Too Posh Podcast

We start the show talking about a guy that gave up showering and bathing for a week and Bernie thinks that is a really stupid experiment. We learn about a scientist that has not showered in over 14 years. Bernie says that nobody thinks that you are sexy if you do not shower or brush your teeth. Gabrielle talks about her recent trip to Los Angeles where she was told by an Uber driver that an Indian passenger told him that in the Indian culture it is a fact that if they do not shower or use deodorant and the more the man starts to smell the more attractive it is to a woman. Marcella freaks out if anyone smells bad and remembers being told as a child that she shouldn’t ever be the smelly kid in the room. Then Marcella tells us all about her teenage dance students and how she teaches them about personal hygiene. Then she talks about the misery of early flights that she has to take when out of town judging for dance competitions and when she has to fly with people that do not shower or brush their teeth. We discuss 3 dating deal breakers: Bad BreathBad KissingBad StyleThen we talk about how often people shower in other countries. We learn that Americans are average when it comes to hygiene. We discuss how we feel about living in messy houses. 6 foreign hygiene normal’s that Americans find disgusting. We learn about Squat toilets and no toilet paper in other countries. Then we discuss the devastating ways women have to deal with menstruation in other countries. This leads to the discussion about feminist women in the USA that believe in free bleeding. Penis and Pussy Talk with Miss Polly segment: How to broach the subject of personal hygiene with my partner if they are smelly
Question of the Day Segment: Would you ever try space tourism if you could afford it?

We learn that a Gigolo charges wealthy women $ 500 an hour and can earn $ 15.000 a week. We learn that some 18 year old girls pay a Gigolo to lose their virginity. This confuses Bernie very much. We learn what women really want behind closed doors and why this Gigolo’s clients pay for sex. This Gigolo tells that he received a $ 1000 tip from a husband to have sex with his wife. This discussion leads to our Porn star friend Emily Austin and we tell Bernie that her husband loves to watch her have sex with several guys at once. Somehow the conversation turns to Sugar Babies that are in serious relationships but still see their Sugar Daddies on the side without their boyfriends knowledge. The Gigolo tells us that the most requested service is the 50 Shades of gray experience. If you are getting lame sex at home say something. We encourage people to be honest in their relationships and ask for what they want. We discuss that if there is no sex in the relationship it usually falls apart. Gabrielle reveals that every city has Gigolo hangouts. Then we discuss Gigolos having sex with married couples which leads to a discussion about double penetration.This discussion takes a crazy turn and we are all so uncomfortable that we end up calling Miss Polly so she can explain it all to us and she tells us if that makes a guy gay. Penis and Pussy Talk with Miss Polly Segment: Would you hire a Gigolo? Absolutely hilarious discussionQuestion of the Day: What kind of underwear do you prefer wearing?

The Too Posh Girls have decided to re release this important and powerful episode and they have included the powerful and sobering sound bytes of Morgan and Bode Miller as well as Nicole Hughes as they share their heartbreaking stories of losing their toddlers on the same day to drowning.They share that a child 30 lbs and under can drown in 30 seconds. They give us some insight into what happened on their awful day and how this could happen to anyone. They were both vigilant mothers about water safety and took every precaution known to man.Yet their babies drowned and when you hear them tell their stories it will change your life forever.It is heart wrenching, yet we owe it to them to listen since they are brave enough to share their stories.They have united in their grief and want to bring the urgency of this conversation to everyone. They are pushing to have this conversation at every well visit appointment in ever doctors office. They are pushing for a change with the American Academy of Pediatrics.Nicole Hughes talks about Levi’s legacy program for water guardians.
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Marcella and Gabrielle talk about the times they have been in situations where parents will talk about their children so much that it becomes annoying. Especially the ones, where we have never met said children. Marcella thinks the bullet points are great, but spare the details. The bragging about children should be limited to family and close friends. Non Stop bragging in a large group of people where everyone has children is rude, especially those Moms that always interrupt. Marcella suggests for Moms to watch Bad Mom’s Christmas, the movie. It is especially terrible when Moms go on and on about their child and never ask about yours. We then talk about the fact that parents do all the school projects for their kids, because they are in competition with everyone. Marcella encourages Moms to get a hobby. Parents love to brag about that their child received a letter from The Duke Star Education Summer program and don’t realize that every child gets that letter. It is a business.Marcella, who teaches lots and lots of kids warns parents that their children confide in her always how stressed they are. Then we discuss the 11 most annoying parents on social media. 

