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  • Can a Football Game Be Oneg Shabbat?


    What do you do when the biggest social event of the year at Yale (the Harvard-Yale football game) happens to fall on Shabbat? Every single year.

    JLIC Yale co-director Rabbi Dr. Alex Ozar joins Rabbi Don Cantor to talk through a question that comes up constantly on college campuses: How do you actually guide students who genuinely care about Shabbat but also really want to be part of their college community?

    Alex isn't interested in just saying "don't go" and leaving it at that. He walks through the sources, from the Shulchan Aruch on weekday speech to debates about studying secular subjects on Shabbat, to show that halacha itself grapples with the messiness of being human. The real question isn't just "is this allowed?" It's: When you know students are going to go anyway, what's your job as their rabbi?

    Alex shares his approach: Be clear about what you actually think is best. But then help students think seriously about what they're doing and why. Push them to ask whether they're really experiencing oneg Shabbat or just giving in to FOMO. And maybe, just maybe, that kind of honest wrestling with the question becomes the path to real growth.

    This conversation goes way beyond football. It's about how we meet people where they are while still holding up ideals worth striving for.

    Key Topics:

    • Why the Yale-Harvard game is such a big deal (and why it's always on Shabbat)
    • Three types of students and how to talk to each one
    • What the sources actually say about enjoying yourself on Shabbat
    • Can attending a football game ever be oneg Shabbat? (Spoiler: it's complicated)
    • Meeting students where they are without just rubber-stamping everything
    • How this applies way beyond college campuses
      • 45 min
    • Building an All-Star Staff: The Anatomy of a JLIC Director

       

      In this episode of the Torah JLIC Podcast, hosts Don and Alex sit down with Tal Attia, JLIC's Chief Operating Officer, to explore what goes into building JLIC's exceptional staff of campus directors across North America and Israel.

      The Journey to JLIC Leadership

      • Tal's unexpected path from college student to campus director to COO
      • The transition from being "needed constantly" on campus to behind-the-desk leadership
      • How a Shabbat conversation with Rabbi Josh Joseph changed everything

        • What Makes a Great JLIC Director

        • The critical importance of "avdut" (servant leadership) over ego
        • Why sophisticated, individualized approaches to Judaism matter more than cookie-cutter programs
        • The necessity of deep self-awareness for campus work
        • How JLIC uniquely empowers women in Orthodox Jewish leadership

          • The Recruitment Philosophy

          • Why Tal meets with potential candidates years before they're ready
          • The difference between recruitment and leadership development
          • How matching couples to specific campus cultures makes all the difference
          • Learning to trust that people land where they're supposed to be

            • Retention and Growth

            • Balancing the marathon vs. sprint mentality in campus work
            • Supporting directors in discovering their next calling
            • Why it's a win when JLIC alumni move to other Jewish leadership roles
            • The broader challenge of sustaining the Jewish education pipeline

              • Core Values

              • How the concept of achrayut (responsibility) drives meaningful work
              • Creating space for students to lead rather than being "the big man on campus"
              • The unique opportunity JLIC provides for women in rabbinic leadership
                • Memorable Quotes

                "If you think you're gonna get up and give a drash every Friday night, you're sorely mistaken... No matter how amazing your shiur or event might be, you're going to be creating a 10 times bigger impact if you empower a student to create that shiur or that event."

                "We throw you in the deep end. Next thing you know, you are the directors and the rabbinic leaders of a campus community. It could be as many as 600 students who are looking to you for your leadership."

                 

                33 min
              • Yom Kippur at the Beach: Israel's Religious Awakening
                Rabbi Joe Wolfson shares his experience of Yom Kippur in Tel Aviv, the remarkable outdoor prayer services that brought together thousands of secular and religious Israelis, and reflects on how the nation is navigating a uniquely religious moment in its history.

                Featured Guest
                Rabbi Joe Wolfson – Leader of JIC Tel Aviv community and Director of JLIC's Abraham's House, a beit midrash (learning center) serving as an incubator for societal impact.

                Key Topics Discussed
                Yom Kippur in Tel Aviv: A City Transformed
                • Why Tel Aviv is "the greatest city in the world to spend Yom Kippur"
                • The 25-hour silence: a secular city embracing sacred time
                • Outdoor tefillot (prayer services) at Kikar Atarim by the sea, drawing up to 5,000 people
                • 90% of attendees are non-synagogue regulars – prayer without walls
                • The healing of religious-secular tensions from previous years
                  • Israel's Current Religious Atmosphere
                  • The powerful experience of praying for hostages and witnessing answered prayers
                  • A nation living in an "astonishingly religious moment"
                  • Public religious expression transcending sectoral divides: Shehecheyanu blessings, tzitzit in Tel Aviv, religious music in the mainstream
                  • The theological significance of Shehecheyanu during moments of darkness being erased
                  • God's action and human action no longer treated as competing narratives
                    • Themes
                    ✦ Religious-secular bridge-building in Israel
                    ✦ Public prayer and communal spiritual experience
                    ✦ Theology of crisis and answered prayer
                    ✦ Moving forward after national trauma
                    ✦ The role of hope in Jewish thought and practice
                    36 min
                  • Godly EQ: The Emotional Intelligence of Consolation

                    In this episode, Rabbi Alex Ozar (JLIC Yale) and Rabbi Don Cantor (Richmond Jewish Learning Experience, formerly JLIC Johns Hopkins) continue their exploration of Jewish consolation during times of national tragedy. Drawing from the seven Haftarot of consolation and provocative midrashim, they unpack what it means for a broken people to seek comfort and why human messengers aren't enough.

