Why do some successful men prefer professional ladies of the night to casual hookups? Girls, if he hasn't got enough money to pay for the date, you shouldn't be dating him at all. Guys, there is a time to be preparing for financial stability and a time to be courting, or if you must, dating. Reversing that order can cause pain. Good women expect the man to pay. Not because they're trying to freeride or because they're short of money. The reason is not economic but emotional. If lots of people are trying to get certain jobs, they're overpaid. Think politicians. America did better when it was governed by citizens who gave a short term of service rather than now when it is ruled by a professional class of permanent politicians who've never done anything else (not including the current president). Can a country have too many politicians and bureaucrats? What y'all look like to me. Never be a tennis ball floating down the gutter of life-embrace change and growth.