Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools

By by Kelly DuPée

Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools Podcast provides practical and easy to learn tools and tips so you can have the lifelong marriage that you really want. Each episode offers suggestions that address... more

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February 01, 2024 Love Always Perseveres
God's word tells us that Love Always Perseveres. This is much more than just not quitting when things get hard.
In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, I discuss the concept of perseverance in marriage. I unpack the meaning as not just merely not quitting, but about persisting through difficulties, maintaining a resilient attitude and having determination to overcome obstacles.
Join me as I share four practical steps to help you if feel like giving up on your marriage. These steps include admitting the struggle, surrendering to God, seeking help from others, and taking action based on divine guidance.
I also encourage you to thank God in advance for the miracles that are sure to come. In this episode you'll gain some life-changing insights on how to face trials and difficulties in your marriage.
00:01 Introduction and the Importance of Perseverance in Marriage
01:20 Understanding the Concept of Perseverance
02:53 Challenges and Struggles in Marriage
04:55 The Temptation to Quit and the Role of the Devil
05:39 The Power of Hope and Restoration
07:18 Steps to Persevere in Your Struggling Marriage
12:33 Conclusion and Offer
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15min
January 24, 2024 Love Always Hopes

In this episode of the 'Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show', Coach Kelly discusses the critical role hope plays in sustaining marriages and relationships. He outlines three situations in which hope is needed in a marriage: when drifting apart, when dealing with challenges outside the marriage, and when looking into the future. Sharing his own experiences and scriptures from the Bible, Kelly explains the importance of viewing your problems as opportunities for growth and how surrendering them to God can be beneficial. He strongly advocates to always maintaining hope, even in tough times. He also addresses the resources available for those possibly contemplating suicide.

00:00 Introduction and Overview
00:56 Understanding the Concept of Hope
01:30 The Importance of Hope in Marriage
02:47 Challenges in Marriage and the Role of Hope
03:29 Hope for the Future of Your Marriage
04:44 Strategies to Strengthen Hope in Your Marriage
05:59 The Power of Seeking Help and Trusting God
08:15 Remembering Past Victories to Strengthen Hope
09:20 The Role of Others in Strengthening Hope
11:43 Resources for Immediate Help
12:49 Conclusion: Love Always Hopes

