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  • Raising Siblings and Starting a Business With Maria Davila

    Maria Isabel Davila born in Bayamon Puerto Rico in 1977, has been through many challenges in her life. At age 11 her parents divorced and moved to the state of Connecticut. As we all know, Hispanics tend to relay all the responsibility to the oldest. Maria Isabel had 2 younger siblings and she had to raise them. She worked thru the summers as a Camp Counselor at Latino Youth Development and as years passed, she worked in many jobs to help her mother financially.


    Highlights: 

    • Starting his business around her kid's schedule. (1:56)
    • Maria’s story of how she started her own business. (4:35)
    • How she got started in notary services. (7:34)
    • What she does in her business. (10:39)
    • Why it’s so important that we take a stand to help victims of domestic violence. (13:25)
    • How to break the cycle of addiction. (15:44)
    • Don’t stay in your abuser’s circle. (18:09)
    • A lot of men deserve a second chance too. (20:23)
    • How does it feel to know that so many people can count on you? (22:37)

    • Key Takeaway:


      "Stop being scared. There's nothing worse than being scared. Change your mindset"

      31 min
    • From Self-Conscious to World Champion With Mary Cheyne

      Mary began her career as a socially awkward computer programmer who hid behind her desk because she was too self-conscious.  Mary Cheyne with her Toastmaster Contest TrophiesBut today, as a World Champion of Public Speaking and first runner-up, out of 25,000 contestants from 14 countries, she is proof that transformation is possible.  How did she get there?   By understanding that becoming GREAT at public speaking isn’t just about the techniques of how to be a good speaker, rather it starts with discovering how to trust yourself first. Especially how to embrace the yin and yang of your feminine and masculine energy that allows you to show up powerfully in your communication and presentation, even in situations that would typically feel intimidating.  Guided by this zen philosophy, Mary created processes to help women communicate in a way where they feel seen, heard, valued, and respected by those they are speaking with.  


      Two fun facts about Mary are: She holds a karate black belt rank and plays the ukulele.


      Episode Highlights:

      • The butterfly is like a lotus flower - (2:26)
      • Working with grown-ups vs un-grown-ups - (7:50)
      • Pivot from software training to speaking training and communications training - (14:17)
      • The fear of rejection and how she came to understand it - (20:32)
      • How do you get people to believe that this is possible? - (25:27)
      • How do you get over mom guilt? - (31:03)
      • What she loves about taekwondo - (37:03)
      • Mary’s story of how showing authenticity and becoming in tune with what you really are can take you to the next level - (43:15)
      • Be realistic with yourself and your capabilities - (48:43)
      • What would the world look like if it was led by heart-centered women who care about each other? - (53:53)

      • Key Takeaway:


        "The goal is to see hearts, a sincere heart of service that is particularly interested in seeing more women in positions of leadership. Just picture what the world would be like if it were run by heart-centered women who genuinely care and support one another."


        Resources: 

        Magnetic Podium 

        1 hr 2 min
      • English 4 Life Network With Leonela Gonzalez-Fogarty

        Leonela Gonzalez-Fogarty is Venezuelan-American with a Bostonian heart. She is the founder of English 4 Life Network. She is an English and lifestyle coach. She works with Hispanic Women Professionals and entrepreneurs who want to speak English with confidence to connect with the culture and maximize their possibilities.  She is passionate about teaching and immersing conversational English in multicultural contexts, personal and professional with more than 23 years of experience.  She is a lifelong learner who is continuously learning and innovating to better guide her students to explore and develop their human potential. She is a CHO, a specialist in transforming a Challenge into an Opportunity.


        Episode Highlights: 

        • Learning English as a second language as an adult - (1:40)
        • Taking a step back from being a teacher to being a student - (5:51)
        • Getting out of your comfort zone to learn - (8:16)
        • Why did you decide to learn English? - (12:20)
        • The difference between learning a language as an adult vs. learning it as a kid - (13:44)
        • We need to hear more of the language - (17:42)
        • The fear doesn’t get you where you want to go - (19:25)
        • Who do you want to help today? - (24:16)
        • What are your challenges and what are the best practices for you? - (26:30)

        • Key Takeaway


          "It's never too late to start over or learn something new."


          Resources:

          English4Life Network


          34 min
        • Finding Beauty Beyond The Chaos With Kat Mendez

          Kat is the founder of A Women's Intentions. This initiative will help you realize that finding beauty beyond the chaos is a journey. It is a process of allowing you to lead your life with INTENTION and to find your voice. Becoming your own person and breaking away from the cycle of conformity is a challenging yet rewarding journey. The best part is that with the community she's building you are not in this alone. Always remember, the beginning starts where the end stops.


