To Be Single or Not to Be

To Be Single or Not to Be

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To Be Single or Not to Be episodes

  • Why Are Black Women The Most Single of All?!

    On this episode we revisit my views on why I felt so many sistas were so single in 2019 and if I feel the same present day! Tune in because there is so much more to the story!

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    30 min
  • One Night Only: The Tell All Interview with Shaanah Montanna - Ep. 111
    This is the season finale of the To Be Single or Not To Be podcast and we are so excited to be here! This episode is exclusively on YouTube and is one you do not want to miss! We sit down with the Creator and Host of the podcast for a one night only special where she "TELLS ALL" about aspects of her relationship life! She dives into what love looks like, what makes her feel safe, what would be her grade in "relationship class" personally, and so much more! So, be sure to head over to YouTube to view this visual only episode on the Shaanah Montanna channel now!
    5 min
  • Let's Talk About Labels...AGAIN! - Ep. 110

    On this episode, we take another dive into a conversation around labels and the necessity of them since it seems many people are unclear about this said thing! Whether a label is to make sure all parties know they are in a relationship or to clarify that you are not in one, they are needed across the board! This allows you to avoid confusion, heartache, and some pain when the tables don't turn how you desire or you are with someone who refuses to take a seat at the label table to give you what you heart truly desires! Take a seat at the table as we dive into this convo, for what I am sure, will not be the last time!

    Special guests: Tori. A & Durriyyah of the podcast "Sweet Tea with Dee"


    48 min
  • The Value of Sisterhood - Ep. 109

    On this episode, we take a deep dive into the sometimes overlooked value of sisterhood! In this day and age of social media relationship goals, women being focused on getting the ring by any means necessary, and some people never having the experience of what genuine sisterhood looks like, it was mandatory that we had this conversation as a beautiful reminder of the power sisterhood holds! Join us for a conversation between girlfriends of almost 20 years and why we landed here, why we work to maintain our sisterhood, and the joy it brings to us all!

    Special guests: Heather C. & Kandice M.

    1 hr 2 min
  • Non Monogamy & Polyamorous Relationships - Ep. 108

    On this episode, we take a deep dive into what non monogamous and polyamorous relationships truly look like, inside and out! Many people will say those who choose this lifestyle are just greedy or afraid of commitment and there may be some truth to that. However, after this episode gives you insight to what the lifestyles are really like, what life looks like in one of these partnerships, and how one must maintain their composure at all times to remain in one, we think you will walk away with a newfound perspective on these lifestyles and if they are really all they seem to be!

    Special guest: Flo Oliveira

    39 min
  • Relationship Accountability: What Does it Really Mean - Ep. 107

    On this episode we take a deep dive into the feared and almighty meaning of the word, "ACCOUNTABILITY"! It is wild how one word has so much power; yet, so many people fear stepping into the action of what it really means consistently. On this episode, we have a seat at the table with Mr. Accountability himself to discuss why people struggle so much with this term, what it looks like to really hold you and your partner accountable, and why every successful relationship must make sure it is present!

    Special Guest: Chad Scott The Accountability Coach

    55 min
  • Relationship Gridlock - We Are Stuck and Want to Move Forward - Ep. 106
    On this episode, we take a dive into the sometimes harsh reality that relationship gridlock happens. However, it's all about what you do after that! Relationship gridlock is inevitable at some point in a relationship, but, that does not mean it has to last forever. Dive into this conversation as two therapists walk us through what relationship gridlock really looks and feels like, how you navigate through it (if you want to), and how to come out on the other side of it successfully and hand in hand with your partner if all parties involved are on board!
    Special guests: Maryam A. & Dyamond W.
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    1 hr 5 min
  • Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles - Ep. 105

    On this episode, we take a deep dive into what breaking a toxic relationships looks like! In the world of Futures and Kevin Samuels #RIP, we have to determine where the largest problem lies, how this problem started, and why we cannot seem to move past it in this day and age! Toxicity relies on the people entangled within it to keep it going. So, on this episode, we help you understand the ACTION that must take place NOW to move on from it today and for generations to come after.

    Special guests: Amani M. & James B. of Mind of a Man Podcast

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    1 hr 18 min
  • Are Men Healing and Caring For Themselves at the Same Rate as Women? Ep. 104

    On this episode we take a deep dive into a necessary conversation around the facts of the matter when it comes to women and men healing and taking care of themselves in therapy and if we are doing it at the same rate! We are finally a generation of people who understands the importance and power of therapy. However, we must get all hands on deck in making sure our MEN are showing up the same as women to make sure we are aligned and even capable of creating the happy & healthy relationships we desire! This is a convo you do not want to miss! Special guests: Mikell & Sam of the You Good Bruh? Podcast and Kristen S.

    2 hr 23 min
  • The Importance of Therapy While Dating - Ep. 103

    On this episode, we take a deep dive into the GREAT importance of getting into therapy while you are dating! For many years, the only time we would hear about therapy would be shortly before marriage and it was in the form of pre-marital counseling only! However, we now know that therapy should be an integral part of the development and growth of your relationship as soon as you are both committed and serious about making sure it elevates in the healthiest way possible! So, dive into this episode and put on your thinking caps because you will be in for a treat!

    Special guests: Nikita H. & Kognitively Kendra

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    1 hr 21 min

About To Be Single or Not to Be

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TO BE SINGLE OR NOT TO BE is a podcast about returning to yourself.