Trail Blazers & Chain Breakers

"If you wish to get out of prison, the first thing you must do is realize you are in prison. If you think you are free, you can't escape."  (G.I.Gurdjieff) In today's episode we talk: when you don't even realize you’re in prison, ways we imprison ourselves, ways we might be holding our children prisoner, and how to break out of  these prisons!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke 

We all want to get better, but sometimes thinking that we need to "fix" ourselves can actually be a trap... In today's episode we go deep on being a self-development junkie, how you could be missing the lesson if you're trying to "fix" yourself, creating the problems we're trying to avoid, "fixing" the kids & more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke 

"What's best for the child isn't always what's most convenient for the parent."  We all probably know this on some level, but what does that look like in your life?  This week, we cover adult temper tantrums, our job as parents, why you should allow your kids to question you, kids lying and much more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke 

Conflict in any relationship is never fun, but it can be necessary, and is always an opportunity for growth. This week, we go deep on conflict, fighting, how to repair after a fight, how to fight fair, the difference between disagreement & disrespect, and much more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke 

There is no magic finish line in growth or life.  So many of us miss enjoying the journey because we're focused on the destination. In today's episode, we talk "I'll be happy when...," magic finish lines, society's definition of success vs. yours, how it's never too late to start and more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke 

We may know who we want to become, but so many of us struggle to actually get there. What if the reason we can't become who we want is because we're too attached to who we've been? In today's episode, we talk about why changing our stories is simple but not easy, being attached to the stories we tell, clinging to anger & resentment & more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke

"There is no greater burden on a child than the unlived life of a parent." These words from Carl Jung are a sobering reminder of one of the deepest dangers of being a parent. In today's episode, we go deep on legacy & burden, living vicariously through our children, why chasing our dreams is one of the greatest things we can do for our kids, and more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke

Sometimes all we want is to know where the finish line is... but unfortunately, when it comes to any kind of personal growth, there is no magic finish line, and there is no guaranteed timeframe.  This week, we talk about how these expectations actually hold us back, how to find the lesson in struggles, what a growth hangover is, and more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke

Everyone wants more joy, but sometimes we don't know how to find it... In today's episode, we talk clearing space for joy, how joy is a choice, when joy feels unsafe and more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke

The bottom line is: no one is coming to save you. No one can heal you, make you into a better person, or "fix" you. You have to do it yourself.  The bright side is: there are plenty of people who can help you, but only after you make the decision to save yourself.  We go deep on this truth in today's episode, as well as how our problems aren't special, the desire for instant gratification, being a "self-development junkie" & more!

Just a warning: we do occasionally swear in these episodes.  It's who we are, and we believe in giving you an authentic picture of ourselves.  We don't curse like sailors, but if you are listening with younger kids around, we warned you!

If you enjoyed the episode, would you please leave a quick rating or review on Apple Podcasts for us? Doing this helps more people find the podcast which means even more people can benefit from the conversations. We really appreciate you and your time, and thanks, as always, for listening!

Find us on Instagram, and watch "Coffee Talk w Ashley & Locke," our LIVE show every Friday @ 8:30 AM:  ashley_haman  &  lockehaman
To learn more about the podcast, visit www.TrailBlazersChainBreakers.com
To schedule a call to learn more about the Chain Breaker Men's Group, go to www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/men
To coach with Ashley. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/ashley
To coach with Locke. visit
www.trailblazerschainbreakers.com/locke