Are you spending more time alone than usual, lately? Do you find yourself lonely without other people to provide you with love, peace and comfort? This season of isolation is the perfect opportunity to learn to love yourself completely and wholly, to enjoy your own company, without the need of approval from anyone else. The more you love yourself, the more you love your Twin Flame and thus draw them to you like a magnet. 

Too many people are afraid to be alone. They forget that they are enough just as they are. No matter how many people you surround yourself with–including the physical form of your Twin Flame–no one can truly make us feel anything, good or bad. We are in charge of our own feelings and shouldn’t give anyone the power to define or fulfill us. 

As Elle says on this latest episode, it’s time we all own our own shit. This is part of loving ourselves, and loving ourselves brings us closer to our Twin Flames.

Quotes 

• “Right now, you’re being given a gift from the Universe and your soul is being given a gift, and it’s a gift of solitude.”(4:02 | Elle)

• “Well, think about it: when you love someone, or you think you love someone, what do you want to do? You want to spend time with them. You love being with them. They’re enough. Just being with them is enough. That’s where you need to get with yourself. You feel whole and complete and have the best time ever just being with you.” (4:49 | Elle) 

• “That’s a very real fear for most people. Most people cannot be alone. And it’s because they don’t truly love themselves. They’re looking outside themselves to other people, constantly, for comfort, to feel good, for happiness.” (6:08 | Elle)

• “Everyone–everyone–is responsible for their own feelings, and it’s about time we all take responsibility for that and accountability and own our own shit. Because that’s loving yourself.” (7:33 | Elle) 

• “Because ultimately, what’s that doing? It’s giving away your power. That’s saying someone else has the power over you to cause you to feel comfortable, or happy, or angry, or pissed off. Why would you give your power away like that?” (7:59 | Elle)

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Have you found yourself isolated with more time to think and less time to spend with people? As a result, are your thoughts becoming more obsessive? If you are looking to stop those thoughts, then think again, Elle says. What you want to change is the energy behind the thoughts and the stories that your fear-based energy attaches to them. Thoughts themselves are neutral, and can mean something different to you from one day to the next depending on the meaning you assign to it. 

This is easier said than done, as some of our thoughts are deeply embedded in our subconscious and are attached to triggers, behavioral patterns, and stories. The stories you attach to the physical embodiment of your Twin Flame–examples of which Elle shares here, including one from her own life–will keep you apart from each other. 

To clear up the fog that obsessive thoughts create between the two of you, you must practice the opposite of that fog, which is  truth and love, to make things clear. Join Elle in today’s episode to learn how to do it!

Quotes 

• “You’re not supposed to stop your thoughts. It’s not about stopping something because you don’t want to resist it. What you resist, persists. What it’s really about is sitting there and being aware of your thoughts.” (4:16 | Elle) 

• “If you ever take an actual ball of snow, a little tiny one in your hand, and you roll it around  on the ground, it gets bigger and bigger, it just collects more snow. That’s how your fear-based energy works. So, it starts with a factual thought that may appear to be the case, but then it adds a story to it that you don’t know is real, because it’s made up by your fear-based energy.” (7:14 | Elle) 

• “I know you’ve felt this way because I’ve felt this way: when you’re in the throes of your Twin Flame journey like this, it almost feels like you’re in a fog.” (9:21 | Elle)

• “Fear is cloudy; fear’s not clear. Truth is clear. Truth and love. They’re clear.” (9:42 | Elle)

• “So as you do all those things, and as you lift the cloud for yourself, you’re lifting it for your Twin Flame as well.” (11:47 | Elle)

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Do you find yourself having an abundance of fearful thoughts lately? Are you dwelling on the negative more than usual? In today’s world, it’s almost impossible not to be bombarded by stressful imagery and messaging. Since they know it’s all very addictive, the media makes sure to keep it in steady rotation. 

Elle is here to help, guiding you with simple exercises and suggestions to keep you centered and present, so that the fear-based energy in your mind doesn’t stand between you and your Twin Flame.  She’ll show you what to do with the thoughts that come up in your mind, and explain why it’s important not to dwell either in the present or the past. No one outside of you can create your feelings. The antidote to fear and fear-based thinking is to trust and love yourself completely. 

As Elle explains in this episode, sometimes being out of your mind is a good thing. She reveals the one thing you must do for any of the other steps to work and recommends one of the best books on the topic of living presently. 