To get a copy of Coach Kelly's book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.turnitup.coach
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15min
January 18, 2024 Love Always Trusts
Trust, without it love won't last. God's word tells us that love always trusts. What is trust and how can it be developed so that you can have the marriage and relationships you really want?
In this episode, Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author of the book 'Turn It Up', discusses the concept of trust in a marriage inspired by 1 Corinthians 13. He shares four key points on how to build, develop, repair, and trust in God for a healthier relationship. He also shares tips from his book and ways to handle trust withdrawals and deposits in your 'trust account'.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:18 Understanding the Concept of Trust in Relationships
01:33 Reading from the Book 'Turn It Up'
02:13 The Importance of Trustworthiness in a Partner
02:49 Four Key Points to Remember about Trust
02:55 How to Evaluate Trust in a Relationship
04:17 Choosing to Trust and Developing it Over Time
04:52 Repairing Trust When it is Damaged
10:50 Trusting God in Your Relationship
11:31 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
11:54 Invitation to Subscribe, Comment, and Share
12:01 Offer for Personal Coaching and Book Promotion
12:41 Closing Remarks and Goodbye
To get a copy of Coach Kelly's book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.turnitup.coach
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15min
January 04, 2024 Love Always Protects
Love Always Protects - do you know what that means?
This is part 11 of the series entitled "Love Is..."
In this informative and spiritual video, Coach Kelly deep dives into the meaning of Corinthians 13: 7, explaining why 'Love Always Protects'. He tackles real issues that threaten marriages, such as harmful content and inappropriate emotional intimacy, and provides concrete advice on how to combat these threats. Coach Kelly offers practical ways on how to protect your relationship and achieve a thriving marriage. If you aspire to attain a lifelong marriage by safeguarding it against external destructive factors, this video is for you!
00:01 Introduction and Welcome
00:03 Understanding Love and Protection in Relationships
01:21 Why Love Needs Protection
02:11 What We Need to Protect Our Love From
02:41 The Dangers of Harmful Sexual Content
04:39 The Threat of Inappropriate Emotional Intimacy
06:28 How to Protect Your Love
08:33 Getting Help from God and Others
09:09 Admitting and Addressing the Problem
09:52 Conclusion and Additional Resources
To get a copy of Coach Kelly's book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.turnitup.coach
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13min
January 02, 2024 Love Doesn't Delight in Evil
What do you think of this - love doesn't delight in evil?
This is part 10 of a series called "Love Is..." studying 1 Corinthians 13, the famous love chapter of the Bible. Join me as I offer important insights and practical steps on how to build a marriage based on truth and real love. As we look at 1 Corinthians 13:6, you'll be encouraged to walk in truth, to be transparent, and to assume responsibility in your relationships. You'll learn the harm of dishonesty, even subtle lies, and how to move towards absolute truthfulness.
00:01 Introduction and Welcome
00:45 Understanding Love and Truth in Marriage
01:16 The Consequences of Dishonesty in Marriage
02:30 The Importance of Truth in Love
03:40 Steps to Stop Delighting in Evil and Start Rejoicing in Truth
04:58 Building Trust in Marriage
05:59 Conclusion: The Power of Truth in Love
06:13 Call to Action and Closing Remarks
To get a copy of my book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.turnitup.coach
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9min
December 28, 2023 Love Doesn't Keep Score
Did you know that love doesn't keep score?
In this recording I discuss the harmful effects of keeping score in a relationship. This is part 9 of a series entitled "Love Is..." from 1 Corinthians 13, the famous love chapter in the Bible.
1 Corinthians 13:5 says that love does not keep a record of wrongs.
Join me as I explain how resentment can build over time, and as I provide four suggestions for curbing the habit of holding onto past hurts. These include confronting issues calmly, allowing for effective apologies, seeking God's assistance for forgiveness, and going through the process of forgiveness. Alongside these, I discuss the four R's of an effective apology - Responsibility, Remorse, Repentance, and Request forgiveness.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:02 Understanding the Problem: Keeping Score in Relationships
01:13 Biblical Perspective on Love and Forgiveness
01:45 The Damaging Effects of Keeping Score
02:29 Four Suggestions to Stop Keeping Records of Wrongs
05:16 The Process of Forgiveness
06:26 Rebuilding Trust in Relationships
06:55 Conclusion: Letting Go of Past Hurts
07:53 Promotion of the Book and Personal Coaching
08:38 Final Blessings and Farewell
To get a copy of my book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.calendly.com/kellydupee
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11min
December 21, 2023 Why Christmas is a Big Deal
Ever wondered why Christmas is a big deal?
In this episode, Pastor and marriage coach Kelly discusses the significance of Christmas and how it can influence and heal your marriage. He expresses why Christmas stands out amongst other holidays and its ability to bring hope and meaning in a world filled with violence, pain, and suffering. Highlighting the key biblical verse Matthew 1:23, he emphasizes on the importance of God's arrival to earth through Jesus - symbolizing hope in our lives.
Furthermore, he elucidates how the manifestation of this love and hope can positively impact marriage and family life. The video ends with an encouraging statement to cherish the true essence of Christmas and its implication on personal life and relationships.
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11min
December 14, 2023 Love Isn't Easily Angered
The Bible says that love isn't easily angered. Do you know what that means?
In this podcast, Coach Kelly, a pastor, police chaplain, marriage coach, and author discusses how to manage and control our anger in the context of marriage. Analyzing 1st Corinthians 13:5, the video presents strategies for confronting anger including admission, repentance, forgiveness, support from others, and establishing boundaries, aiming to aid viewers in maintaining loving, long-lasting marital relationships.
00:00 Introduction and Topic Presentation
00:45 Welcome to the Show and Host Introduction
01:17 Understanding the Concept of 'Easily Angered'
02:39 The Impact of Uncontrolled Anger in Relationships
02:56 How to Not Be Easily Angered
04:20 Steps to Overcome Anger Issues
06:36 Practical Tips for Anger Management
07:29 Setting Boundaries and Dealing with Consequences
08:17 Admitting Mistakes and Seeking Forgiveness
09:00 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
09:07 Promotion and Closing Remarks
To get a copy of the book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.calendly.com/kellydupee
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12min
December 07, 2023 Love Isn't Self Seeking
Did you know that love isn't self seeking?
This is part 7 of a series entitled "Love Is..." taken from 1 Corinthians 13.
1 Corinthians 13:5 says love is not self-seeking. In this recording we're diving deep into the myth that prioritizing oneself leads to a successful marriage.
As an experienced pastor, police chaplain, and author of 'Turn It Up, How to Have The Lifelong Marriage that You Really Want,' I share relatable examples of self-seeking behavior that could be hindering your marital growth. Throughout the episode, I advocate for a shift from selfish conduct to love, underlining the significant impact of focusing on 'we' rather than 'me' on marital bliss.
Stay tuned for actionable steps to effectively curb selfish habits, ensuring a fulfilling and lifelong marriage. Our roadmap includes understanding the essence of love in marriage, identifying self-seeking behaviors, recognizing their impact, and practical tips to refocus on your spouse.
Here's a sneak peek into the episode:
00:00 - Introduction and Welcome
00:40 - Understanding Love in Marriage
01:14 - Examples of Self-Seeking Behavior
02:42 - The Impact of Self-Seeking Behavior on Marriage
04:03 - Steps to Overcome Self-Seeking Behavior
04:53 - Practical Tips to Focus on Your Spouse
05:59 - Seeking Help and Final Thoughts
06:13 - Conclusion and Call to Action
Join me as we unveil the secret to a fulfilling marriage - where love is not self-seeking but a transformative force that strengthens the foundation of your lifelong commitment. Don't miss out on insights that can turn your marriage journey into a truly blissful adventure!
To get a copy of my book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.calendly.com/kellydupee
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9min
November 30, 2023 Love Doesn't Dishonor
What do you think the Bible means when it says "love doesn't dishonor"?
This is part 6 of a series entitled "Love Is..." taken from 1 Corinthians 13. In this episode, I share insight into how to honor and respect your spouse, based on 1 Corinthians 13:5. You'll learn what it means to dishonor your spouse and the negative impact of such behavior. Then we will cover what honor looks like and I'll give you three ways to practice it including speaking words of appreciation, listening actively, and serving or helping your spouse.
To get a copy of my book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75
Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.calendly.com/kellydupee
00:01 Introduction and Welcome
01:14 Understanding Dishonor in Relationships
01:32 Examples of Dishonoring Actions
03:39 Defining Honor in Relationships
03:49 Ways to Show Honor in Your Relationship
05:35 Conclusion and Special Offers
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8min

FAQs about Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools:

How many episodes does Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools have?

The podcast currently has 197 episodes available.