Before we had this conversation and before we have this conversation today, I want you, everyone listening to know that I am a rules person. Everything about my entire upbringing has been checklists and right or wrong and to be a good person. Do the right thing, do the right thing, do the right thing and oh my God. Kendra, is about to share something with us that first of all, made me real f****** mad. And we unpacked that together with grace and then it completely shifted everything.