Quotes 

• “As anyone on the Twin Flame journey knows, fear-based energy is highly addictive, and like all energy, its natural inclination is to grow and expand. That’s what it’s meant to do.” (4:39 | Elle) 

• “The media companies and the news outlets, they’ve always known that fear is addictive and that’s why they prey on it.” (5:50 | Elle)

• “You want to temper yourself from going forward or backward, and just really try to be present for a while. Fear cannot live in the present.” (11:22 | Elle)

• “Let the thoughts just float on by. It’s OK. They don’t mean anything; they aren’t real. They’re created in your mind which is run and controlled by what?---Your fear-based energy.” (13:04 | Elle) 

• “Trust and believe that your soul is orchestrating everything in your life. Because it is, and it’s doing it for a reason, even if your mind doesn’t know what that reason is.” (16:07 | Elle)

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Are you using the Law of Attraction to manifest what you want? Is it working the way you want it to?

In this episode, Elle explains why manifesting techniques can hinder you, and will never be as powerful, as letting everything you desire come to you freely by aligning with your soul. Your mind is fear-based and limited to your physical experience, she says. It cannot even conceive of what your soul can bring to you.

Popular manifesting techniques require that you stay in your head, focused on the past and worried about the future. Also, people usually do it when they are in a panicked or worried state. The soul energy, which is infinitely more powerful than the mind, requires that we stay in the present, recognizing that all things are possible. 

Free will is not what we think it is, Elle explains. Join the conversation to hear her explain how to reconcile the Twin Flame Journey with intentional manifesting, and the best method to use to get what you most desire. 

Quotes 

• “It’s interesting and yet backwards but people tend to want to manifest from a place of fear, when they realize that things are lacking or missing, or they feel a sense of things not being the way they want them, which is all fear-based thought. That’s when they actually look to intentionally manifest, usually. Of course, that’s the time when you really shouldn’t and that’s not going to work.” (3:43 | Elle)

• “Any sense of control it does feel is totally a false sense of control. It’s never in control. Think about it: your mind only exists for the whole of your lifetime, it’s not eternal, you don’t take it with you. It’s part of your physical reality and your physical existence. It’s not your soul, your soul is eternal.” (5:56 | Elle)

• “Your soul is a direct spark of source energy. Source energy–whatever you want to call it, the Universe, Source, God, Goddess, whatever— it is the ultimate creator. It created everything, everything that exists in the entire history of everything, everything in the entire cosmos. It invented the cosmos. It invented everything, it created everything. And so, your soul is a direct spark from that energy, so therefore, you are an ultimate creator.”  (6:39 | Elle) 

• “Your mind can’t even dream as big as what your soul can bring you.” (8:18 | Elle) 

• “‘Whatever thoughts are going through our heads, whatever we’d like to see show up in our physical world, if we’re worried about it, if we’re concerned about it, if we’re so focused on it that we can’t even find real, true peace about it in our life at all, unless we get it because it’s so in our head, that’s being in our mind and that’s being fear-based. And then if we try to intentionally create or manifest things from that space, with that energy, that’s just not being in alignment with our soul.” (16:35 | Elle)

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Do you know what you truly want in life? Are you on a journey toward what you’ve been conditioned to believe is success? Be prepared to be thrown right off course, Elle warns. As you move closer into alignment with your soul–your true self–you move closer to your true life’s purpose and your true desires. These are often different from those that you form in your mind, where your ego–and fear based energy–are stored. And it’s not just your career that will change–you’ll find yourself receiving your true desires in all aspects of your life. 

And they will come with ease–because the soul will magnetize it all toward you. This is why it is so important to trust your soul-your true self. The mind and the ego will create resistance, and skepticism is normal. But to truly love yourself–your true self–means trusting yourself completely. 

Elle’s own life and the life of her students have changed drastically as a result of their Twin Flame journey. She is one of many successful entrepreneurs  who contributed their story to the internationally bestselling book “Yes, I Can.” In this episode, she explains why this process holds the key to success in every area of your life. 

