Twin Flame Truth

Are you starting to realize that the presence of your Twin Flame comes with a shadow of anxiety or doubt? According to host Elle Hari, this is the tipping point of your journey. In today’s episode, she explains what the tipping point is and how it shifts your relationship with your Twin Flame.

It’s important to remember that your fear-based energy was activated at the moment of soul recognition. And ever since, this fear-based energy has been behind all of your thoughts and feelings regarding your Twin Flame. It is this energy that makes you feel the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. And while your relationship with your Twin Flame felt more amazing than any other, at some point your energies will become so polarized that you will start to feel like your twin flame is pulling away and like you have to do things to try to keep them with you. Looking back, you can usually pinpoint the exact moment when this began to happen in your relationship with your twin flame. It usually occurs shortly after the best, most magical day you shared with your twin flame. This moment is what Elle calls the “tipping point.” Here, your fear-based energy will be pushing and pushing. And in return, your Twin Flame will pull farther and farther away from you. And from that moment on, your journey will change forever.

Once your fear-based energy is balanced, whether or not you and your Twin Flame sustain any form of a relationship, it will never feel the way it once did during the honeymoon period. Rather than looming with anxiety, the presence or absence of your Twin Flame will leave you feeling content, happy, and at peace. 

Quotes 

• “Happiness doesn't rely on something outside of you.” (03:36-03:38 | Elle)

• “You may believe that when you're with your Twin Flame, you are happy. But underneath it all, there's a knowing in there that you're not happy. Why? Because the entire time that you're with the physical form of your Twin Flame, it's almost like you're just waiting for the other shoe to drop.” (03:48-04:14 | Elle)

• “From that tipping point on, you're no longer feeling the blissful feelings that you felt on your honeymoon period because your polarized fear-based energy is there. Your push energy is there pushing and pushing. And because it reached a tipping point, your Twin Flame is pulling and pulling in tandem.” (08:47-09:06 | Elle)

• “If you are in the back and forth push-pull dynamic and your Twin Flame does come in periodically, you will know that you're not fully happy there.” (11:12-11:21 | Elle)

• “Once you do balance out your push-pull fear-based energy, and you are in a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, or even interacting with your Twin Flame at all, it will never go back to feeling like it did with the honeymoon period.” (11:53-12:10 | Elle)

Links

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When it comes to the Twin Flame journey, it is not possible to have a physical relationship with them until you learn unconditional love. And while many people mistakenly believe that unconditional love has more to do with their feelings for others, host Elle Hari explains that it actually has everything to do with yourself. In today’s episode, Elle explains the true meaning of unconditional love. 

To experience unconditional love, you must love without conditions. So anytime you are worried about what your Twin Flame is thinking, doing, or feeling, you are putting conditions on your Twin Flame and therefore, cannot have a physical relationship with them. To experience unconditional love, you must first love yourself. Because by doing so, you free yourself from wanting or needing anything from anyone else. 

We cannot experience love until there is an absence of fear. And our fear-based energies are working all the time to keep us occupied on the things that don’t truly matter. But once we learn how to transmute our fear into love for ourselves, we can finally be with our Twin Flames. 

Quotes 

• “Unconditional love is the state that you must be in with your Twin Flame in order to physically be with them. If you don't have unconditional love, then you cannot physically be together.” (02:04-02:22 | Elle)

• “Love is the absence of fear.” (02:52-02:55 | Elle)

• “How do we get to unconditional love with our Twin Flame? It comes from loving ourselves.” (03:49-03:55 | Elle)

• “When we love ourselves, we don't want or need anything from anyone or anything outside of us. That includes the physical form the Twin Flame.” (05:08-05:15 | Elle)

Links

This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

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Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io 

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Do you attribute your feelings good or bad to the behaviors of your Twin Flame? According to host Elle Hari, this is a common response to engaging with your Twin Flame. However, by doing this, you are allowing your fear-based energy to keep you apart from your Twin Flame in the long run. In today’s episode, Elle expresses the importance of owning your own sh!t. 

The entire purpose of the Twin Flame journey is to learn how to unconditionally love yourself. And since the Twin Flame is you, that is why their involvement is so significant. The Twin Flame allows us to see parts of ourselves that we are not consciously aware of and brings to light the parts of us that we are not proud of. And while it can be easy to blame your Twin Flame for making you feel really happy or sad, that is just you not owning up to your own sh!t. 