          Episode Highlights:

          • Dealing with the inability to show up for yourself - (4:01)
          • The importance of community in your life - (9:44)
          • Sometimes I need that solitude and sometimes I need to be nurtured by something outside of myself - (14:18)
          • Why have social nightclubs? - (21:19)
          • What is the wow factor of Cat? - (27:10)
          • When you radiate the love that’s when your friends start to change your environment - (31:09)
          • Life is a beautiful thing. You can’t pray or wish for strength, but you can choose to be strong - (36:15)
          • “It’s just my job to give you what I can” - (41:28)
          • The importance of creating opportunities for other people’s lives - (47:14)

          • Key Takeaway:


            "Life has its own beauty. A lot of the things in my life that have hurt me forced me to tap into my strength. I always tell people, you know, that you can't pray or ask for strength and think your life will be easy; You will have opportunities in life; therefore, choose to be strong, choose to act in the right way, and choose to be true to who you are."


            Resources:

            A Women's Intentions

            Instagram

            Facebook

            58 min
          • Why Women Are Superheroes With Eudora Mason

            Eudora is the owner of Women Are SuperHeroes and she shares with us her amazing uplifting and invigorating story that involves an absolute tragedy that almost cost her life. Now she can use that experience to empower other women around her to reach their potential. 


            Episode Highlights:

            • The importance of self-image - (2:24)
            • You are powerful when you are in heels - (4:45)
            • Taking a step back from her business to focus on herself - (6:47)
            • What did it take from her to get out of the mindset of “what am I going to do? - (9:17)
            • I have to use my voice to help everyone else - (11:59)
            • Women are Superheroes - (14:11)
            • Why you have to take the risk - (17:25)
            • The move that you’re afraid to make could be the one that changes everything - (20:13)

            • Key Takeaway:


              "It would not be a world without a woman"


              Resources:

              Women R Superheroes


              30 min
            • Why Women of Color Should Not Falter Insights from Vonda Page

              Vonda’s demonstrable leadership and management consultant experience as a strategic organizational change management (OCM) thought leader, practitioner, trainer, program manager, and executive coach. Her work has spanned the globe for dozens of high-impact technology initiatives for top corporations. Among many, Vonda’s credentials include Certified Change Management Professional, CCMP®,  Prosci® Change Management Practitioner, and Certified Myers-Briggs® Practitioner designations. Vonda earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications at Temple University and her Master of Arts degree in Professional Communication from La Salle University - both in her native city of Philadelphia, PA.


              Episode Highlights: 


              • How to unpack anti-blackness - (13:46)
              • How can you grow up with brilliant black women and not absorb some of the worlds? - (16:17)
              • How the education system is25-mile by the 25-mile radius where you live - (20:01)
              • What is the vision that motivates you right now? - (24:45)
              • Climate scientists are so upset that the government isn't listening - (27:39)
              • How quickly we default to our old habits and behavior - (32:22)

              • Key Takeaways:


                "Women of color should not falter and continue becoming the light that we once saw to inspire us to become who we are today."


                Resources:

                Vonda Page

                46 min
              • Mapping Out Your Future in Tech With Josie Lopez

                Josie is the Co-Founder at Advancio, WeCanCode, and Ketzal Marketing.... and the mother of four children. She is a serial entrepreneur and seasoned high-tech professional with over 15 years of consistently increased responsibility in leading complex business units and building new revenue streams. Leadership experience across business operations, marketing, business development, and channel sales roles in the SaaS, Enterprise Software, and Hardware industries. Proven success in setting strategy and scaling large functions. Expertise in international business, sales engagement modeling, operations, go-to-market planning, and alliance/channel building. Specialties: Go-To-Market Strategies, Entrepreneurism, Technology Solutions, SaaS, collaboration, cloud, media, networking, storage, enterprise applications, channel, partner marketing, alliance management, technology alliance, product marketing, solutions marketing, business development, executive.


                Episode Highlights:

                • Introducing Josie Lopez, the owner of Advanced SEO - (0:01)
                • Josie’s background as an introvert - (2:32)
                • The importance of education and how it can help you get to where you are - (4:41)
                • How did you get started in tech? - (8:07)
                • How Vamps got started in tech - (10:57)
                • How do you navigate the communication aspect of things right? - (16:00)
                • The importance of having people who are happy doing what they love, but are also dedicated - (18:30)
                • Where are you today and where do you see yourself in the next few years? - (21:05)
                • Don’t be shy about your weirdness - (23:42)
                • What did you learn from Radical Candor? - (26:10)

                • Key Takeaway:


                  "Women have the inner strength and capacity to demonstrate that they can be whatever they want to be and achieve whatever goals they set for themselves. Use your inner strength to flourish in the field you want to dominate."