1. The Over The Top Picture Poster2. Your actual parents3. The Misinformer4. The Humblebragger5. The One Upper6. The Know It All7. Too Cool For Parenting8. The Complainer9. The Crafty Parent10. TMI11. Flawless Facebook Families 

Parents be humble about your children. Mom’s lose their identity along the way and start using their children and living their dreams through them. Penis and Pussy Segment with Miss Polly: We get Miss Polly’s opinion about today’s topic Question Of The Day Segment: How do you feel about Clowns?

Bernie Diamond joins us again as co host and he shares the super exciting news that he got engaged to his amazing, Russian girlfriend after a short break up. Then we jump right into our discussion of 7 questions to ask when determining whether your partner is a narcissist or just self absorbed. 1. Do they want to impress strangers more than they want to impress you? 2. Do they consider themselves special in some way that sets them apart from others?This subject somehow makes us talk about how we are going to be more selective on who we bring on as guests because we are very disappointed that a lot of our guests come on the show and then do not share their stories. 3. Do they give you the silent treatment? Both Marcella and Gabrielle get anxiety when reading this because they both have experienced this form of treatment in their lives. Gabrielle then shares a little bit about how her parents would not speak to each other for weeks or months sometimes and how her whole family used silent treatment as punishment.She shares that her Dad didn’t speak to her for over 20 years and died without ever contacting her.Gabrielle broke the chain of this behavior and doesn’t allow silent treatment in her family at all. Then Bernie shares that he is not talking to his Dad because of the disappointment of him leaving his Mom, after they went through so many tragic events together. 4. Are they ridiculously thin-skinned, prickly at every perceived slight?  5. Do they react angrily when you disagree with them? This point makes Marcella share her outbursts of anger that are always prompted by a man that cheats. She is beyond honest about her anger issues and has often thought she should go to anger management classes. When she finds out that a boyfriend cheated her anger pushes her to a different level that includes throwing dishes and glasses etc. 6. Do they ever give you compliments?7. Do they empathize when you experience heartache or just fake it? P + P Talk with Miss Polly Segment: Miss Polly has very strong opinions when asked if narcissists can change. Question of the Day Segment: Have you ever sent a text to the wrong person? The question of the day somehow prompts us to talk about a disturbing encounter that Gabrielle experienced with a boutique customer that ended with her receiving many penis pictures.We then talk about dick pics and Chat roulette. This conversation is hilarious. Don’t miss it.

We discuss 17 points to remember that will help us to find “THE ONE” for your life. 1. You are not too old. This makes Marcella go on a rant about rude people who think they can have opinions about putting pressure on women that are not married or do not have children at certain ages. 2. Love is not reserved for the special people in this world. 3. It is a numbers game 4. Relax and do you5. Love does not make everything better6. Don’t be negative Marcella tells us about a dance judge that she had to share a room with for a whole weekend that was the most negative person she has ever met 7. Don’t pretend you are ok8. Don’t stay at home all the time9. Don’t rely on others10. Ask others to help11. Build a good life for yourself12. Have faith13. Know you deserve love14. Accept the love offered to you 15. Throw out the idea of an ideal partner Bernie talks about a service at his church “Elevate Church” and Pastor Keith Kraft talking about how he and his wife make their marriage work. 17. Be a better communicator 
We talk about that many of Marcella’s girlfriends call Gabrielle for advice and Bernie thinks that Gabrielle and her husband Patrick need to do a podcast on marriage and relationship advice. Marcella says that sometimes love is not enough. Miss Polly was not available for her segment for this episodeQuestion of the Day Segment: Will you sign up for Facebook New Secret Crush?This discussion ends with us planning to start a Dating Game Segment with Bernie in future episodes

Marcella’s brave testimony about her mental and physical abusive relationship continues to be an inspiration to others and it has helped so many woman come forward with their own stories and helps heal their broken hearts. We hope that women can see the signs and leave at the first sign of abuse.

