June 9, 2026

Today's Reading: 1 John 4:16-21

Daily Lectionary: Proverbs 8:1-21; John 12:36b-50

“We love because he first loved us.” (1 John 4:19)

In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.

I have to admit, I like to be first. In school, I liked it when I was done with my homework first, and I liked it when I ran a race and got first place. Even now, I like it when my favorite team gets first. I want to win. I want to be the best, and being first is definitely the best. 

And yet, this short verse in 1 John says that someone else was first. This verse says that I can love, can know love, and can give love only because someone else did it first. This verse says that He loved me and He loved you. This verse is clear - I wasn’t the first to love. 

When I stop and think about it, this verse tells me that being first isn’t really the point. When I admitted to liking to be first, to always winning, I was also admitting that my mindset is selfish. If I am winning, then everyone around me has to be losing. I’m not thinking about them; I am only thinking about me. Maybe I don’t know what love is, because that definitely isn’t love. 

These verses in 1 John teach us about what love is - about who love is. It isn’t about winning, and it isn’t about me (or you) being the best. Instead, love is sacrificial. Love is reassuring and is hope without fear. There is no competition in love. 

God is love. Love lays down His life so that others (sinners…you…me) can live. Love is given freely and is good. Love looks like something - it looks like Jesus on the cross. Love looks like an empty tomb. Love looks like God’s Word and water. Love is in, with, and under Bread and Wine. God’s plan to love is shown in the mercies and grace that are ours every day. 

It’s a good thing that God loved us first. It’s a good thing that before we were born or could even think about what love is and how we might have it, God loved and planned for our rescue. Now, I can know and you can know that love is resting in God, in His promises, and in His work, not our own. Then, out of that love, comes love for our neighbors. We get to look around, not at ourselves, and see the needs of those around us. We get to rejoice in the love we have and then share it with others. God loved you first, and that is very good. And, now you get to love too. 

In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.

Jesus loves me! This I know, For the Bible tells me so. Little ones to Him belong; They are weak, but He is strong. Yes, Jesus loves me! Yes, Jesus loves me! Yes, Jesus loves me! The Bible tells me so. (LSB 588:1)

Deac. Sarah Longmire, Curricula Curator for Higher Things and Director of Family Life at St. Matthew Lutheran Church in Lee's Summit, MO.