At the end of the day, your Twin Flame cannot make you feel any specific way. It is up to you and only you to determine how you feel about things relating to the physical world. When you stop blaming your Twin Flame for your own stuff, you open the door to a lasting relationship with your Twin Flame.

Quotes 

• “In order to love yourself or to love anything, you have to completely know it.” (02:35-02:39 | Elle)

• “You need to know and understand yourself to love yourself. This includes stuff that may not seem so pretty, or you may not be so proud of.” (02:50-03:04 | Elle)

• “Let's take an example and say you thought things were going great, but your Twin Flame blocked you or left you. You need to own your shit here. You need to really take responsibility and accountability for your role for what you did on the physical level to make them do that.” (05:41-06:01 | Elle)

• “Putting expectations on a relationship is not true love.” (06:50-06:56 | Elle)

• “No one is responsible for how you feel, including your Twin Flame. You alone are responsible for your feelings and this is what you need to own.” (07:48-07:55 | Elle)

• “Your fear-based energy believes that your Twin Flame makes you feel good. But that right there is not love. That is what is keeping you from having any type of physical relationship with your Twin Flame for any extended period of time.” (08:22-08:39 | Elle)

Links

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Do you feel desperate at times to make sense of your Twin Flame journey? According to host Elle Hari, this is the mindset that everyone first comes into their journey with. And while it is a common phenomenon, it is one that needs to change before the real journey even begins. In today’s episode, Elle explains how to shift  in the right direction. 

When you first embark on your Twin Flame journey, you probably want to spend time making sense of everything. It is natural to allow your focus on the outside fear-based world to determine how you feel, think, and do things. However, it isn’t until we shift on a soul level that we can truly begin our journey to ascension. Elle explains that the focus on the outside world is just our fear-based energy trying to intervene with our progress. And once you begin to shift closer into alignment with your soul, you will begin to notice that everything falls into place perfectly. 

Ultimately, the Twin Flame journey is a journey of the soul, not the mind. And once you have accepted this, the outside world will begin to reflect the benefits of love, peace, abundance and perfection in your life. 

Quotes 

• “You shift from your mind's mental fear-based perception into your soul perspective.” (02:46-02:57 | Elle)

• “The shift that needs to happen is you need to do this journey on the level of the soul.” (03:38-03:43 | Elle)

• “When you make this shift, you make it by shifting energetically closer into alignment with your soul. And when you do that, you will realize that it all falls together perfectly.” (03:45-04:00 | Elle)

Links

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This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

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“Your fear-based energy doesn't allow you to have integrity. When you have integrity, you are your truth,” explains host Elle Hari, Founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®. Fear can manipulate much about how we view ourselves and our Twin Flame. Today, Elle explains that we must work past our fears to live authentically from the perception of our souls.

If we listen to our fear-based energy, we are tricked into believing that we must always be physically near our twin flames. The truth is we are our own Twin Flame because even if our souls are in different bodies, our energies are always connected. Ultimately, we must acknowledge that we are never really separate as we continue our journeys into loving ourselves.

Don’t let your fear-based energy lead to selling out your soul. Learn more about how fear affects your truth, the duality of energy, and why true love means loving yourself. 

Quotes 

• “The Twin Flame journey is all about loving yourself. The whole point of this journey is to learn to love yourself on the deepest level possible, and that level is your soul level.” (2:26-2:37 | Elle)

• “Your fear-based energy doesn't allow you to have integrity. When you have integrity, you are your truth.” (2:52-3:00 | Elle) 

• “The truth for every single being is that you and your Twin Flame are the same beings because you are your Twin Flame, so you are never separate. The illusion of separateness is fear-based energy.” (4:43-4:58 | Elle) 

• “The truth has no emotion with it. The truth is just truth, and that's your soul.” (11:53-11:58 | Elle)

• “You must put yourself first. It's not selfish to not sacrifice yourself. It's not selfish not to sell out. It's not selfish to not compromise anything about your truth. You have to love yourself first.” (14:20-14:34 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

Free training by Elle Hari 👉 https://www.thehouseofellehari.com/free-training

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Do you ever feel stuck wondering how long your Twin Flame journey will take? In today’s episode, Host Elle Hari explains the paradox of time and how to move past your fixation on it.

