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As you get better it gets easier

If you want to be successful in life you gotta help others. You are not selling services and/or products, you are selling certainty. Believe in yourself. Confidence is sexy. As a woman…

We have to always be extraordinary.

But somehow we are always doing it wrong.

You have to be thin, but not too thin.

You want to be thin, you have to say.

You want to be healthy.

But also you HAVE to be thin.

You have to have money.

But you can’t ASK for money.

Because that’s crass.

You HAVE to be a BOSS.

You HAVE to lead.

But you can’t squash other people’s ideas.

You’re supposed to love.

But don’t talk about your kids, all the damn time.

You have to be a career woman.

But also always be looking out, for other people.

You have to answer for men’s, bad behavior, which is insane!

But if you point that out, you are accused of complaining.

You are supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them.

Because you are supposed to be a part of the sisterhood.

But always stand out.

And always be grateful.

You have to never get old.

Never be rude.

Never show off.

Never be selfish.

Never fall down.

Never show fear.

Never get out of line.

It’s too hard! It’s too contradictory!

And nobody gives you a medal.

Or says thank you!

And it turns out in fact.

That not only are you doing everything wrong, but also, everything is your fault!

I’m just so tired of watching myself, and every other woman, be so hard on herself, so that people will like us.

Be a story teller

You are the CEO of your life.

The learning comes from doing.

Learn from your mistakes.

Sales is serving

You are always going to be selling something, like a product, a service and/or yourself.

You are selling you and your confidence

Are you motivated by money?

If you have a hard time selling, this only means that you are not sold on yourself just yet.

You gotta ask yourself every day, who are you? What do you stand for?

And why should they buy from you?

You gotta sell yourself on yourself daily.

You gotta be a great story teller

Share your story

Why do your products work for you?

Ask yourself, what do you really want.

Live the life you are striving for.

Uplevel.

Most people are really great at complaining.

It’s a way people bond.

Like omg it’s cold!

Omg yesss right?!

U gotta share your failures

Keep getting back up

Share your fears

And how you push through them

Rejection is protection

Your focus goes where your attention is

When you pay you pay attention

ILT invest learn teach

Don't get bitter get better

Don't get frustrated get fascinated

Your own knowing is more powerful than anyone else's advice

Being willing to get knocked down and get back up again and fail and learn and grow is more powerful than waiting for someone to come into your life telling you what step to take next

Also when you're about to reach out to a mentor do your homework before you ask for their time if they have a book read it the mentor is the energy that's contagious to be around but the real work you can do mostly for free online by reading their writing or watching their videos or researching

When you have empathy and when you know the importance of adding value to others not just asking for them to add value to you your farm more likely to succeed in your pursuits

When we trust our guts and it's wrong it's never actually wrong it just result in an outcome we didn't want an a lesson we needed to learn

Once you learn to trust yourself and your own intuition you'll no longer feel like an impostor or like you need someone else's intuition to guide you

The world is very quick to criticize and find fault.

But much slower to praise, and find the positive.

We will all experience criticism in our lives.

Those who are lucky enough to be successful in life, will be criticized more often because people love pointing out mistakes.

Especially the people who have achieved less in life, and are scared to go after their dreams.

However people who criticize are only showing the lack of confidence within themselves.

A very real issue right now about all the filters online.

The lie: If I’m ME, I won’t be loved.

You either walk into your story and own your truth, or you live outside of your story, hustling for your worthiness.

Feeling true love and belonging, can’t be achieved by changing who you authentically are to try and get it.

Being authentic is so important.

Because it will give other women permission to do the same.

Nobody has a flawless face only over edited magazines.

One study shows that 25% of girls say they won’t post a picture without editing, and they take on average up to fourteen selfies, to find the “right” look.

It really is so simple. You’ll be surprised. Anyone can do it. And sharing all the relatable and easy tips & tricks on how to grow you following on social media. And how to sell your product and/or service.

