Too Pretty To Be Single

On the final episode of season one we are doing things a little different! I wanted to take some time to reflect on why I started the podcast, and give you all a deeper insight into my story and why I’m so passionate about singleness! 

I sit down with my dear friend Vanessa, and we talk through all the hard and sweet things I have experienced since starting the podcast. We talk about why it’s important to do things that scare you, and the value in believing in yourself and your vision. We sift through the beauty of vulnerability as well as  the challenging things that come along with putting yourself out there! 

Thanks so much for being a part of the Too Pretty To Be Single fam! We will see you very soon for season two! 

Xx,

Mary 

*Trigger warning* - this episode contains conversations regarding sexual assult -

Pure Barre Sales Manger, Brittney Tomlin, bravely shares her trauma story with us is hopes to inspire anyone who has ever felt unheard or fearful to speak their truth.  We talk about the power that unresolved trauma can have on your dating life and on your sense of self.  We dive into the difficulties of walking away from toxic relationships, and how to find help (only when you are ready).  

We talk about how exercise and connection have shaped our healing journey's as part of the Pure Barre community, and the importance of surrounding yourself with positive messages that drive you forward.  

My favorite quote from the episode: " As soon as I got out of that relationship, I remembered  how much I missed myself." 

Performer and fitness instructor, Nancy Owens, gives us her unique perspective on singleness, independence, and scratching your creative itches.  At the age of 57, after a decade of being a performer in New York City, she gives us a look into her a full life of dating, following her passions, and cultivating genuine connection.    

We dive into the honest realities of divorce, loneliness, and living up to expectations.  We talk growing up in a small town, going against the "norm", and reconnecting with the parts of ourselves that bring us joy.  

My Favorite Quote from the Episode: "Even the happiest person is lonely sometimes."

Cru team leader, Erin Crumley, shares her experience with mid- twenties break ups and her journey of grieving, processing, and healing.  She shares all over her nuggets of wisdom from her therapy journey and what set her up for the most epic 30th birthday party! We talk understanding the difference between grief, fear, and shame and how to not let your challenging feelings rule your decisions or your sense of self.  

My favorite quote from the episode : "It's better to experience loneliness in singleness than in marriage."

Therapist, Nick Cutler, bring us our very first male take on singleness!  We dive into the importance of doing personal work in the midst of healing from heartbreak, building up your community, and learning how to find healthy dependency in relationships.  

My favorite quote from the episode: "Who are in the midst of your relationships?  You have to learn how to bring yourself to a relationship instead of hoping the other person brings it out of you. " 

Entrepreneur, Alysse Hernandez, shares her experiences traveling across the world for 11 months with the world race! 

She talks finding joy in the midst of pain, striving for intentionally in everyday life, and the importance of authenticity.  

My favorite quote from the episode:  “Be present with the person that's right in front of you, it's easy to miss out on the beauty of today if you're too busy dreaming about tomorrow." 

Therapist and event coordinator, Paige Clayton, gives us a whole new perspective on singleness as our first ever guest in her mid 50’s! 

She shares all the knowledge she has gained through career changes, healing from divorce, traveling the world, and continuing to trust God even through uncertainty and disappointment. 

My favorite quote from the episode: 

“The grass isn't greener, it's just a different kind of good." 

9th grade English teacher Jill Runser talks the power of intentional female friendships, how to make the most of being the single friend at the wedding, and allowing yourself to “feel your feelings.”  

My favorite quote from the episode: 

“Don’t compare the hardest part of your life against the best part of someone else’s.”

Real Estate Mogul Laura Grace Dziagwa talks aligning your dating life with your personal goals, the benefits of failure, and the importance of just saying "yes."  She shares her wildest travel, dating, and marriage proposal stories along with her tips on how to cultivate a mindset of gratitude in your daily life.  

My favorite quote from the episode: 

"You can’t have unfinished business within yourself, and hope someone else can fix it for you."