Trash is Full

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  • Feel, Deal, Heal

    In this week's episode of 'Trash is Full', we discuss how we have been coping as a family after our son, Chris, left for the military last week (SPOILER ALERT: it has not been going well!).

    We also talk through an argument we had that morning and share our reality of what happened. What did we argue about and how did we resolve it? Tune in to find out why Wes said I was being an a**hole. I do cry a little in this episode. You have been warned! Enjoy!

    48 min
  • In the Army Now!

    In this emotionally charged (and often hilarious) episode of Trash is Full, we delve into our sons decision to join the United States Army (Hooah!) immediately after graduating high school. Embarking on a path less traveled, our son, Chris, opens up about the challenges, sacrifices, and transformative experiences that shaped his journey from an ordinary teenager to a dedicated soldier.


    Throughout the episode, we explore the various motivations that led Chris to make such a pivotal life choice. Was it a sense of duty and patriotism, a desire for adventure and self-discovery, or perhaps a personal connection to the military? Tune in as we unravel the layers of his decision and gain insight into the profound impact it will have on him and our family.


    In addition to the personal aspect of our son's journey, Wes will also share his experience with joining the armed forces to provide a broader understanding of what it means for young individuals to take this brave step into military service. We explore the challenges they face during basic training, the camaraderie formed with fellow recruits, and how the military experience can shape character and instill valuable life skills.


    Join us as we sit down with our second oldest who will be leaving behind the comforts of home and the familiarity of his teenage years to serve his country and embark on a new chapter of his life!

    58 min
  • Overcoming Alcohol Abuse in Our Marriage

    In this weeks episode of 'Trash is Full' we discuss how alcohol and alcohol abuse nearly destroyed our marriage.


    Alcohol abuse can have a devastating impact on relationships, and marriage is no exception. In this episode, Wes shares his story about how he has struggled with alcohol throughout his his life and when he knew he had a problem.


    The story includes the challenges we faced in our marriage as a result of his alcohol abuse and how we were ultimately able to get our marriage back on track. Wes also touches on how he navigates consuming alcohol today and how he often feels the need to occasionally abstain.


    If you or someone you know is struggling with alcohol abuse, please reach out for help. There are many resources available, and you don't have to go through this alone.

    • The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism: https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/
    • The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence: https://www.ncadd.org/
    • The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration: https://www.samhsa.gov/



    • 54 min
    • Nineteen Years and Still Hitched!

      In this episode of 'Trash is Full', join us as we dive into the rollercoaster ride of being married for a whopping 19 years! From the early days of blissful ignorance to the seasoned veterans of matrimony, we share our tales of triumphs, trials, and everything in between.


      With plenty of humor and a healthy dose of sarcasm, we recount the comical mishaps, epic arguments, and ridiculous moments that have shaped our enduring partnership. Prepare to laugh out loud as we reveal the secrets behind making it through the ups and downs of marriage, from the absurd to the endearing. Join us as we share anecdotes, offer tongue-in-cheek advice, and reflect on the joys and challenges of reaching the 19-year milestone together.


      Whether you're a newlywed or a seasoned couple, this episode will have you nodding your head, chuckling in recognition, and appreciating the sheer comedy that comes with nearly two decades of wedded bliss (or occasional wedded blunders). Tune in and join the laughter as we celebrate the wild ride of being married for 19 years!

      52 min
    • Late Parenthood and Lessons of Love
      Welcome back to another episode of 'Trash is Full'! In this episode. we delve into the joys and challenges of having children later in life and some valuable lessons we have learned in our marriage about change and growth.
      In today's society, more and more couples are choosing to embark on the journey of parenthood at a later stage in life. With the experience of having children in our early twenties and AGAIN in our mid-thirties (crazy, right?), we share our unique perspective and why it may be better to hold off having kids. We delve into the reasons why couples may choose to have children later in life as well as the advantages and challenges that come with this decision, including the emotional and financial considerations.
      Next, we explore the complexity of relationships when partners evolve and grow in different directions and at different times. We delve into the challenges, emotions, and possibilities that arise when two individuals embark on separate journeys of personal growth. Discover how love, self-reflection, and open communication can help navigate the shifting landscape of a relationship and foster a deeper connection amidst change.
      Join us as we discuss parenthood later in life and how you can grow as an individual in your marriage without growing apart. ENJOY!
      1 hr 2 min
    • Getting Old Sucks
      Welcome back to another episode of 'Trash is Full'! In this episode we delve into the comical yet relatable topic of aging. We candidly discuss the myriad ways in which getting older can be a downright hassle. From gray eyebrow hair (yes, that happens!) to the possibility of getting a dead tooth (uh, gross) we leave no stone unturned in our exploration of the woes that come with the passage of time. With a mix of humorous anecdotes, witty observations, and a healthy dose of self-deprecating humor, this episode is sure to resonate with anyone who's ever uttered the words, "Getting old sucks!" So sit back, relax, and prepare to giggle along as we hilariously navigate the pitfalls of aging together.
      39 min
    • Toddlers vs. Teens: Surviving the Perils of Parenting

      Welcome to another episode of Trash is Full. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the real-life pitfalls of parenting toddlers and teenagers. Get ready for an authentic exploration of the challenges, frustrations, and rewards that come with raising children in these unique stages.


