Twin Flame Truth

Do you know what you truly want in life? Are you on a journey toward what you’ve been conditioned to believe is success? Be prepared to be thrown right off course, Elle warns. As you move closer into alignment with your soul–your true self–you move closer to your true life’s purpose and your true desires. These are often different from those that you form in your mind, where your ego–and fear based energy–are stored. And it’s not just your career that will change–you’ll find yourself receiving your true desires in all aspects of your life. 

And they will come with ease–because the soul will magnetize it all toward you. This is why it is so important to trust your soul-your true self. The mind and the ego will create resistance, and skepticism is normal. But to truly love yourself–your true self–means trusting yourself completely. 

Elle’s own life and the life of her students have changed drastically as a result of their Twin Flame journey. She is one of many successful entrepreneurs  who contributed their story to the internationally bestselling book “Yes, I Can.” In this episode, she explains why this process holds the key to success in every area of your life. 

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Has your entire life been disrupted and overturned? After years of near-perfect success and smooth sailing, are your health, finances, career or other major areas of life suddenly falling apart? This is not only common, but, as Elle explains, quite a necessary part of the Twin Flame journey. 

It’s an awakening, an alarm. Your soul is trying to get your attention. Physical pain and exhaustion are often signs of fear being alchemized into love. The more you align with your true self, the closer you come to your true desires and your true soul’s purpose. And this means your definition of success may not look the same as it used to. 

Take heart knowing that you can never go backwards. The Twin Flame journey moves in only one direction: forward.

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Are you at the mercy of your limiting beliefs? Do you place people and things into boxes, therefore limiting their possibilities? To live in the 3D world is to be surrounded by limitations. Our fear-based minds, desiring a false sense of control tend to name, label, and categorize things and people, declaring what they are and are not, and therefore boxing them in. Your soul, however, is limitless. In the soul realm everything is possible and there are no opposites of good or bad, right or wrong, is and is not.

Applying labels to yourself and others–even positive ones like “empath,”-- is harmful. It suggests that you are only empathetic and nothing else. Labeling your Twin Flame a narcissist suggests that they have only narcissistic traits, while you have none. In fact, we all have a combination of every trait living within us at any given time. 

Whenever you find yourself labeling something or someone–including yourself–take a moment to pause. Remember, everything is possible and right in the realm of the soul. 

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• “A limitation is anything that imposes some type of restriction, disbelief, impossibility, boxing, categorizing, or label. So basically, most things in the physical world are limiting–that includes words and definitions.” (3:16 | Elle)

• “How can we be in alignment with our soul which knows no limits, which is limitless – if we are living with limitation, if we are believing in limitation?” (4:25 | Elle)

• “We look at empirical data, scientific evidence, things of that nature to see, to validate if something is possible, or if something is right or wrong. But in the realm of the soul everything is right–everything is. It’s not right or wrong, it just is. In the realm of the soul where there are no limits, no physical data, anything and everything is possible.” (6:42 | Elle)

• “If you say you’re an empath, for example, that means you’re saying that you’re never not empathetic. And remember, to say you’re always one thing and never another thing is a limitation.” (9:24 | Elle)

• “There are no opposites in the realm of the soul. You just are, and you are everything. Everything, anything, all at once.” (9:57 | Elle) 

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Do you feel the need to do something to accelerate your Twin Flame journey? Do you feel anxious when you compare your journey to other people’s? This need to “do” is fear-based “push” energy, and has the opposite effect–it will actually impede your progress toward your Twin Flame. It is when you let go and stay present and put complete trust in your soul that you allow it to deliver you in perfect time to exactly where you need to be. 

Despite what the mind will try to tell you, there is no prize to be won. You win by letting go, trusting your soul, as it is the only thing that is truly in control.