As you move through your Twin Flame journey, it is completely normal to wonder how much time it is going to take for you to feel better and magnetize your Twin Flame because our fear-based energy tends to focus on these things. However, it is important to know that time only exists in the physical world. And when it comes to your soul, time does not exist because our souls are eternal. So in reality, we need to shift our focus from time and allow our journeys to progress naturally. And once we have let go of the concept of time, things will fall into place as they should.

In the end, time is another distraction set forth by our fear-based energy. Once we learn how to redirect our focus to balancing our energy, time won’t seem to matter anymore. 

Quotes 

• “As humans, we are hooked into the concept of time.” (02:22-02:26 | Elle)

• “Our fear-based push-energy is all about time. It loves hooking onto dates and counting down the time.” (02:51-03:00 | Elle)

• “Time only exists in the 3d physical world. Time does not exist in the realm of the soul. Why? Because the soul is eternal.” (03:43-03:52 | Elle)

• “Once you let go of your fixation on time, time then seems to move so much faster.” (12:25-12:30 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

Free training by Elle Hari 👉 https://www.thehouseofellehari.com/free-training

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Have you been feeling disconnected from your Twin Flame? Even though you might be working through your journey by aligning your soul and balancing your fear-based energy, it can be hard to not crave the physical form of your Twin Flame. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses the phenomenon of demystifying your Twin Flame.

It is important to remember that it is your fear-based energy that drives the addiction to the physical form of your Twin Flame. And at times, this addiction can feel so overwhelming that you tend to place your Twin Flame on a pedestal. But after you balance your fear-based energy, and focus on your real Twin Flame, which is your soul, you will realize that you don’t need the physical form of your Twin Flame after all. And as a result, you will magnetize them into your physical world without even thinking about it. 

Ultimately, having a physical relationship with your Twin Flame isn’t as important as you might think. Once you have balanced your energy and connected with your soul, the physical form of your Twin Flame won’t seem so necessary. 

Quotes 

• “Your push fear-based energy is addicted to the physical form of your Twin Flame and what that physical form is doing, thinking, saying, feeling. But remember that your physical body is not your Twin Flame, your Twin Flame is your soul.” (02:29-02:48 | Elle)

• “Because the fear-based push-energy’s drug of choice is the physical body of your Twin Flame, then it tends to put it on a pedestal.” (03:06-19 | Elle)

• “When you magnetize your Twin Flame back in because your energy is balanced enough for your soul to be able to do that, your focus on them will be diminished. And then you will wonder what the hype is about.” (05:38-05:54 | Elle) 

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

Free training by Elle Hari 👉 https://www.thehouseofellehari.com/free-training

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When anyone sets out on their Twin Flame journey, they are eager to know everything they can about their Twin Flame. And while this is a normal way to begin, Elle reminds listeners that it is actually our fear-based energy driving our motives to control everything. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari answers the question, what does it mean when someone says, “your soul knows everything?”

It is almost human instinct to believe that your mind can control every aspect of your life. And while you can manifest certain things to happen, it is not your mind doing this, it is your soul. In fact, your soul is what orchestrates everything in your life. And regardless of whether you’re the push or pull energy on your Twin Flame journey, it is still your fear-based energy trying to unintentionally control your mind. And once you balance your energy, you will allow your soul to do its job. 

Regardless of what you may think you know, your soul knows better. Learn more about removing the barriers within yourself so that you can find true love along your Twin Flame journey.

Quotes 

• “All of the need to know more, and to keep learning more about your Twin Flame is your fear-based energy. And your fear-based energy controls your mind.” (03:33-03:41 | Elle)

• “Your soul is doing and orchestrating everything in your life. It is in control.” (03:15-03:20 | Elle)

• “You're not able to manifest everything into your life because some of those things might be out of the realm of what your soul deems is for your highest good.” (06:20-06:30 | Elle)

• “You are your soul. Your soul is magnificent, it's omnipresent, it's limitless, it's boundless.” (06:37-06:40 | Elle)

• “The whole point of balancing, aligning, and moving through this journey is  really the unlearning of what you have learned in your mind.” (12:13-12:27 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

Free training by Elle Hari 👉 https://www.thehouseofellehari.com/free-training

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As we know from previous episodes, it’s important to align closer to your soul and be out of your mind. But to be with your Twin Flame physically, you must do one more thing. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari explains why it is necessary to balance your energy. 