Quotes 

• “The definition of success, what you might think you want or desire in life, what you might think is your definition of success—and always has been—it may very well change as you move along this journey.”(4:23 | Elle) 

• “I’m not saying everything you want now is not aligned with truth or is all fear-based—if you want world peace, that’s perfect and great–it’s different than that. You can desire and want the same things, but your “come-from” about it, your intention for it, is different.” (6:57 | Elle)

• “When you’re in alignment with your true self and your soul, your soul magnetizes in all your true desires to you, without your really having to do anything. You don’t have to plan in your mind how to get it. You don’t have to really go out and do anything. And when you do things, and you do take actions, they don’t feel like they’re actions, they don’t feel like they’re work. You don’t even have to think about how to do it, the answer just comes to you. It really is amazing and miraculous and I see it all the time with my students, and I am living proof of exactly why and how that happens.” (8:09 | Elle) 

• “That’s really the number one lesson of this journey, is to trust and believe in yourself, and by ‘self,’ of course, I mean ‘soul.’ (12:24 | Elle)

Links

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Has your entire life been disrupted and overturned? After years of near-perfect success and smooth sailing, are your health, finances, career or other major areas of life suddenly falling apart? This is not only common, but, as Elle explains, quite a necessary part of the Twin Flame journey. 

It’s an awakening, an alarm. Your soul is trying to get your attention. Physical pain and exhaustion are often signs of fear being alchemized into love. The more you align with your true self, the closer you come to your true desires and your true soul’s purpose. And this means your definition of success may not look the same as it used to. 

Take heart knowing that you can never go backwards. The Twin Flame journey moves in only one direction: forward.

Quotes 

• “Your soul is trying to get your attention. You cannot ignore this journey. And if you’re not going to pay attention to the more subtle signs that are going on–your soul just knows you, it is you—if it doesn’t wreak havoc or change or affect one or all areas of your life, then you might not notice. This really is an awakening. It has to wake you up.” (5:12 | Elle)

• “The point of pain–even physical pain–pain is a symptom. It’s not the actual cause or the problem. Pain is there as an alarm, an alert, an awakening to tell you, ‘Hey! This is going on. This hurts. So pay attention.’ It gets your attention and leads you to find out and discover what actually is the underlying cause of the pain.”  (5:43 | Elle)

• “In the realm of the soul, what you really feel the need to do is create. Your soul is a creative energy, we are creative beings.” (8:51 | Elle)

• “When you are in alignment with your soul and what your true soul’s purpose is, you’re in alignment with the universe. And that is the whole energetic space of pure potentiality, which includes everything that you ever truly desire.” (9:24 | Elle)

• “Change in and of itself is very painful for people because our fear based energy hates change. It feels like it’s losing control.” (10:48 | Elle)

Links

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Are you at the mercy of your limiting beliefs? Do you place people and things into boxes, therefore limiting their possibilities? To live in the 3D world is to be surrounded by limitations. Our fear-based minds, desiring a false sense of control tend to name, label, and categorize things and people, declaring what they are and are not, and therefore boxing them in. Your soul, however, is limitless. In the soul realm everything is possible and there are no opposites of good or bad, right or wrong, is and is not.

Applying labels to yourself and others–even positive ones like “empath,”-- is harmful. It suggests that you are only empathetic and nothing else. Labeling your Twin Flame a narcissist suggests that they have only narcissistic traits, while you have none. In fact, we all have a combination of every trait living within us at any given time. 

Whenever you find yourself labeling something or someone–including yourself–take a moment to pause. Remember, everything is possible and right in the realm of the soul. 

Quotes 

• “A limitation is anything that imposes some type of restriction, disbelief, impossibility, boxing, categorizing, or label. So basically, most things in the physical world are limiting–that includes words and definitions.” (3:16 | Elle)

• “How can we be in alignment with our soul which knows no limits, which is limitless – if we are living with limitation, if we are believing in limitation?” (4:25 | Elle)

• “We look at empirical data, scientific evidence, things of that nature to see, to validate if something is possible, or if something is right or wrong. But in the realm of the soul everything is right–everything is. It’s not right or wrong, it just is. In the realm of the soul where there are no limits, no physical data, anything and everything is possible.” (6:42 | Elle)

• “If you say you’re an empath, for example, that means you’re saying that you’re never not empathetic. And remember, to say you’re always one thing and never another thing is a limitation.” (9:24 | Elle)

• “There are no opposites in the realm of the soul. You just are, and you are everything. Everything, anything, all at once.” (9:57 | Elle) 

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Do you feel the need to do something to accelerate your Twin Flame journey? Do you feel anxious when you compare your journey to other people’s? This need to “do” is fear-based “push” energy, and has the opposite effect–it will actually impede your progress toward your Twin Flame. It is when you let go and stay present and put complete trust in your soul that you allow it to deliver you in perfect time to exactly where you need to be. 

Despite what the mind will try to tell you, there is no prize to be won. You win by letting go, trusting your soul, as it is the only thing that is truly in control.

