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  • 218: Rob Rant: The Stories We Tell Ourselves

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about our internal stories and how they impact our lives, and the lives of those around us. He looks at the stories we tell ourselves about our own identities, about how we relate as individuals to society, and the stories that affect the way we interact with children.

    1:09 – Insights from a recent medicine journey

    5:50 – The impact of stories we have
    10:23 – Stories creating isolation
    13:10 – Social media
    14:56 – The story of reality and agreement
    17:44 – Stories and parenting
    19:38 – The stories we tell about ourselves

    Find Marla Mattenson at:

    MarlaMattenson.com
    And David Neagle at:
    DavidNeagle.com

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

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    24 min
  • 217: Supporting Women Entrepreneurs with Racheal Cook

    Racheal Cook is an author, speaker, business growth strategist, and host of the Promote Yourself to CEO podcast. With an MBA in Entrepreneurship, several years consulting small businesses and tech start-ups, and having won the National Small Business Institute Competition, she teaches savvy, soulful, smart women to simplify their businesses so that they can achieve not only a meaningful living, but also a meaningful life.

    2:49 – Her early experiences as a post-graduate

    7:28 – The reason behind the behavior men exhibit to women in the workplace
    9:02 – A toxic workplace and panic attacks
    12:32 – First step into running her own business
    15:38 – Three people needed for every business
    18:00 – Operating from your zone of genius
    19:53 – Racheal’s services
    22:29 – The gender pay gap and intersectionality
    27:25 – Women of color in business
    31:19 – Stories of success

    Find Racheal at: RachealCook.com

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/racheal.cook
    Instagram: www.instagram.com/racheal.cook
    And her podcast “Promote Yourself to CEO”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/promote-yourself-to-ceo-small-business-strategy-for/id1030760726

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    39 min
  • 216: Rob Rant: Confront Fear

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about fear: how it affects us, various ideas on what it represents, the biology behind it, and his own experiences of it. Rather than shying away from what scares us, we should move towards confronting our fears, so that we can lead lives free of what would hold us back otherwise.

    4:23 – Biological impact of fear

    8:06 – Fires in California
    11:45 – Fears around evolution in relationships
    16:34 – Rob’s personal experience of fears around his partner’s evolution
    17:51 – Not letting fear run you
    21:03 – Confrontation as the antidote for fear

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    25 min
  • 215: The Power of Invisible Influence with Shana James

    For 15 years Shana James has coached more than a thousand leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers and people with big visions who step into more powerful leadership, start and grow businesses, create more effective teams, increase their impact, get promoted, find love, rekindle spark, create a legacy, and become more personally inspired and fulfilled. She’s been known for my ability to assess, in just a few minutes, the cause of dissatisfaction and stuck points in your profession and love life. Then she creates a clear and unique path for you to have true success and incredible love.

    Referred to as a secret weapon, she cuts through distraction and provides direct access to your confidence, power and clarity. She is also a translator between women and men, providing effective tools to transform conversations and dynamics that have gone awry into connection and collaboration. With an M.A. in psychology, DISC certification, Coaching training, more than a decade facilitating groups and workshops, starting multiple businesses and helping hundreds of entrepreneurs start their own, Shana’s range of skills is unlike many other coaches.

    3:27 – The work Shana does

    5:06 – What brought her to this work
    7:15 – Working with men with difficult emotions
    10:28 – The need for “rumbling” with emotions in men
    13:06 – Women picking up on non-verbal cues
    18:10 – Being trained to not show vulnerability
    22:51 – Teaching women to be more present to men’s vulnerability
    27:38 – The scale of men from iron wall to man-child
    31:56 – Holding the entirety of our partners

    Find Shana at:

    www.ShanaJamesCoaching.com
    Her quiz “Become A Better Lover & Leader”:
    www.ShanaJamesCoaching.com/Quiz
    And for women:
    www.ShanaJamesCoaching.com/Women

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    39 min
  • 214: Rob Rant: You’re Evolving – Deal With It

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the evolution that each and every one of us is undergoing constantly in our lives. Rob explores what he’s seen in others, as well as his own evolution in the spheres of his sexuality, his relationship with his parents, and his career as he has gotten older.

    4:26 – Our relationship with evolution

    9:36 – Rob’s sexual evolution
    13:57 – Masturbation and self-love
    16:51 – Your transformation and those around you
    21:27 – Evolution with one’s parents
    24:44 – Rob’s evolution around his career

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    29 min
  • 213: Libido, Desire and Arousal with Susan Bratton

    Susan Bratton is an author, award-winning speaker and serial entrepreneur who champions passionate relationships. Her straight-forward love-making advice is rooted in her personal experience of watching her marital intimacy wither as she and her husband pursued dynamic careers. When her relationship hit a crisis point, Susan made a fierce commitment to do whatever it took to hold her family together and revive the passion in her marriage.

