courtney and newly engaged new guests Russell & Ashley. Both of the men in these relationships are highly competitive so theres plenty of back and forth banter, jokes, and shared laughs.

If you're interested in challenging this month's winner shoot us a message or e-mail!

In this episode we bring back Crystal & Chub Ray and discuss being in interracial relationships and how we handle differences in cultures, different situations we've come across with people and preferences in dating growing up.

We also talk about raising Biracial children and the different challenges and struggles that we as parents and our children may come across.

In this episode we sit down with our favorite double date friends Chub & Crystal Ray and we really take a hard and honest look at some trust issues that every relationship deals with at some time or another. We don't sugar coat our answers and explain how we've adjusted to married life before and after some of these issues.

• 3:00 - Can you be friends with the opposite sex?
• 7:45 - How do the dynamics and boundaries of the friendship change?
• 14:00 - How do you feel about family members having relationships with Ex's?
• 22:00 - How do you feel about sharing passwords, phone pass, account info?
• 31:30 - CJ explains his trust issues in general
• 36:00 - How do you feel about sharing locations?
• 43:30 - How late is disrespectful and too late to come home?
• 55:10 - How do you feel about guys/girls nights and vacations?
• 101:00 - Guys ideas of a good time vs women's
• 106:30 - Public affection and how much is too much?

You guys loved it so we jump right back where we left off with yet another explicit episode. This episode is vulgar, profanity laced, and hilarious. In this episode we sit down with our friends May & Ed Williams and we discuss and debate several sex related topics such as..

• We warm up with some quick hitter questions
• We briefly jump back to bodycounts and if they're double standards or if some people are just willing to tolerate more than others?
• We talk about how many times per week is normal?
• How do couples sustain strong sexual connection in a long term relationship?
• How do you find time with busy schedules, life, kids, etc?
• What are some ways they spice things up?
• Are threesomes something all couples discuss?
• Do you think watching porn is healthy or unhealthy for relationships?
• Do they enjoy it together and what is too much?

We present to you our very first NSFW and explicit episode. This episode is vulgar, profanity laced, and hilarious. In this episode we sit down with our friends John Hickman & Courtney Douglas and we discuss and debate several sex related topics such as..

• We warm up with would you rather sex questions for John & Courtney
• Are bodycounts important and why do people obsess over it?
• Does porn, music, and movies setup unrealistic sexual expectations?
• John puts CJ on the spot with a question about eating ass.
• Holidays & Vacations are those times for extra sexual effort?
• Why do women make all the sexual decisions?
• Double standards sexually
• Has John intentionally had mediocre sex on purpose?
• Can you have a good relationship without good sex and can that change?

In this Episode we're excited to bring on our first guest and family friend Kristen Thomas, and talk about mental health and how it effects relationships. We take a dive into what are some of the causes or triggers of mental illness, how to cope with mental illness, and how to support our loved ones without enabling them.

Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make healthy choices. Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

If you or someone you know is dealing with mental illness or you would just like more information we've provided some links below.

https://mhmyouth.org

https://mental-health-matters.com

https://www.childrensmentalhealthmatters.org/whats-happening/news/

On our second episode we take a look at how we were raised, and how that has impacted our parenting. We discuss each of our opinions on whats more important between the family you were born into and the family you create. Lastly we wrap things up with a discussion about why we each think Marriages aren't lasting as long as they once did.

In this episode we introduce you to your new favorite unapologetic couple. We discuss some of our goals for the podcast, and topics we will cover week to week which include Relationships/Marriage, Childhood/Family, Intimacy/Sexy and Parenthood. We also each tell you a little bit about ourselves.

To give you a true glimpse of how open we intend to be on this show, we played a game of 10 questions where we each ask 2 deep questions related to the topics we will discuss on the show to each other. We both kept our questions secret until we got on air so the response is on the spot and true.

Some topics discussed include

Get to know you questions 9:40

• What characteristics does CJ find least attractive in another person?
• What is one thing Kofi would change about herself if she could?
• Does Kofi consider herself to be a forgiving person?

Childhood & Family Questions - 15:40

• What is the first family vacation CJ remembers?
• What would CJ's child self think of the adult version of him?
• What was Kofi's relationship with her parents like growing up?
• What characteristics did Kofi inherit from her parents?

Questions specific to our relationship - 27:40

• What does CJ find most attractive about Kofi?
• Does CJ believe in traditional male/female roles in a relationship?
• What does Kofi find most attractive about CJ?
• How much "me time" and time with friends does Kofi feel she needs?

Intimacy & Sexual Questions - 39:40

• How important is sex in a relationship ranked 1-10?
• What do we do that turns each other on?

Parenting Questions - 47:05

• How many kids did CJ foresee us having in the beginning?
• What is the worst mistake parents can make when raising a child?
• How important does Kofi feel it is that we have "us time."