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When we love ourselves we walk in love , grace , wisdom , & integrity , & we take accountability ! Loving ourselves is essential in setting boundaries , recognizing red flags , & not tolerating manipulators !

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People from the past always tend to resurface when your dreams become manifested. A lot of people don't be down for the long haul which is why you have to be your own backbone and ready to adapt to all phases of life. Many people may walk out on you while you're getting your life together. I'm here to tell you to let them go. Stop allowing them to rob you of of your peace and sanity. Happy New Years ! May God keep you , protect you , heal you , guide you , and bless you and your union abundantly ! 2022 is your time to shine in a major way ! There's no more time to keep being humble and dimming your light at the expense of pleasing others ! You're either all in or all out !

The person you have kids by can be a blessing or a curse. Its on you to decide. Some people will do a 180° turn on you once the children arrive. That may be why some people end up doing it alone. This is just a general statement.

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~ The first step to change is to acknowledge our wrongs and take accountability of the way we have made others feel in the midst of our chaos. Healing is not a walk in the park. Some days we just don't want to be bothered and shut down and cry to ourselves. Other days we feel like we have total control and realize that we are not our trauma.

~ Our trauma is an experience that we don't have to remain attached to. We can free our mind , body , & spirit from all the detrimental effects that has tried to run the course of us living a life full of joy , love , peace , abundance , & prosperity. As we heal ourselves we pave the way to a more peaceful path for the ones who come after us.

~ Lets make it easier for those who come after us to live their best lives. Our past , present , & any future mishaps don't define us. It's how we go about conducting ourselves instead of wallowing in whatever it is we seem to be constantly battling with. Lets not bring up people's past to try to dim their light when they have overcame their trauma and made it out on the other side.

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Why do y'all guys act like us women need to trick inorder to be treated? Can someone answer?

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Sometimes it's best to forgive and forget inorder to grow psychologically , emotionally , & spiritually , because holding grudges is self sabotaging behavior.

Why do you think the art of forgiveness is important?

 •I personally believe we deserve infinite peace , happiness , laughter , and genuine people with kindred spirits in our corner. We don't have to be there to watch people's karma touch down and witness their lives spiral downhill. And we surely don't owe anyone an explanation on why we want to wash our hands with them. 

How do you go about overcoming traumatic experiences?

Why do you think overcoming the past helps heal us from trauma? 

• I believe it's a must that we operate from profound happiness and peace especially if we have babies and/or a small child(ren) , because mental + emotional illness is not just hereditary. Life is beautiful when we tune out the chaos and stay in alignment with the Universe and our higher self inorder to fulfill our purpose.

©Quiara

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If you don't seek to know the truth , They'll always be someone trying to dictate the life you live.

One who keeps their mind open to learn will always be a force to be reckoned.

The government may try to string us along , but they cannot raid our minds like playgrounds when we remain 10 steps ahead of them.

They tell us how to live , travel , etc. cause they want total mind control.

The more vulnerable one appears to be is one less soul that will get to enjoy the beauty of this planet.

Stay aligned with your ancestors and let them be your guiding force , because they truly have your best interest.

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The moment we choose to honor our soul & stray away from individuals who only make withdrawals & no spiritual deposits is the moment we will begin to operate in our full potential. We can't be out here calling ourselves divine beings and letting people treat us like we're mediocre. We don't have to settle or let our guards down. We can't help who we attract friendship wise and even those of you who are single. However , We can determine who is healthy for our aura and those who only come to prey on us for our kindred hearts. We can only blame ourselves if we ignore the red flags that others reveal. Nobody can hold us back in this life. We are the pilot while everyone else are just the passengers. Therefore , We get to decide who needs to make a departure from our lives and those whose presence adds value to our lives. ©Quiara

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People know the moment they approach you and have a meaningful conversation what type of relationship they want from you. Most people like others to chase them. Those are the emotionally unavailable individuals who aren't used to being held accountable for who they are. Then there's the ones who come off sensitive , but they are rare. They'll actually hear you out and tell you what you need to hear rather than feed your ego. Last but not least you have those that are egotistical individuals who prey on those who appear to be vulnerable and innocent. They're all for their own personal benefits be it sexual , emotional , and/or financial. ©Quiara

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