Quotes 

• “Remember: when we feed our fear-based “push” energy, by believing it, by enacting what it wants us to do, then it just grows bigger, it pushes out farther and causes our Twin Flame to pull away farther.” (5:00 | Elle)

• “Your soul is guiding you, perfectly. And your soul will bring you to exactly what you truly desire, your exact destiny, in divine perfect timing. All it takes is trust and belief in your soul.” (5:27 | Elle) 

• “It has no sense of time. Every lifetime to your soul is just a second, an instant, a moment, because it just goes on forever. There is no end, there is no destination, there is no finality. (8:20 | Elle) 

• “What is fast for one person is not as fast as for another. There’s no sense in comparing anything either, with anyone else. That’s also your fear-based “push” energy, wanting to make this a competition, because it looks at this as there’s a prize to win, being with your Twin Flame physically. But it can’t be like that.” (11:31 | Elle) 

• “That’s the Twin Flame paradox: you have to really let go of the need or the want or the yearning or the longing, the physical desire of being with your Twin Flame in order to then be with them.” (13:37 | Elle)

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Are you trying to get the attention of your Twin Flame by looking them up or orchestrating a run-in with them? Or, by contrast, are you actively trying to avoid or ignore them? If you answered yes to either, you are in your “push” energy. And when you “push”, your Twin Flame inevitably “pulls”. This is a mutually manipulative dance in which you both vie for control. 

Of course, any sense of control is false and fear-based. The mind, which is only part of your earth-based experience, is never actually in control. Control belongs to your soul, which is eternal through all lifetimes and everything in between. 

The goal of the push/pull phenomenon is to learn to let go of this need to control, and to let your soul take over. When you do, miracles tend to happen.

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• “There’s a belief that knowledge is power. You Google things, you have a quest and a search and a curiosity for information about things. You want to know things. That’s all fine and perfect–as a human being with a mind, that’s what the mind does, but why does the mind do that? Because it feels like the more it knows, the more in control it is.” (5:31 | Elle)

• "What the false sense of control gives the fear-based push/pull energy is a false sense of security. Your mind and your fear-based push/pull energy are never in control. Your soul is controlling everything, it’s orchestrating everything in your life, in every lifetime, between every lifetime. Your mind isn’t even there in between your lifetimes. You only get a mind when you come into physical form.” (6:35 | Elle) 

• “The “push” energy feels like it’s in control by trying to get reactions and responses from the “pull” energy. The “pull” energy feels like it’s in control by focusing anywhere else but on the “push” energy.” (10:57 | Elle) 

• “They’re both very manipulative. It’s a very manipulative game.” (11:23 | Elle)

“You can’t let go of your Twin Flame. What you want to let go of is, pretty much, the wheel. Sit back and let go of trying to control your journey.” (14:11 | Elle)

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Do you practice a traditional religion? Are you trying to maintain ties to this religion while continuing on your Twin Flame journey? If so, chances are you are finding it quite difficult, much like trying to move forward while still being tethered to the ground. This is because the two pursuits are inherently contradictory: religion is trusting and believing something outside of yourself that is dictated by other people, while the Twin Flame journey’s mission is to teach you to trust and believe in yourself. 

Religions were created in the mind, which means they’re fear-based. Love is fearless. As you continue to ascend on your Twin Flame journey, you learn to transmute fear into love. Rather than putting your faith in gods and goddesses, you begin to realize that we are our own gods and goddesses. We are omnipotent, infinite and indestructible. 

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• “I call it an issue because religion itself goes against what we are doing, learning here in this journey, what this journey is all about.” (3:14 | Elle)

• “Anything created in the mind is fear-based, and so religion was ultimately created from a fear-based perspective, from a fear-based energy in people’s minds.” (5:37 | Elle)

• “The Twin Flame journey, it’s an awakening, it’s the first step of ascension, out of the fear-based paradigm of looking outside of ourselves for something to believe in, something to have faith in and realize that we are everything within. Our souls are everything. We are directly from Source.” (6:59 | Elle) 

• “The church was there entwined with the government and used to oppress people, to keep people down, to keep building on and preying on their fear-based energy, on their fear of the devil or evil or whatever. And that helps keep people oppressed.” (9:57 | Elle)

