It hurts, but it's very necessary IF you want a strong and fruitful relationship!

Take the time, Take a Chance, Make the Effort. Introducing Grandpa Hammell

SKILLS are developed when you take these things seriously... Not too seriously, but with intention and purpose.  Seeing someone you want to know more about is ok.  Realizing that you cross paths often or go to the same coffee shop is not a form of stalking!!  Wanting to cross paths more often means that you are interested in them.  So, interact with them.  It's not that difficult, there are a number of ways you can "break the ice" and initiate getting to know someone.  We discuss these things and describe common scenarios for both men and women meeting both male and female potential friends.  Then we share how to introduce yourself.   All of this with the agenda of making FRIENDS... nothing else.  If your agenda is anything else, the other person will sense it and it may be creepy and unwelcome.  Even if the other person accepts an intimate interaction, you will be trying to build something on shifting sand, instead of on solid ground.

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