“Why do I fall apart when I thought I was ready?”
“Why can’t I stay calm when things go sideways?”

If you’ve ever been caught off guard in a moment that felt normal seconds ago…
If your heart pounds, your thoughts scramble, and suddenly the conversation is over before it begins…
You’re not failing—you’re just under-trained.

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we dive deep into the overlooked truth: self-mastery in relationships isn’t just about belief or insight—it’s about training. Just like a dancer drills her moves or a musician repeats scales, you must rehearse how you’ll respond to chaos, triggers, and miscommunication.

Inside, we discuss:

• Why the "Holy Ghost" doesn’t use panic as a communication tool

• The real reason you feel like the problem—even when you’re not

• What it means when your first thought is “he did something wrong”

• Why discernment is a drilled skill, not a magical moment

• The fire drill method for responding to sudden conflict

• And how to reclaim your confidence with practiced spiritual courage

Your mind, like your muscles, can be trained.
But weeds grow by default—peace doesn’t.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/going-deeper-addressing-the-full-continuum-of-change-with-the-chemical-scale/

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