                    Episode Highlights

                    The Failure of Prophets as Comforters

                    • Why the Jewish people rejected every prophet sent to console them
                    • The inherent ambivalence in all human relationships
                    • "How are we supposed to trust you when you've also condemned us?"

                      • Practical Application for Today

                      • Why internal Jewish divisions cause deeper pain than external threats
                      • The call for vulnerable, accountable conversations within the Jewish community
                      • How showing up for each other in godly ways becomes the vehicle for divine consolation
                        • Key Themes
                        • Nechamah (Consolation) as an ongoing process, not a one-time fix
                        • The inadequacy of mere words vs. genuine presence
                        • Human ambivalence and why no person can offer pure, unmixed comfort
                        • Mutual vulnerability as the foundation for healing relationships
                        • The blurred line between divine-human and human-human relationships
                          • 37 min
                        • What is Consolation?

                          Don and Alex explore the concept of consolation (nechamah) during difficult times, examining what true comfort means in Judaism and how communities can provide genuine solace during periods of collective pain.

                          Key Topics
                          The Nature of Consolation

                          Key Insight: The Hebrew "Nachamu" means "comfort [my people]" - it's a command to provide consolation, not merely receive it. Consolation is fundamentally human work, not just divine intervention.

                          The Midrashic Teaching

                          A dialogue from Pesikta d'Rav Kahana shows God commanding prophets to comfort the people, but the people respond they've been abandoned. The prophets report back that words alone aren't enough - divine presence is required.

                          The Parable of the King and Queen

                          A king offers his childless wife a divorce and any precious object from his palace. At their farewell party, she has him carried to her father's house while he sleeps. When he wakes confused, she explains: "You said I could take the most precious thing - there's nothing more precious to me than you."

                          Key Message: What matters most in relationships is presence, not words or arrangements. True consolation requires showing up in person.

                          Main Takeaways
                          • True comfort comes from relationships and presence, not external fixes
                          • Those who deliver harsh truths must also provide hope and care
                          • During times of division, showing up for each other is essential
                          • Our commitment should be based on joy in the relationship, not just duty
                            • 39 min
                          • Is Anyone Evil?
                            In a world that feels increasingly divided into stark categories of "good" and "evil," how should we confront the rising tide of antisemitism on college campuses? While demanding institutional accountability is a crucial first step, Rabbi Alex Ozar argues it is not enough. In this thought-provoking episode, he challenges listeners to move beyond a purely defensive or reactive posture and adopt a more constructive, and profoundly Jewish, spiritual framework.
                             
                            Drawing on a teaching from Maimonides (the Rambam), Rabbi Ozar proposes a counterintuitive idea: that for all practical purposes, there are no truly "evil" people, only "mediocre" ones—complex human beings who are a bundle of good deeds, bad deeds, and, most importantly, the potential for change. This perspective forces us to stop demonizing our opponents as inhuman monsters and instead see them as fellow humans who are tragically mistaken.
                             
                            By embracing this difficult but powerful idea, we can unlock a new way of engaging. It allows us to hold people accountable for their harmful actions without closing the door on dialogue, growth, and the possibility of building a better world together.
                             
                            In this episode, Rabbi Alex Ozar explores:
                            • The Limits of a Defensive Posture: Why simply reacting to antisemitic incidents, while necessary, will never solve the underlying problem.
                            • The Rambam's Radical Idea: An exploration of Maimonides' teaching that every living person should be considered a-beinoni;(an "in—betweener"), neither wholly righteous nor wholly wicked, and how this idea reframes our entire approach to conflict.
                            • A Path to a More Constructive Future: How viewing our opponents as human—flawed, responsible, but capable of change—empowers us to address the root causes of hate and actively work toward building a better, more understanding society.
                              • 48 min
                            • Is Your Job Holy?

                              In this episode, Rav Shlomo Brukirer shares his transformative journey from a young yeshiva student helping peers struggling with substance abuse to becoming a communal rabbi dedicated to serving college students. Drawing from a life-changing Talmudic teaching about praying for those who suffer, Rav Brukirer explores how ordinary work can become holy through intention and service to others.

                              The conversation weaves together personal stories, Talmudic wisdom, and practical insights about building inclusive Jewish communities where every person feels seen and valued.

