The Bible teaches clearly that there are only two roads in this life. There is the broad road that leads to death and the narrow road that leads to life. Most travel the broad road because there is lots of company there which makes it feel like it surely must be the right way. Those that are after the flesh travel the broad road and those that are after the Spirit travel the narrow road. Those that are after the flesh are not saved and are headed to hell. Those that are after the Spirit have the assurance of God and the witness of his Spirit that they are going to be with God in eternity. Which road are you on? If you make your choices and decisions without regard to God and you cannot be happy unless you are conforming to this world, then you should be alarmed about the condition of your soul, even if you claim to be saved and on your way to heaven. There is too much at stake to risk on a misunderstanding of the Gospel.