The current dating situation Ashika finds herself in appears to be too much for her to handle alone. She interrupts her regularly scheduled episodes to give the listener a real inside look at the the "Hot Mess Express" of a situation she is in, where her vulnerability is showing, tempers are flaring and tears are being shed. 

Sometimes you need to get lost, in order to be found. Ashika shares her tips for solo-traveling and being comfortable in your own skin. She shares what prompted her to start doing things alone and the benefits she reaped from it. Listen on for travel tips to use both when traveling alone or with friends. 

It's time for another Aftershow! Ashika brings on another guest, her gal pal Kelsee, to dissect the Toxic Dating Cycle. The girls go into more personal details about toxic behaviors in the dating world and Kelsee even shares how she has been toxic in the past. Listen for the hilarious commentary and personal horror stories ...toxic dating 101. 

It's time we got to know each other a little better...don't you think? A brief introduction into your host Ashika. Her background and the promised explanation about her name... Ashika or Sharlene? Plus, learn what her most challenging thing is about growing up as an Indo-Fijian South Asian in America. 

When is the last time you tried to pick someone up in person? In this episode Ashika covers the do's and don'ts of hitting on someone of the opposite sex. Personal pick up fails are shared and will have you laughing at her (rather bad) luck along with learning her helpful tips to try the next time you run into someone attractive in person! 

Ashika talks about today's "toxic dating cycle" filled with short attention spans and the games singles play. Ghosting, mutual ignoring and the "I can watch your story but not text you" game. She discusses the single girl defenses she has learned to put up to help her detach and let the wrong ones go in peace. 

Dangerous Dating. Just. Don't. Do. It. Be smart, go to public places, share your location, these helpful hints and more were covered in Episode 1. However, those tips were learned the hard way. Listen to hear how Ashika handled not 1, not 2 but 4 dates that wound up a little more dangerous than she expected. Sure they make for good stories now, but don't make these mistakes when planning your next date! Warning: NSFW: Adult Language. 

Join Ashika and two guests as they rehash Episode 1 and share more details and insider stories filled with laughter and tips on Dating Apps and App Dating! Warning: NSFW, Adult Language 

When do you split the bill? When do you pay it all? When do you not pay any of it? Listen on to find out how to navigate through the tedious task of who should pay what after a night out with friends, family or your date! Warning: NSFW, Adult Language. 

Ashika dives into the world of online dating apps. She shares her experience with dating apps, including an uncensored personal rating. Plus, she talks about her fool proof first date set up to get you prepared for the face-to-face meeting including tips on what to do and, more importantly, what not to do. Warning: NSFW Adult Language.