    2:45 – Susan’s journey in becoming a sexpert

    11:42 – The Expanded Orgasm Practice
    18:06 – Sexuality, triggers, and shame
    24:05 – The growth of her and her partner’s company, Personal Life Media
    28:22 – Changes in the last fifteen years
    33:53 – Everyday factors that affect our body, libido, and desire
    40:46 – Recommendations for those wanting to start working on their sex life

    Find Susan at:

    www.PersonalLifeMedia.com
    And her videos at:
    www.BetterLover.com

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    46 min
  • 212: How Men Can Level Up with Mark Guay

    Mark is a personal-development coach based in San Diego. His work guides men to integrate emotional energy and step into greater purpose, power, and connection. He is a featured teacher on Insight Timer where you can listen to his meditations for free.

    3:15 – Mark’s story and mission

    9:52 – Men and crying
    14:25 – Traditional work lifestyles and emotions
    21:23 – Pragmatic steps for men to connect with their emotions
    26:08 – Suppression of emotions
    30:51 – Shame and porn
    36:00 – 18-year-old girls and porn
    40:10 – Mark’s upcoming book

    Find Mark at:

    MarkWGuay.me
    Mark’s Emotional Charge Exercise:
    http://markwguay.me/emotionalchargeexercise

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    43 min
  • 211: The Radical Change of Gender Dynamics in Modern Divorce with Andrea Vacca

    Andrea Vacca is the founder of Vacca Family Law Group, a law firm in New York City that focuses exclusively on non-adversarial divorce and family law matters. Andrea is regularly featured as a media expert on divorce-related matters, and she lectures, writes and blogs on the topics of collaborative law, mediation, and topics related to non-adversarial family law. After practising traditional litigation-focused family law for many years, Andrea’s firm now works only with clients who want to keep their divorces out of court and want their prenuptial and postnuptial agreements negotiated in a non-adversarial manner. In addition to having a B.A. and J.D, Andrea also has a Certificate in Positive Psychology and regularly applies what she has learned to help her clients navigate their divorces, including having a growth mindset, being resilient and encouraging mindfulness. Andrea is President of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals and is a co-author of the book, Onward & Upward: A Guide For Getting Through New York Divorce & Family Law Issues.

    3:16 – What led Andrea to practise divorce law

    6:46 – How to have a non-adversarial divorce
    10:33 – The impact of the relationship between divorcees on their children
    16:55 – Recent changes in man-woman dynamics
    21:16 – The changing pay gap and emasculation
    26:10 – Her history working with men and post-nuptial agreements
    27:03 – When having a post-nuptial agreement makes sense
    29:26 – Invisible and visible ROI
    30:38 – Advice for spouses seeking a divorce

    Find Andrea at:

    www.VaccaLaw.com
    Or call her on:
    212-768-1115

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    35 min
  • 210: Sexuality as the Gateway Drug for Intimacy with Caity Flannagan and Matt Sturm

    Caity Flannagan and Matt Sturm are the co-founders of Embodied Erotic – a community for sacred sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Drawing on Neo-Tantra, Core Shamanic practices, somatic psychotherapy, yoga and meditation, they offer a unique experience that’s powerful, accessible and fun in aiding the exploration of couples’ sexuality. Having worked with hundreds of couples, they share practical tools for sex and relating to uncover the magic and love waiting just below the surface, while remaining conscious of each individual’s unique experience, to invite the full expression of our bodies and relationships.

    2:26 – Their backgrounds and how they came into their current work

    5:06 – Matt’s experience of facing his ego when entering Tantra
    11:47 – An epic breakdown in a couple they’ve coached
    14:01 – Shame and sexuality
    16:13 – What is Tantra?
    18:14 – A recommendation for those interested in learning about Tantra
    19:33 – Their online couples course
    25:42 – Their goals with their work
    30:12 – Polarity within relationships

    Find Matt and Caity at:

    www.embodiederotic.com
    And use the code “TUFFLOVE” for a $50 discount off their Thriving in Relationship Online Course: http://embodiederotic.com/thriving

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    39 min
  • 209: Stop Giving Yourself Away with Sydney Campos

    Sydney Campos is a Visionary, Healer, Spiritual Teacher and Author of The Empath Experience: What To Do When You Feel Everything. Sydney guides visionary leaders to live in alignment with their soul purpose while embodying next-level power, pleasure and prosperity.

    In addition to being a seasoned Business Strategy Advisor and Certified Holistic Health Coach, Sydney is also a 200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher, Reiki Energy Healer, Azure Light Guardian and Certified Akashic Records Practitioner and Instructor. Sydney shares her multifaceted expertise through writing, 1:1 visionary mentoring, self-mastery courses, transformational retreats, live workshops and events, intuitive soul sessions and the acclaimed Visionary Souls Podcast.

    2:33 – Sydney’s mission

    6:53 – Her entry into her journey
    12:41 – Misdiagnosing children
    16:43 – Gun violence and cultural conditioning
    22:53 – Ancestral trauma
    27:21 – Sydney’s work
    30:37 – The Quantum Creator Academy

    Find Sydney at: www.SydneyCampos.com

    Sydney’s Book “The Empath Experience: What to Do When You Feel Everything”:

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com
    As well as:
    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell
    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    35 min

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