Lily & Fallon discuss oversharing in relationships. Is it possible to have healthy boundaries and not run and tell all of your business to your closest friends? What is acceptable or unacceptable to share?

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Lily & Fal discuss the standards & expectations in relationships of their younger selves vs. now. They then define standards and expectations and discuss their differences. Resources: https://medium.com/the-chill-philosopher/at-the-intersection-of-expectations-standards-part-1-differences-adc9d914d16f https://herway.net/17-bare-minimum-relationship-standards-you-have-to-set/

Lily & Fal play Two Truths and a Lie and discuss what it means to fight fair. What are some ways we escalate conflict and what are the ways we can learn to fight fair? Check out these resources: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/better/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.self.com/story/fighting-fair/amp

Fallon and Lily discuss red flags in relationships and whether or not it’s time to let that relationship go. They get further insight from an article that also discusses the much less talked about yellow & green flags which you can find here : https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.self.com/story/red-flag-green-and-yellow-flags/amp

We’ve all heard some horrendous pick up lines but Fallon & Lily take it to the next level with some of the gems they found. Laugh with them as they take you to the land of cheesy, and arguably, worst pick up lines ever created. 😉

Lily and Fallon share their own ghost stories while playing Two Truths and a Lie. Listeners’ ghost stories are also featured. They then take a Buzzfeed quiz that tells them how dateable they are based upon their decisions to date or ghost. https://www.buzzfeed.com/ajanibazile/ghosting-dateability-quiz

Lily and Fallon interview Behavioral Health Clinician Eleanor Forbes MMHC, LSW. Things heat up when they delve into the realm of sex toys & masturbation. Book recs: Don’t Give it Away! by Iyanla Vanzant & Pussy Prayers by Black Girl Bliss

Being vulnerable sucks. That is all. The End.