LGBTQ+ individuals in conservative religious environments often face a harrowing struggle to discern between spiritual abuse and genuine care. Recognizing the signs of toxic faith communities—such as demands for blind loyalty, prioritizing rules over people, and equating dissent with disobedience—can be life-changing for those trapped in cycles of shame and fear. Understanding how to find our "true north" amidst conflicting messages is crucial for all of us who may be questioning our place in a spiritually abusive situation. By learning to prioritize love as a core value and seek communities that welcome critical thinking, we can embark on a transformative journey towards self-acceptance and authentic faith.

Reference:
Lytle, Megan C., et al. (2018), "Association of Religiosity With Sexual Minority Suicide Ideation and Attempt." American Journal of Preventive Medicine, 54(5), 644-651. https://www.ajpmonline.org/article/S0749-3797(18)30050-3/abstract?uuid=uuid%3Aab318321-cbaf-4f50-9b7e-a73e75a8b959

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In 1996, New Testament scholar Richard B. Hays wrote the definitive text on New Testament Ethics for the Evangelical Christian church. In the chapter on homosexuality, he wrote, "same-sex relationships are a tragic distortion of God's created order." Now, twenty-eight years later, he confessed that he got it wrong. And it's sending shockwaves through the church. This is his story.

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Original article: https://personalbrandingblog.com/if-you-want-to-be-genuinely-happy-without-being-rich-say-goodbye-to-these-behaviors/

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