This is Part 2 of the story—what happens after you stop abandoning yourself to be loved.

In this episode, I share how I moved from self-abandonment to self-honoring, from contorting to clarity, and how that inner work created the foundation for calling in a partnership that feels safe, sovereign, and soul-led.

I talk about the reality of reentering the dating world after a long-term relationship—navigating dating apps, emotional boomerangs, and the deep discomfort of holding your standards when it would be easier to bend. And then… what happened when I didn’t bend. What happened when I met Lee.

You’ll hear:

✧ What it looked like to date without shrinking or shape-shifting

✧ The wild healing that comes from finally choosing your own nervous system

✧ The exact way I approached this relationship differently from the start

✧ How Lee and I co-created safety, softness, and truth—together

✧ A letter I wrote to my future husband, before I knew it was him

This is the episode for anyone learning to trust that real love won’t require you to become less. It’s the reminder that your too much is perfect—for the right person.

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Chapters

00:00 Episode Preview

01:02 Intro

02:56 No Longer Willing to Compromise for Love

14:25 Meeting Lee: A New Beginning

18:05 Setting Expectations on the First Date

21:45 Take it or Leave it but I'm Bringing All of Me This Time

26:18 He Didn't Need Me, He Wanted Me

29:14 Not Trying to Change Each Other

37:14 Letter to My Future Husband

This podcast explores the deep connection between female leadership and the power of Divine Feminine Energy, helping the high-achiever and entrepreneur move beyond anxiety, exhaustion, overthinking and imposter syndrome, by exploring emotional intelligence, connection, and the art of receiving, while unpacking patterns like codependency, control, and resentment, and offering tools to regulate the nervous system, reconnect with intuition, and move toward clarity, confidence and trust all while celebrating intimacy, ambition, creativity, pleasure, abundance, and the grounding wisdom of somatics to find joy and transformation through alignment.

Ever been in a relationship where you twisted yourself into the “chill girl,” the healer, the caretaker, the soft landing… while secretly shrinking your truth, your voice, and your needs to keep the peace and avoid the discomfort of being alone?

Same.

In this solo episode, I’m talking about the years I spent gift wrapping my power and calling it love. Making myself smaller so the men I dated wouldn’t reject me.

In this episode:

1. I unpack how I confused self-abandonment for devotion
2. How I dimmed my light to be digestible
3. How I finally snapped out of it—learning to meet myself, step into my divine feminine energy, and call back everything I gave away.

If you’ve ever twisted yourself into something prettier, easier, or more "understanding" just to be chosen, this one’s for you.

You were never too much—you were just giving your magic to people who couldn’t hold it.

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Chapters

00:00 Episode Preview

00:56 Today's Intro

06:00 The Quest for Acceptance & Love

12:39 The Danger of Seeking Validation

15:49 Self-Abandonment in Relationships

17:53 The Breaking Point

21:58 Self-Reflection and Growth

23:29 Breaking the Cycle of Unhealthy Relationships

25:21 Re-entering the Dating World

28:40 Finally Breaking Relationship Patterns

35:10 Learning to Value Self-Worth

39:05 Finding True Connection

This podcast explores the deep connection between female leadership and the power of Divine Feminine Energy, helping the high-achiever and entrepreneur move beyond anxiety, exhaustion, overthinking and imposter syndrome, by exploring emotional intelligence, connection, and the art of receiving, while unpacking patterns like codependency, control, and resentment, and offering tools to regulate the nervous system, reconnect with intuition, and move toward clarity, confidence and trust all while celebrating intimacy, ambition, creativity, pleasure, abundance, and the grounding wisdom of somatics to find joy and transformation through alignment.

Learn why high achievers should stop trying to "fix" themselves and take a human design approach to life instead.

In this episode, I’m joined by Tiffini Jacobs, Human Design and Gene Keys Coach, to explore the system that blew my mind and set me free. Human Design has given me so many permission slips and helped me quantum leap into the most joyful and aligned life.

Tiffini and I unpack:

✧ What Human Design actually is (without the jargon)

✧ Human Design Types, Strategies & Authorities

✧ How to work with your energy instead of constantly fighting it (like I was)

✧ The secret to unlearning and then skyrocketing

✧ Finding your soul’s purpose

✧ Revolutionizing business

✧ Why it’s not about “fixing” yourself—it’s about finally seeing yourself clearly

Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or you’ve already peeked at your chart, this episode is your invite to come home to yourself.

Visit www.tiffinijacobs.com to book a Human Design discovery call with Tiffini and use code Hannah20 for 20% off when you book a reading. Or Dm Tiffini on Instagram to chat about Human Design - @tiffini.jacobs

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Chapters

00:00 Episode Preview

01:04 Introducing Tiffini Jacobs, Human Design Expert

03:53 Human Design as the Missing Piece

06:11 What is Human Design?

