To Be Single or Not to Be

To Be Single or Not to Be

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To Be Single or Not to Be episodes

  • Long Term Relationships - You Will Change & So Will Your Partner - Ep. 95

    On this episode, we take a deep dive into making long term relationships last forever! Alexa, play Keith Sweat. We dive into understanding what good (or inevitable) change looks like, how to understand and navigate it, and how to adjust your personal sails in the winds and high tides of what we call relationships. All change is not a bad thing. You just have to be able to put in the work and determine what type of change you are dealing with and how you need to show up to handle it! Special guests: Kandice M. & Keshia S.

    54 min
  • Leaving Will Hurt & You Will Be Okay! Leaving is NOT Losing! - Ep. 94

    On this episode we take a deep dive into knowing when it is time to go, understanding the process to arrive at and stand by the decision, and understanding that you are NOT a loser if you decide to part ways! Leaving is not losing and want the world to know that in any situation, at the end of the day, you will absolutely be okay! Special guests: Sierra of Legacy Speaks & Mikey R.

    59 min
  • Where the Cash At? Is it Pay for Play in 2022? - Ep. 93

    On this episode we take a deep and FUN dive into what money and relationships looks like present day because we want to know is it pay for play in 2022? We discuss the Kevin Samuels mindset, what role finances play in partnership, and if money is or should be the most important thing when dating and navigating these relationship streets! Tune in so we can help you decide if you should be paying or if you should keep playing! Special guests: The Letter U, IGLess Janae, Deandre S.

    1 hr 6 min
  • Why Do We Keep Taking Them Back? - Ep. 92

    On this episode, we take a deep dive into why we continue to take people back, repeatedly, in relationships when they have shown us they are no longer worthy of our attention, love, or time. We explore where these behaviors stem from, what we were not taught growing up that has led us here, and how we overcome this obstacle to break generational curses and create the healthy and lasting love that we desire WITHOUT repeated abuse in the form of taking those back who don't deserve it. In this episode, you will learn that you can have better if you choose better and, most importantly, show up and do better. Special guests: Courtney Arlesia, Syreeta Blakely, and Nikita Haynie

    1 hr 11 min
  • You Cannot Love Them Into the Person You Are Envisioning - Ep. 91
    On this episode, we take a deep dive into why we envision people to be someone that they have proven they cannot be in their relationship with us and why we must stop doing this NOW! We explore what this looks like, how we got here (Alexa, play Deborah Cox), and how we overcome it forever! When people show you who they are, BELIEVE them! Special guests: Rod Gaithings, Krystal Jordan, and Chemyeeka Tumblin,
    1 hr 56 min
  • Fantasy vs. Reality of Love - Ep. 90

    On this episode, we take a deep dive into the fantasy of love verses the reality of it. Are we creating our own illusions of love or are they being painted for us? Are we really up for the fight of what true love is or not really? Are we really taking a holistic look at potential partners and all that they come with before making an informed decision on partnership? There are so many questions that need answers and this episode is here to give answers to them all! Tune in as we conclude Season 3...it is a helluva an informative and entertaining ride! Special guests: Ms. Carter, Nikki H., Joy B., and Tiff from the Sipp!

    2 hr 4 min
  • Imposter Syndrome - Ep. 89

    On this episode we take a deep dive into what imposter syndrome really looks like, how it shows up in our lives, how we understand it, and how we navigate it to move around it and not let it stop us from greatness! The thought of feeling like we don't belong in places and spaces where we are meant to grow, thrive, and excel is no longer acceptable and is something we are no longer standing for. So, get into this episode and learn why we are out with the "old" imposter syndrome and in with the "new" of us women standing tall in rooms and positions that we have earned and deserve! Special guests Obrenka, Kandice A., Bulli C., Nikita H.

    1 hr 7 min
  • Relationship Attachment Styles - Ep. 88

    On this episode we take a deep dive into what may be new territory for some and that is relationship attachment styles! Many times, they way we move in adult relationships is rooted in our childhood and relationships that existed there. So, this episode is here to give you insight on how growing up may have affected the way you move in your love life, why you are connected to the attachment style that you are currently in your life, and how to navigate it the best you can by using what you got to get the love that you want! HELLO SOMEBODY! Tune in and learn all about which attachment style best suits you and how this info can truly aid and guide you getting to the relationship you honestly desire. Special guests: Mikey of 4th & Well & L'Kenya

    1 hr 22 min
  • Comparison is the Thief of All Joy - Ep. 87
    On this episode we take a deep dive into what truly creating the relationship you desire looks like without allowing the outside world to have a say so in that. In this conversation, we uncover how social comparison is more common than people think or allow and how the fact remains that when you are looking at someone else's relationship with envy or in awe, you are truly just an outsider looking in and don't know what goes on behind THEIR closed doors. So, is it still such a good idea? Comparison may give you some inspiration when it comes to relationships, but isn't the idea of creating your own the most desirable? Tune in to find out! Special guests: Brittney R., Obrenka, & Nikita H.
    1 hr 3 min

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TO BE SINGLE OR NOT TO BE is a podcast about returning to yourself.