Quotes 

• “Remember: when we feed our fear-based “push” energy, by believing it, by enacting what it wants us to do, then it just grows bigger, it pushes out farther and causes our Twin Flame to pull away farther.” (5:00 | Elle)

• “Your soul is guiding you, perfectly. And your soul will bring you to exactly what you truly desire, your exact destiny, in divine perfect timing. All it takes is trust and belief in your soul.” (5:27 | Elle) 

• “It has no sense of time. Every lifetime to your soul is just a second, an instant, a moment, because it just goes on forever. There is no end, there is no destination, there is no finality. (8:20 | Elle) 

• “What is fast for one person is not as fast as for another. There’s no sense in comparing anything either, with anyone else. That’s also your fear-based “push” energy, wanting to make this a competition, because it looks at this as there’s a prize to win, being with your Twin Flame physically. But it can’t be like that.” (11:31 | Elle) 

• “That’s the Twin Flame paradox: you have to really let go of the need or the want or the yearning or the longing, the physical desire of being with your Twin Flame in order to then be with them.” (13:37 | Elle)

Links

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Are you trying to get the attention of your Twin Flame by looking them up or orchestrating a run-in with them? Or, by contrast, are you actively trying to avoid or ignore them? If you answered yes to either, you are in your “push” energy. And when you “push”, your Twin Flame inevitably “pulls”. This is a mutually manipulative dance in which you both vie for control. 

Of course, any sense of control is false and fear-based. The mind, which is only part of your earth-based experience, is never actually in control. Control belongs to your soul, which is eternal through all lifetimes and everything in between. 

The goal of the push/pull phenomenon is to learn to let go of this need to control, and to let your soul take over. When you do, miracles tend to happen.

Quotes 

• “There’s a belief that knowledge is power. You Google things, you have a quest and a search and a curiosity for information about things. You want to know things. That’s all fine and perfect–as a human being with a mind, that’s what the mind does, but why does the mind do that? Because it feels like the more it knows, the more in control it is.” (5:31 | Elle)

• "What the false sense of control gives the fear-based push/pull energy is a false sense of security. Your mind and your fear-based push/pull energy are never in control. Your soul is controlling everything, it’s orchestrating everything in your life, in every lifetime, between every lifetime. Your mind isn’t even there in between your lifetimes. You only get a mind when you come into physical form.” (6:35 | Elle) 

• “The “push” energy feels like it’s in control by trying to get reactions and responses from the “pull” energy. The “pull” energy feels like it’s in control by focusing anywhere else but on the “push” energy.” (10:57 | Elle) 

• “They’re both very manipulative. It’s a very manipulative game.” (11:23 | Elle)

“You can’t let go of your Twin Flame. What you want to let go of is, pretty much, the wheel. Sit back and let go of trying to control your journey.” (14:11 | Elle)

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Do you practice a traditional religion? Are you trying to maintain ties to this religion while continuing on your Twin Flame journey? If so, chances are you are finding it quite difficult, much like trying to move forward while still being tethered to the ground. This is because the two pursuits are inherently contradictory: religion is trusting and believing something outside of yourself that is dictated by other people, while the Twin Flame journey’s mission is to teach you to trust and believe in yourself. 

Religions were created in the mind, which means they’re fear-based. Love is fearless. As you continue to ascend on your Twin Flame journey, you learn to transmute fear into love. Rather than putting your faith in gods and goddesses, you begin to realize that we are our own gods and goddesses. We are omnipotent, infinite and indestructible. 

Quotes 

• “I call it an issue because religion itself goes against what we are doing, learning here in this journey, what this journey is all about.” (3:14 | Elle)

• “Anything created in the mind is fear-based, and so religion was ultimately created from a fear-based perspective, from a fear-based energy in people’s minds.” (5:37 | Elle)

• “The Twin Flame journey, it’s an awakening, it’s the first step of ascension, out of the fear-based paradigm of looking outside of ourselves for something to believe in, something to have faith in and realize that we are everything within. Our souls are everything. We are directly from Source.” (6:59 | Elle) 

• “The church was there entwined with the government and used to oppress people, to keep people down, to keep building on and preying on their fear-based energy, on their fear of the devil or evil or whatever. And that helps keep people oppressed.” (9:57 | Elle)

• “Now that you’re awakened to this journey, it’s really challenging and difficult to have both, because when you trust and believe in something, whether it’s yourself or some external god or being or whatever your preacher is telling you, either way you’re not fully trusting or believing in anything unless you’re 100 percent in. There’s no such thing as half belief, or half trust or half faith. You either have it or you don’t.” (10:54 | Elle) 

Links

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To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit: 

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