08:59 Generators - the creative powerhouses

10:20 Projectors - the guides & leaders of humanity

12:05 Manifestors - the fiery disruptors and innovators

13:21 Reflectors - the mirrors of society

15:18 Human Design as an Anchor in Life & Work

17:48 Rejecting my Human Design

20:10 The Secret to Unlearning then Skyrocketing

22:12 Going Deeper with your Strategy & Authority

30:18 Using Human Design to Supercharge Teams

34:42 Going from Confinement to Alignment

42:16 Taking things to the Next Level with Gene Keys

47:07 Venus & Pearl Sequence

51:28 Revolutionizing Business

01:00:40 Integrating Human Design into Daily Life

This podcast explores the deep connection between female leadership and the power of Divine Feminine Energy, helping the high-achiever and entrepreneur move beyond anxiety, exhaustion, overthinking and imposter syndrome, by exploring emotional intelligence, connection, and the art of receiving, while unpacking patterns like codependency, control, and resentment, and offering tools to regulate the nervous system, reconnect with intuition, and move toward clarity, confidence and trust all while celebrating intimacy, ambition, creativity, pleasure, abundance, and the grounding wisdom of somatics to find joy and transformation through alignment.

What do you do when the version of you that the world accepted… isn’t actually you?

In this episode, I sit down with my sister Becca to talk about the unexpected plot twist that unfolded in our 30s - a late diagnosis of ADHD—first me, then her, and even earlier, our dad.

We unpack what masking looked like in our childhood, the ways we copied, performed, and contorted ourselves to “fit,” and how exhausting it was to constantly filter our true selves. From emotional burnout to neurodivergent breakthroughs, we explore the wild ride of unmasking, reclaiming identity, and what it means to finally feel seen—not just by others, but by ourselves.

This one’s full of real talk and big tender truths for anyone who’s ever wondered what it would be like to show up as their whole selves.

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Chapters

00:00 Episode Preview

00:52 Introduction

01:53 The Journey to Late-Diagnosis

15:22 Untangling & How we Masked Differently

23:12 The Unmasking Begins

29:25 Remembering Who We Really Are

36:41 Releasing Shame & Finding Compassion

42:07 How ADHD Impacts Relationships

46:59 Helpful vs Hurtful Masking

53:29 The Challenges of Neurodivergence at School & Work

01:00:28 ADHD & Motherhood

This podcast explores the deep connection between female leadership and the power of Divine Feminine Energy, helping the high-achiever and entrepreneur move beyond anxiety, exhaustion, overthinking and imposter syndrome, by exploring emotional intelligence, connection, and the art of receiving, while unpacking patterns like codependency, control, and resentment, and offering tools to regulate the nervous system, reconnect with intuition, and move toward clarity, confidence and trust all while celebrating intimacy, ambition, creativity, pleasure, abundance, and the grounding wisdom of somatics to find joy and transformation through alignment.

Terrified of Being a failure. Turns out that failure saved my life.

What happens when you thought you had it figured out and then several of your greatest fears come true at once?

In the very first episode of Too Much Not Enough, I’m pulling the curtain back on the messy, full-body plot twist that led to me reclaiming myself. From leaving an emotionally manipulative, 7-year relationship and moving back in with my parents at 33… to discovering Human Design, having a spiritual awakening, being diagnosed with ADHD at 34, and finding my person at 35—this is the painful, raw, real story of what it took to stop performing and start belonging to myself.

I share how I unhooked from perfectionism, stopped abandoning myself, healed my anxiety, reclaimed my weirdness, and learned to trust my own rhythm. This episode is for anyone in the thick of it—grieving the old story, craving more, and wondering if it’s too late (spoiler: it absolutely is not).

Come join me for a chat cutie. You’re exactly right on time.

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Chapters

00:00 Welcome to Too Much Not Enough

00:41 Episode Preview

01:35 The Struggle of Too Much vs. Not Enough

05:51 The Breakdown and Wake-Up Call

26:15 The Break Up

30:35 What the Fuck Happens Next?

33:31 Reconnecting with the Body and Mind

38:09 Surrendering to Life and Trusting the Process

43:07 Celebrating the Real Me

46:15 The Journey to Enoughness and Future Dreams

This podcast explores the deep connection between female leadership and the power of Divine Feminine Energy, helping the high-achiever and entrepreneur move beyond anxiety, exhaustion, overthinking and imposter syndrome, by exploring emotional intelligence, connection, and the art of receiving, while unpacking patterns like codependency, control, and resentment, and offering tools to regulate the nervous system, reconnect with intuition, and move toward clarity, confidence and trust all while celebrating intimacy, ambition, creativity, pleasure, abundance, and the grounding wisdom of somatics to find joy and transformation through alignment.

Hey you absolute cutie, I’m Hannah — speaker, somatic alchemist, and self-mastery coach for the soul-led, cycle-breaking wild ones, who are here to create BIG f*cking magic.

And this is Too Much Not Enough—the podcast where we stop shrinking, start trusting, and reclaim every messy, magical part of who we are.

Come join us, it's so damn good over here!