                              🔹 Holiness in Everyday Work

                              • Every job can become sacred when performed with the intention to serve others
                              • Shifting perspective from "just a job" to partnership with God

                                • 🔹 The Power of Being Seen

                                • Building community through individual conversations and genuine presence
                                • Meeting students where they are, not where we think they should be
                                • The importance of showing up consistently, even without immediate feedback

                                  • 🔹 Talmudic Wisdom on Leadership

                                  • A rabbi's job is to pray for people and understand their struggles
                                  • Those who suffer under difficult circumstances are judged with compassion
                                  • Leaders must be with the people, like the prophet Samuel who traveled to every town
                                    • Resources Mentioned
                                    • The Talmudic passage about why people sin and divine judgment (Sanhedrin, 4th chapter)
                                    • The Book of Ruth as a model for inclusive society
                                    • The role of the High Priest (Kohen Gadol) in seeking mercy for Israel

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                                      27 min
                                    • What Does it Mean to Trust God?

                                       

                                      In this special episode, Rabbi Don Cantor takes the microphone as guest to explore deep questions about faith, trust in God, and how these concepts apply to real-world challenges. Through textual analysis and personal reflections, Rav Don and host Rabbi Alex Ozar delve into what it truly means to have faith in God beyond simplistic notions that "everything will work out."

                                      Key Insights
                                      • Faith in God isn't believing that everything will work out perfectly, but accepting that we aren't in complete control
                                      • The desire to control outcomes through unethical means reflects a lack of trust in God's world
                                      • True faith involves believing that ethical approaches are ultimately the best way to resolve problems
                                      • Community leadership requires facilitating genuine relationships rather than imposing rigid structures

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                                        48 min
                                      • Matza, Midterms, and Mechirat Chametz: A JLIC Guide to Pesach
                                        This week, hosts Rabbi Don Cantor and Rabbi, Dr. Alex Ozar are joined by Rabbi Menachem Schrader, founder of JLIC and its longtime Posek (Halakhic decisor), for a deep dive into navigating Passover observance in a college setting. With decades of experience answering student questions, Rabbi Schrader offers invaluable guidance.
                                        Topics covered include:
                                        • Cleaning & Searching (Bedikat Chametz): How thorough do you need to be in a dorm, especially shared ones? What's your responsibility regarding a roommate's mess or belongings (Jewish or not)?
                                        • Dealing with Chametz: Clarifying ownership rules for food belonging to you, your roommate, or co-owned items. Practical methods for transferring ownership (kinyan) before Pesach.
                                        • Getting Rid of Chametz: Is burning (biur) preferable to selling/giving it away? Addressing concerns about wastefulness (Bal Tashchis). Should students join the communal sale (Mechirat Chametz) even if they think they're chametz-free?
                                        • Kashering: Tips and Halakhic guidance for making a rental kitchen kosher for Pesach, addressing concerns about ovens (self-cleaning cycles, high heat), countertops, and limited equipment.
                                        • Erev Pesach on Shabbat (2024 Specific): How to handle meals using egg matzah, when to stop eating chametz alternatives, and navigating Shalosh Seudos.
                                        • Preparing for the Seder: Advice on setting up when Yom Tov begins Saturday night.
                                        • Going Home: Navigating Pesach observance when visiting family with different standards.
                                        • Classes & Work: Guidance on attending classes or doing schoolwork during Yom Tov and Chol HaMoed (intermediate days).
                                          Whether you're a student preparing for Pesach on campus, heading home, or an educator supporting students, this episode provides essential Halakhic insights and practical solutions.
                                          32 min
                                        • Can Your Rabbi Be Your Therapist?
                                          In this powerful episode, Rav Don and Rav Alex welcome Rabbi Avi Schwartz, who brings his unique dual expertise as both a JLIC rabbi and licensed social worker. Rav Avi dives into his vital work supporting Jewish college students navigating religious commitments alongside mental health challenges.

                                          Episode Highlights:
                                          • Bridging Two Worlds: Rabbi Schwartz reveals how he balances his rabbinical role with mental health expertise, establishing clear boundaries while recognizing valuable overlaps.
                                          • When OCD Meets Religious Observance: Discover how mental health conditions directly impact halakhic practice, and learn the critical signs that distinguish religious questions from mental health concerns.
                                          • Personalized Guidance: Rav Avi demonstrates how understanding a student's emotional state transforms his rabbinic advice, especially in sensitive areas like dating and personal development.
                                          • Breaking Stigmas: The conversation tackles mental health stigma in Orthodox communities head-on, offering practical strategies for encouraging students to seek help.
                                          • Torah Psychology: Explore how ancient Torah narratives provide profound psychological insights, with Rabbi Schwartz illustrating how the story of the spies illuminates modern concepts like projection.
                                          • Looking Forward: Rav Avi shares his exciting plans to bring mental health support to English-speaking students in Israel and potentially expand his work to IDF veterans.
                                            This thought-provoking episode illuminates the psychological dimensions of Jewish life and showcases how sensitivity and understanding enhance religious guidance.
                                            35 min

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