• “Now that you’re awakened to this journey, it’s really challenging and difficult to have both, because when you trust and believe in something, whether it’s yourself or some external god or being or whatever your preacher is telling you, either way you’re not fully trusting or believing in anything unless you’re 100 percent in. There’s no such thing as half belief, or half trust or half faith. You either have it or you don’t.” (10:54 | Elle) 

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Are you experiencing earth shattering heartbreak, a dire financial state or unprecedented health problems? If so, you are not alone These are just a few of the very common pitfalls experienced by those on the Twin Flame journey, all of which can be attributed to feelings of fear or lack. These feelings are exclusive to the 3D physical world and all stem from the illusion of separateness. 

In the 5D world, the spirit realm, everything is connected and we are whole. As Rumi tells us, everything we want we already are. You and your Twin Flame are a single connected energy field existing in two separate bodies. Part of our earthly experience is to feel separateness so that we can recognize the opposite. 

If you’ve felt any of the above, Elle has answers for you. As always, she is here to guide you through these latest rites of passage along your Twin Flame journey. 

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• “The point of this journey is to love ourselves. And what does that mean? It means shifting closer into alignment with who we truly are, because we are love we are our souls. And so it's recognizing and resonating with our true being, our true soul” (5:14 | Elle)

• “In the realm of the soul, and spirit, all that, fear does not exist. It only exists in the physical, 3D world. And what is fear? Fear is the illusion of separation.” (7:04 | Elle) 

• “In order to know what something is, we have to see also what it's not.” (10:20 | Elle)

• “Anywhere, there's fear, it's going to come up, you're going to have to deal with it, you're going to have to balance , you're going to have to transcend that fear and transmute that fear into love energy, which is what we do on this journey.” (19:24 | Elle)

• “That's really why so many people come to me, and they say not only did my Twin Flame leave me and I'm feeling awful and on the floor, but it seems like every area of my life has just fallen apart.  And there is a reason for that. It's because it's wherever you feel that you have lack, where you're not looking at it as you're total, you're whole and complete and everything you want you already are. Wherever you have that fear, that is that sense or illusion of separation.” (18:02 | Elle) 

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As you continue along your Twin Flame journey, dating may be the furthest thing from your mind. Then suddenly–bam!--someone comes along who sweeps you off of your feet and reminds you what it’s like to be in a normal relationship, reminds you that you absolutely can be physically attracted to another person and brings more balance to your life by taking the focus off of your Twin Flame for a while. 

Of course, if you are consciously and intentionally hoping that a new relationship will aid you in calling in your Twin Flame, this will backfire. This is fear-based push energy and will not help you on your journey at all. If you are going to enjoy a relationship while moving along your Twin Flame journey, you must completely separate it from the rest of the journey. 

Of course, if you feel you don’t want to date anyone at all, that’s also normal and perfectly fine. There is no right or wrong way to go about this. Trust that everything is working out perfectly and in its own divine time, just for you. 

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• “Generally most people do not, can't even think about or fathom dating someone else until they've shifted closer in line with their soul. They're feeling balanced, they've magnetized in their twin flame, or maybe not, they haven't magnetized in their twin flame yet, but they're feeling great. They don't need anyone else not even thinking about that, they're not looking for that. And then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, Bam! Their soul magnetizes in someone that just knocks their socks off, just whirlwind sweeps them off their feet.” (5:21 | Elle)

• “We don't want to date anyone else with the hopes of taking our focus off of the twin flame, or getting the twin flame or balancing more or moving along our journey or anything else. We want to date someone else just because, in the moment, it feels good, and we're having fun with that person. Nothing to do with a twin flame, nothing to do with the twin flame journey at all. You cannot connect it at all, it has to be separate–totally, totally separate. Otherwise, that's the fear based energy connecting it and it's feeding your fear based push energy, which isn't helping your journey at all.” (9:55 | Elle)