After releasing this episode over a year ago Valerie has changed her entire life. She has lost an enormous amount of weight, inspires and helps women everywhere, is writing a book and started 2 businesses. She is healing from the traumatic events that have happened to her and is a better mother than ever before. ——————Episode 7:
Valerie Wilhelm shares her brave and powerful testimony of her life in a volatile, abusive relationship. She shares the gripping details of drug addiction, alcoholism, domestic violence, gas lighting, and the night her and her children escaped from being murdered and her story ending with her husband committing suicide.
On this episode we share Valerie’s incredible life story that includes very private details of her now deceased husband. It takes incredible strength and bravery to share a story like this and is intended to help women of all ages to learn to recognize the red flags. Every time a victim of abuse gets to speak about their experiences it allows them to heal a little bit more. We knew him personally and he was an amazing man and father but together in their relationship they were so volatile that it turned disastrous.
The pushed each others buttons to the lowest points imaginable.

Bernie Diamond joins us at CoHost again as we discuss this very important topic. We go through the 11 signs and right off the bat Bernie thinks everyone should keep this list and make sure they check it while dating. 1. They are charming AF at first2. They hog the conversation talking about how great they are As Gabrielle is reading the explanation of this point Bernie brings up that all this sounds very familiar to a person we all know here in Dallas, also known as the self proclaimed former King of Dallas,who was Marcella’s abusive boyfriend that she talks about in Episode 15, when she shared her heart wrenching, brave story.We then ask if you are born a narcissist?3. They feed off your compliments.Gabrielle says that true narcissists show their traits very early. Bernie believes that if you are with a narcissist you are going to live in hell.Gabrielle says that the sooner you push back the sooner you know if you are dealing with a narcissist. 4. They lack empathy5. They don’t have any long term friends Bernie is wondering how narcissists can get away with being such assholesWe completely skip over point 6 – 7. They gaslight you8. They dance around defining the relationship9.They think they are right about everything and never apologize Bernie says that this is textbook like the former self proclaimed King of Dallas. Marcella talks about her pros and cons list and how that puts things in perspective Then the discussion about dating married people comes up and Marcella talks about how she would never, ever consider it, because she has too much respect for women and would never want to inflict this pain on anyone. She then talks about a recent incident when a married family friend texted her and how disappointing that is. 10. They panic when you try to break up with them. Bernie forces Gabrielle to tell some of her dating rules and the discussion arises that if you don’t kiss on the first date what if they end up being a bad kisser and then you wasted your time. 11. …. and when you show them you are really done, they lash out. Marcella says that a narcissist can beat you down so much that you don’t feel like yourself and you are so lost. Sadly Miss Polly wasn’t available for this episode but we end the show with the question of the Day.What sport would be funniest to add alcohol to.

Sadly Leighton Fields could not uphold his commitment to the podcast due to work, but we hope he can pop in from time to time. We are excited that Bernie Diamond decided to be our co host for the next 3 episodes. If you would like to hear his insane life story and survival of a shooting in Dallas please listen to his gripping Episode 46 and watch it on youtube. We talk about how marriage is tough as it is and if you break the trust by cheating it is almost impossible to survive. Very few marriages are in healthy spots and if kids are involved it makes everything so much worse. Social media has made it so much easier to cheat, and people compare their relationships because of it. It is very rare that social media matches up to what someone’s real life is. Ask yourself the question: “Could you give your phone to your significant other for an entire day?”Marcella thinks that guys think too much with their little head. Bernie then tells a recent story where a fun evening took a drastic turn that ended a serious relationship. A fun night out instantly turned into hell out of nowhere. Marcella tells us about one of her exes when she found out that he cheated, and she believes that cheaters will go to their graves denying, denying, denying. She also feels that you can paint an excuse on anything to make it ok to cheat. One nights stands, midlife crisis etc. Broken and hurt people hurt people. It is important for someone to heal themselves before jumping back into dating. Bernie tells us a recent experience with online dating. Gabrielle believes that you have to have God in your lives and in the center of your marriage to give yourself a chance of a successful marriage. Bernie says that people are so fearful of being alone that they stay in relationships they shouldn’t be in. We all agree that not being appreciated is a huge problem in all relationships. Our little Too Posh Podcast comes to the conclusion that relationships and marriages cannot survive cheating, however if our listeners disagree with us we would love to hear from you. Miss Polly was not available for this episode but we did have the Question of the Day segment: Do you believe in Love at first sight