It’s good to have standards, but you need to be open minded and give people a chance. On this episode, Janis and Carly will discuss realistic expectations and how to know if you're being too picky. Is he too short? Bald? Didn't go to the right school? Doesn't make enough money? How he makes you feel is what matters most. Learn about setting realistic non-negotiables and reasonable expectations. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.  

Highlights:

(00:58) - How to know if you're being too picky

(04:34) - How to know if you're emotionally available

(05:40) - How to know if you're ready to get married

(06:27) - What can you learn from past relationships?

(07:41) - The magic mirror: Are you realistic with your expectations?

(09:46) - What should you look for in a partner?

(11:22) - Setting realistic nonnegotiables.  

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Books

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

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