Make sure you listen till the end. Fasten your seatbelt, and get ready for a bumpy ride. When were you the happiest

It's not about the big things it's about the small day-to-day things

If you offer your authentic self your idea gift or contribution to the world it is impossible for someone else to have done that already

The secret to getting what you want is to truly learn to believe you're worthy of it

Even though we think we want to be happy our subconscious drives us to do everything we can to get back to what's comfortable a place that most accurately reflects our sense of worthiness

As human beings we are not wired to be happy we are wired to be comfortable

Do the best you can until you know better and when you know better do better

If you don't believe you are worthy of loving yourself unconditionally it is impossible to find give receive or believe you deserve unconditional love from someone else we cannot give what we do not have

Self-worth is determined by you you don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are

Stop only learning all day every day, make sure you put it in action as well.

Invest between 5 to 10% of what you want your revenue to be in this year.

Like if your goal is to make $100.000 this year you invest $5000 to $10.000 in biz mentor ship.

First we create habits and then our habits create us

You can not achieve success without consistency.

You can NOT go to the gym on Sunday for like 4 hrs in a row and expect to have your perfect body!

You need to create a consistent plan.

Create a point system (like aim for 8 points daily at least, doing various things that will move the needle.

Attend a training = 1 point.

Prospect someone, whether they say yes or no = 1 point.

Getting someone to attend a zoom meeting/webinar/in person meeting = 3 points.

Making a sale = 5 points

Getting a recruit = 5 points

Doing personal development daily = 1 point

People will do what you do, not what you say.

People are not going to do what you don’t do.

You gotta say watch me!

We all know action speaks louder than words.

Master the mundane

Create a routine

Create a DMO = a Daily Method of Operation.

You CAN NOT control the outcome.

But YOU CAN control your output.

Think big faster!

Book recommendations;

Making my first 10 million

Building an empire

The science of getting rich.

If your goals don’t scare you, they are not big enough.

Look for people just like you!

People who relate to you!

When u show up totally like yourself, you will repel the people who are NOT like you and attract the people who are exactly like you!

Even if you don’t have a team just yet, start giving value on the how!

Start a podcast, a fb live, an IG live, a Tik Tok live, join fb groups that spark your interest.

Start your own fb group

Start your own meet up group

Don’t overthink.

Don’t overcomplicate.

Start small.

Are you enjoying the now? Every time you show up on your social media without filter and truly yourself, you give others permission to do the same.

Be that person!

Forgive yourself for believing that you are anything less than beautiful.

When you find a solution to a personal problem, it’s very likely that other people have that same problem, and are looking for that same solution.

It’s better to have a 100 people love you, than a million people who just sort of like you.

AIM for that first step, not the mountain top.

The people who love your service/product will become your marketing dept, cause they will spread the word for you.

Fashion tip: go with the pants who accept you for who you are.

Success leaves clues. The only difference between successful people and non successful people is that successful people just NEVER quit! That’s all it is. It really is that simple. The people who succeed the most are often the same people who fail the most. Because they are the ones who try the most. Rejection is redirection!

dare to dig deep enough, you will find a side of yourself that will dramatically enhance all the sides of yourself. The hole that I'm in wasn't a hole until I dug it. You find yourself seeking the opinions of others before searching within you for the truth, you haven't dug at all. Dig deep within you first for the truth. The truth is already within you. Trust your gut.

OMG sharing all the behind the scenes with you. Honesty and communication is key in life. Success comes to those who share their failures and inspire enough others. Side note…we like the people who like us. Meaning start intentionally making true friends, and magic will happen!

Omg did you see that movie? (It’s called Meet the Fockers.) Stop living small in the name of strangers on the internet that you’ll never meet.

- [ ] Your perspective of yourself is either your passport to freedom or your prison

Your rituals make you rich

It’s not how much you make, it’s HOW you make it.

A true measure of success is a calm nervous system.

Don’t let your past dictate your future

You don’t become what you want to become.

You become what you feel you are worth.

Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you are right.

Your mindset determines your outcome.

You gotta give zero fucks about what your friends, followers, or family thinks of your lifestyle.

You gotta live unapologetically.

You are not crazy.

You are just first

There is only one of you.

With your fingerprint.

Your eye scan

Your heart beat

Etc

Your self worth is your ceiling