• “You don't have to always be wanting that, you can be disinterested, you can go through long lulls of being disinterested in that. And that's perfect, too. However your journey is playing out, however you're feeling, there's nothing wrong with it. There's no right or wrong here.” (12:13 | Elle)

• “Regarding the twin flame journey, we don't want to believe or judge any of the thoughts as being good or bad. We just want to kind of neutralize those out, but feel the feelings.” (13:05 | Elle)

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Do you know the biggest mistake almost everyone makes on their Twin Flame journey? According to host Elle Hari it’s discussing your journey with others, even your Twin Flame. And while it may be tempting to want to share your feelings about it, you are doing yourself and your Twin Flame a disservice. 

Whether it be venting, gossiping, or just talking about your Twin Flame journey is disrespectful to your journey. Because when you do this, you are allowing your fear-based energy to control your thoughts, feelings and actions. It is important to know that the Twin Flame journey is the most important thing that your soul will ever experience, so you must approach it with the highest regard. And the more you tap into the urge to discuss your journey, the more you are feeding your fear-based energy and the more your Twin Flame will pull away. 

While our human inclination is to share stuff with others, some things are better kept to ourselves, especially our Twin Flame journeys. When you finally accept this journey as sacred and hold your experience close to you, you can shut out the fear-based energy and be with your Twin Flame if you choose to do so. 

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• “This journey is your spiritual journey. It is the very first step of your ascension. That means it should be revered, it should be treated as the beautiful amazing and transformative gift that it is. It is not like any other relationship with anyone else where you would go and gossip about it with people.” (04:23-04:44 | Elle)

• “Announcing about or discussing your Twin Flame journey is very degrading. It's not very respectful to the sanctity of what this journey is about.” (05:39-05:59 | Elle)

• “This journey is private. It is meant to be a private journey.” (09:49-09:54 | Elle)

• “You cannot advance along this journey while also simultaneously feeding your fear-based energy.” (11:38-11:41 | Elle)

• “Me and the coaches that I have trained under me, we know how to hold a space for people to discuss their journey and their Twin Flame with us where we're making sure that they're also not simultaneously feeding their fear-based energy.” (12:13-12:33 | Elle)

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Throughout the episodes, you have probably heard host Elle Hari talk a lot about ascension and its role in your Twin Flame journey. Not only does it impact your relationship with your Twin Flame, but with everyone around you, including yourself. In today’s episode, Elle explains what ascension is and what it looks like in your life. 

According to Elle, ascension is a three-step process and the Twin Flame journey is the first step of that process. It is the whole purpose of our existence throughout our lifetimes. But what exactly does it look like? As we now know, you cannot be with your Twin Flame physically unless you transmute your fear-based energy into love. And through ascension, our levels of consciousness and awareness rise to collapse the separateness that we feel with our Twin Flame until we become one. It is here that we can gain our power back and live fearlessly. And once you have achieved ascension with your Twin Flame, you will begin to notice that you can do this with everyone around you. 

When you no longer have to concern yourself with the thoughts or actions of others, you become empowered to live in alignment with your soul, which is love. And then, you can finally reach the sacred Twin Flame reunion that you have been waiting for. 

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• “Ascension is the whole entire point and purpose of our existence in every lifetime.” (01:52-02:00 | Elle)

• “Ascension is essentially like a three step process and the Twin Flame journey is the first step of that process.” (02:30-02:33 | Elle)

• “Once you reach ascension, and your Twin Flame reaches ascension, that means you have no fear. You become fearless.” (07:02-07:08 | Elle)

• “When you realize that you no longer have to concern yourself with what anyone else is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling, especially about yourself, then that just empowers you. It gives you your power back.” (13:16-13:28 | Elle)

• “The whole ascension process is really about loving yourself, not just in the Twin Flame part of the journey,  but also with other people. And as that happens, you will see how you are all one.” (14:30-14:46 | Elle)

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Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io 

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