      Join us as we share our personal experiences, candidly discussing the highs and lows of navigating the toddler and teenage years. From sleepless nights and diaper blowouts to eye-rolling and boundary-pushing, we leave no stone unturned in our quest to shed light on the rollercoaster ride that is parenting.


      With transparency and vulnerability, we tackle the inevitable meltdowns, name-calling, and battles over bedtime. We also delve into the art of negotiation, the delicate balance of discipline and freedom, and the constant juggling act required to meet the ever-changing needs of our children.


      Through humor, relatability, and heartfelt anecdotes, we try to remind ourselves and others, that even amidst the challenges, parenting is a journey filled with immense love and joy. Whether you're a seasoned parent seeking solace in shared experiences or a new parent bracing yourself for what lies ahead, this episode of Trash is Full offers a refreshing perspective. It's a reminder that nobody has it all figured out and that it's okay to stumble along the way.


      So, grab a cup of coffee (or glass of wine), find a comfortable spot, and join us for this episode of Trash is Full. Prepare to laugh, nod in recognition, and maybe even shed a tear or two as we bare it all, reminding everyone that we're not alone in this beautiful, challenging, and rewarding journey called parenthood.

      59 min
    • Love in Transit: Navigating the Traveling Spouse Life

      Welcome back to another episode of Trash is Full! In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we delve into the dynamic world of spouses who travel for work and the partners they leave behind. Join us as we explore this unique lifestyle's joys, challenges, and surprising quirks. From the adventures and misadventures of the globetrotting spouses to the trials and triumphs of the homebound partners, we'll share amusing anecdotes, practical tips, and heartwarming stories that will resonate with listeners in similar situations. Whether you're the one hitting the road or the one holding down the fort, get ready for a candid conversation that celebrates the resilience, love, and occasional absurdity that defines the beautiful bond between traveling and stationary spouses.

      49 min
    • Getting to Know You

      How well do you really know your partner? In this episode, we put our knowledge of each other to the test after being together for over 20 years. Prepare for a lighthearted and entertaining journey as we playfully ask and answer a variety of questions about one another to see who truly knows their partner best.


      From go-to road trip snacks to the most important values in a relationship, we dive into the depths of our shared experiences, hoping to uncover hidden gems and surprising tidbits along the way. As the competition heats up, the laughter and banter flow freely, creating an engaging and joyful atmosphere.


      Will we prove that two decades together have solidified an unbreakable bond and an unmatched understanding of each other? Or will we discover surprising revelations that challenge our assumptions? Join us as we navigate through the twists and turns of partner trivia, sharing funny anecdotes and heartwarming moments that have shaped our relationship.


      Through this light-hearted game of trivia, we hope to inspire our listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the joy of discovering new aspects of their partner. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the laughter and love that unfolds as we reveal the secrets of our enduring partnership.


      Whether you're a long-time couple or just starting your journey together, this episode of heartfelt trivia will leave you entertained, enlightened, and maybe even inspired to create your own partner quiz night. Tune in to witness the unpredictable and delightful moments that emerge as we explore the depths of our connection.



      48 min
    • Navigating Depression and Anxiety in Marriage

      Welcome back to Trash is Full, where we share the ups and downs of married life! In this episode, we talk about a difficult subject: depression and anxiety. We share our personal experiences with mental health struggles and how it has affected our marriage.

      We discuss what it's like being the spouse of someone going through depression, including some of the challenges we faced and how we overcame them. We also talk about the impact of suicidal ideations and how couples therapy helped us get through it.

      We share our tips on how to support a partner with mental illness, how to prioritize self-care, and how to navigate parenting while dealing with depression and anxiety.

      Join us for a candid and honest conversation about mental health and marriage in this episode of Trash is Full. Don't forget to hit that Follow button so you never miss an episode!

      49 min

    About Trash is Full

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    Welcome to the "Trash is Full" podcast, where we share stories of our relationship and parenting with a side of humor. With five kids in tow, we've seen it all and are ready to share our marriage and parenting adventures.