As Elle explains, fear-based energy controls our minds to determine whatever our Twin Flames are thinking, feeling, or doing as good or bad. And when we do this, we judge our thoughts as good or bad and it will ultimately determine how we feel. And while sometimes it can make us feel great, it is important to know that is still your fear-based energy controlling you. Fear-based energy is also addictive energy, so we are actually addicted to judging the physical world. When we finally balance our energy, we can achieve two things: find true inner peace and stop the push-pull dynamic that is keeping us and our Twin Flames apart. 

At the end of the day, if we want to join with our Twin Flames physically we must do three things: get out of our minds, align closer to our souls, and then balance our fear-based energy. And once we learn how to stop listening to our fear-based energy, we can live in true bliss whether we end up with our Twin Flames or not. 

Quotes 

• “Balancing your energy is neutralizing it. It’s taking your energy and instead of making it push, and making it be about fear, it's neutralizing it so there is no fear and no more push-energy.” (03:30-03:50 | Elle)

• “What the fear based energy wants to do is get in your mind, and focus and obsess on something. Of course, in this case, it's your Twin Flame. And so that's why we have obsessive thoughts about the Twin Flame journey because our fear-based energy is activated.” (05:24-05:42 | Elle)

• “If you're judging whatever you're thinking your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling as good, then you're going to feel good. But if you're thinking that whatever your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling is bad, then you're going to feel bad.” (06:34-06:45 | Elle)

• “Once the push-pull energy is neutralized, it clears out energetic fields so that your soul can bring you and your Twin Flame physically together.” (09:56-10:04 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

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“That's what I mean by shifting into alignment with our soul. We do it on an energetic level by transmuting the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies of our soul into the love based energy of our soul from other dimensions. Taking that fear based component, polarized component, duality component out of it,” explains host Elle Hari, founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®, international bestselling author, ascension alchemist, teacher, and coach. In the season four opener, Elle shares the reasoning behind why the first step of any Twin Flame journey is to align with our souls. 

Due to the Universal Law of Correspondence, the energetic shift must happen within ourselves before we can even begin to look at anything outside of ourselves. The physical body exists in the third dimension, whereas the soul resides in the fifth dimension. We must transmute the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies into the love based energy of our soul in order to be in alignment. This is step one of the Twin Flame journey, because it allows for the layers to peel back and reveal our true selves. As we get closer to alignment, we learn how to love ourselves and begin resonating with an energy that is more in tune with our Twin Flame. 

To really love ourselves, we must first learn to accept each layer of ourselves without judgment.  As we get closer to alignment and move from fear based energy into love based energy, we will begin attracting others to us whose vibrations resonate with our own. That is why the very first step on the Twin Flame journey is to energetically shift ourselves to be more aligned with our true soul’s purpose.

Quotes 

• “We have to shift into ourselves first before we can even try dealing with outside of ourselves. And that's according to the universal law of correspondence, as within so without, so it has to happen within first.” (5:07-5:20 | Elle)

• “Why is it necessary to do this? Why do we even want to do this? So, this is really the crux of the whole thing. So, the ultimate purpose and point of the Twin Flame journey is to learn how to unconditionally love yourself, how to love yourself. And every shifting closer and closer into alignment with your soul, with your true self, with love, is loving yourself. It's like working through the layers of an onion.” (6:15-6:49 | Elle)

• “Your soul has a certain vibration and resonance. The only other person that you share the exact same resonance with is your Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame has the exact same resonance as your soul.” (7:50-8:03 | Elle)

• “As you shift closer and closer, you go through those layers of that onion closer and closer to your true soul, you're going to encounter and unravel vibrations that are more in tune with your true soul’s passions, your true soul’s purpose, with people that resonate more with you.” (8:24-8:47 | Elle)

• “People that were in your life before that were toxic relationships or just weren't really meaningful relationships will, silently without drama, fade away, and new people will come in. And as this happens, you're also bringing in things that help you learn more about yourself. Learning about yourself and then accepting those things without judgment is how you love yourself.” (8:48-9:16 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

This free training explains exactly what’s happening inside your body in that moment—and what actually changes the outcome.

Free training by Elle Hari 👉 https://www.thehouseofellehari.com/free-training

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

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