Sermon preached on 1 Timothy 5:1-2 by Rev. W. Reid Hankins during the Morning Worship Service at Trinity Presbyterian Church (OPC) on 3/12/2017 in Novato, CA.
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Rev. W. Reid Hankins, M.Div.
1 Timothy 5:1-2
3/12/17
“Do Not Rebuke But Exhort”
As we head into a new chapter in 1 Timothy, we see that Paul is still addressing how Timothy is to conduct himself as a pastor. Though the tone does seem to become a bit more general here, he still is concerned about how Timothy acts as a pastor in the church. And in these two verses Paul especially is concerned with how Timothy interacts with specific groups. He draws Timothy to think of two kinds of classifications of people: classifications of age and gender. Paul tells Timothy that how he interacts with people should take into account their age and gender. There is certainly application here for all of us. This is not just a consideration for pastors. There are lessons here for each of us to think about how we relate to and communicate with other Christians based on their age and gender.
So then, in the first half of today’s message, I want us to see that Christians have become a family in Christ. This is the basis for this passage. Paul tells Timothy that his relating to people in terms of their age and gender should be thought up in terms of family relationships: treat people like fathers, mothers, sisters, brothers. And so, this is the foundation for why Paul can say this here. Paul can tell Timothy to treat Christians as you would family because in Christ we have all become part of one family. You know, I always include some gospel point in my sermon, but I typically put it toward the end. That way I bring the message to a culmination in the gospel. But today I’m reversing that order. Today I’m starting with this gospel point. By the grace of God, part of our salvation is that we are brought into God’s family. Let’s think about that for a bit.
First off, to remember that we are now family in Christ, starts by reminding us how our Christian faith can actually divide us from our earthly family. Remember how in Matthew 10 Jesus said he has come not to bring peace, but a sword. He goes on to say that he sets a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. He says that a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. To clarify, those words don’t mean that every single family will get divided over Christ. We know both in the Bible and in history there are many examples of Christian families who all love and worship the Lord. How wonderful that is when that is the case. Yet, we also know that sometimes families are divided over Jesus. Some believe in Jesus, others don’t, and sometimes this can cause great tension in a family. To clarify, Christians ought not to treat their family members badly who don’t believe. Yet, we know that sometimes unbelieving family members will hate you because of your faith. We also know that unbelieving family members might try to get you to turn away from your Christian faith. This is spoken of even under the old covenant in Deuteronomy 13:6-9. There it talks about that you must not let family members turn you away to false gods. So, under both old and new covenants, there is this reminder that family could serve to turn you away from God.
Yet, for those who have had to make such a sacrifice, to choose the Lord over your earthly families, I encourage you with the words of Jesus in Mark 10:29. There Jesus says that if you’ve given up family for the sake of Jesus and the gospel, that even in this life you will get back even more family. What does he mean? Well, surely, he must refer to the new family we have become in him. There are many wonderful ways we see this truth expressed in the Bible.
First, we see it by the fact that as Christians we are born of God. John 1:12-13 “But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name[...]