                  Resources: 

                  Advancio

                  35 min
                • Overcoming Family Rejection With Anam Brisson

                  Anam's mission is to help women with their everyday life as we live in a fast pace world,  where everything is basically on the go! We women often neglect ourselves.  Microblading is just a little change that happened in her life along with navigating divorce, single motherhood, and dealing with cultural shock and family rejection. 


                  Episode Highlights:

                  • Born and raised in Pakistan and then I came to America - (1:13)
                  • The biggest change in her life - (2:42)
                  • You have to make it or break it - (4:37)
                  • Resiliency is a cultural difference - (7:05)
                  • My parents had an idea that I wouldn’t be able to do what I want to do - (8:27)
                  • How does it f to be breaking the cycle and be giving your daughter a different future? - (10:13)
                  • What Adam has to say to women out there who are experiencing the same thing - (11:55)
                  • Being who you are, gives you the tools to achieve your goals - (14:13)
                  • The goal is to carry his friendship to new horizons - (16:10)

                  • Key Takeaways: 


                    "All I can really say is never give up,  no matter what! Anything negative that people tell you, don't listen to them. Just do what you need to do, and that's it! Take it day by day, one step at a time and you'll see the results - it takes time."


                    Resources: 

                    Brow Queen Specialist

                    21 min
                  • Attracting the Right People to Your Business With Meredith Messenger

                    Meredith is the CEO and Chief Visionary of InsureGood, which she started to help deserving entrepreneurs build impactful businesses, improve local communities and provide equal access to business ownership for women and minorities.

                    Before InsureGood, Meredith ran a mid-sized insurance agency, provided strategic consulting services to 100’s independent agencies across the country, and worked with insurance carriers in a variety of leadership roles. She holds an Accredited Advisor in Insurance designation and has advanced risk management training.  Prior to hopping into insurance, she worked for several startup and mid-sized technology and marketing firms.


                    Episode Highlights: 

                    • Working on the things that you want to do - (1:54)
                    • Become someone you don’t like - (6:50)
                    • How to break down the wealth gaps that exist for women and minorities in business - (9:03)
                    • What’s the secret sauce of partnerships and collaboration? - (14:15)
                    • Where you start and what you envision for your business isn’t going to be where you are a year from now - (20:44)
                    • The ripple effect we have when we don’t even know we’re having it - (24:20)
                    • Why do we underestimate ourselves so much? - (29:45)
                    • What are you trying to attract in your community? - (31:51)

                    • Key Takeaways:


                      "I believe we don't always realize the extent of our influence."


                      Resources: 

                      InsureGood

                      46 min
                    • Let's Talk About Sex - Raw & Comfortably With Cat Ferris

                      Cat recently left the Insurance Industry due to different reasons, primarily her mental health being affected due to the judgment and inability to showcase her true self and having to hide her personal life beliefs. In this episode, she gives it to us raw. This episode is rated RRR so please brace yourselves to hear her story behind embracing sex, polyamorous relationships, and now opening her own practice as a sexologist! 


                      Episode Highlights:

                      • What is polyamory and how does it differ from polygamy? (2:15)
                      • It’s called a meta more so than your partner. (7:40)
                      • Open relationships are different than monogamy. (9:49)
                      • Does a bullying, amorous relationship have a sexual component? (15:03)
                      • Why did she decide to become more vocal about it online? (17:55)
                      • How sex play can help people recover from sexual trauma and body image issues. (23:15)
                      • When sex isn’t talked about, it’s like we’re bd up. (25:48)
                      • Sex is not just about this going into this. (30:59)
                      • Our true-self is a connection between our mind, our emotions and our body. (33:53)

                      • Key Takeaway:

                        "I've seen how those kinds of environments with respect and consent and communication are so paramount. I've seen how sex play can help people recover from sexual trauma, allowing people to take control of their bodies. I've seen how people have recovered from body image issues because of allowing themselves to get into a place where there's no shame around sex. And also when within exploring that, just the communication that it has opened up and being in an open community where you can say anything and there's not going to be any shame"


                        Resources: 

                        LinkedIn


                        41 min

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