Unabashed

Ready to get wild and feel free to enjoy your sex life?

In today’s society, there’s a lot of fear and misunderstanding around promiscuity. In this episode, Josefina dives into this complex topic and explains how we can evolve into what’s known as the “naughty provocateur.” 

She’ll help you move past your fear of appearing promiscuous and drop any shame you hold around your sexuality. By bringing the wildness back into your soul, you can unlock sexual liberation.

Josefina will leave you with an invitation to unlock your deepest pleasure and your most sensual self. 

Key Takeaways:

Resources:

Instagram: @josefinabashout 

JosefinaBashout.com

XOAfterglow.com

Memorable Quotes:

“Your nature is not to be domesticated, but to be wild.” (5:40, Josefina)

“We need to do what we were put here on the earth to do as women. We're here to feel. We're here to move. We are here to emote and to be erotic in a wholesome, beautiful way and to create and live our life in a beautiful state.” (6:25, Josefina)

“Promiscuity and being promiscuous also brings in an opportunity for liberation for an opportunity for you to shift into a sex-positive mindset. Into light. Into wildness.” (15:33, Josefina)

“You can have beautiful, meaningful sexual engagements with people that you choose to have sex with when you let go of the sexual shame and you allow yourself to be enticed by the freedom to let go of these old paradigms.” (25:42, Josefina)

“There's a lot of spiritual shaming that goes on that if you are sleeping around and having sex with people that this is going to block you from your life partner, this is a shaming narrative, and it's a fear-based narrative. I absolutely don't believe that.” (29:22, Josefina)

“It is actually so erotic, so sexy, so attractive when you know your body when you master your craft of sexuality as a woman because you bring more to your man, you bring more to the world, you bring more to your relationship.” (32:59, Josefina)

Have you ever gone through a friend breakup? Today’s guest has a long history with the host and will inspire you to see relationships in a new way. 

Zahara Zimring is a transformation coach, practitioner of spiritual psychology, and the creator of the Liberation Dojo.

Once an elite martial artist who was training for the Olympics, Zahara talks about her recovery from a debilitating spinal fusion and how she learned that trauma can be turned into transformation.

Zahara and Josefina also talk about their long history as both close friends and business partners. They share what they’ve learned from each other and how their former falling out pushed them to embody their highest selves. 

Zahara and Josefina’s story will help you see that every single relationship in your life is there to teach you important lessons. They will push you to drop the disempowering narratives that you’re holding inside of you so you can reach a new level of freedom. 

Key Takeaways:

• What Zahara’s spinal problems taught her. [6:30]
• How Zahara began her healing journey. [12:24]
• Zahara and Josefina’s experience being business partners. [20:34]
• How Josefina released her fear of being left behind. [31:35]
• Magnetizing people back into your life. [41:21]
• Self-abandonment. [47:01]
• Going through a friend breakup. [43:33]
• Zahara talks about her work at the Liberation Dojo. [54:38]

Where to Find the Guest:

ZarharaZimring.com 

@zaharazimring

Memorable Quotes:

“I feel like a lot of individuals live their lives into success that is determined and conditioned by the collective expectation of what success looks like.” (10:53, Zahara)

“I think that when we surround ourselves with women who reflect back the qualities that we seek, it helps embody the qualities that we desire.” (26:39, Zahara)

“For anyone listening who's gone through friend breakups. That can be sometimes just as hard, if not even harder, than breakups with a partner.” (43:33, Zahara)

“It actually doesn't serve the world at all for us to pretend in any arena and to placate what's happening as a result of us authentically being expressed as who we are in the moment.” (49:49, Zahara)

“The feeling, it's the freedom, it's the liberation, right?” (1:02:57, Josefina)

“We're all human. That's the fact. So it's about embracing our human experience.” (1:05:21, Josefina)

Do you want to live a life where you are unabashedly free through authentic self-expression?

This episode is extraordinarily special because Josefina is joined by her impressive sister, Samira.

Last week, Josefina taught you how to be bold. Today, the Bashout sisters add another layer to your newfound magnetic nature by sharing the secrets to full authenticity. 

Samira brands herself as an “Event Architect” and is the founder of A Bashout Creation, an event production company. 

Being the youngest of six girls, Samira shares how she carved her own path and created a happy, carefree life. The sisters reflect on their own paths to authenticity, explaining how they found their own unique expressions. 

To top it off, Josefina and Samira talk about the beautiful gift of sisterhood and why it is important. 

The Bashout sisters have mastered their boldness and authentic expression. Are you ready to join them? 

Key Takeaways:

• How Samira found her role as an Event Architect. [6:35]
• Easy practices to discover who you are in the world. [29:30]
• How to do the write and burn exercise. [35:14]
• Trusting your inner voice. [41:05]
• Commanding your desires. [47:49]
• What Samira has learned from Josefina. [52:28]
• Coming back to self-validation. [1:01:24]
• Samira’s biggest piece of advice for living more in your pleasure. [1:04:39]

Where to Find Samira:

BashCreate.com

@samirabashout

Memorable Quotes:

“For both of us, it's not just about what we look like. It's really about what we feel, that inner glow up. And then we're making sure the outside is matching the vibe of how we feel.” (16:49, Josefina)

“It has been just so great to finally be able to say what I want and actually have people receive me for what I want and not what they want.” (26:51, Samira)

“When we dump things out, it naturally creates more space. And in the space is where creativity comes in. Our authentic expression comes in. Our radiance comes in.” (36:46, Josefina)

“It all started once I stopped caring about what people thought and started listening to myself and to my voice. That's what became liberating to me. That’s how I was able to show up authentically and be myself.” (40:02, Samira)

“I take full ownership of who I am and because I'm taking full ownership of Samira Bashout, I am able to magnetize and bring in all the juicy things that are meant for me. And I really believe what is meant for you will be for you.” (49:06, Samira)

“Truth in the moment always brings us back to more love in the moment.” (1:00:05, Josefina)

When you are bold, everything that you want is magnetized towards you. Join Josefina on a journey of rediscovering your sense of boldness and magnetism. She’ll help you clear away the limiting beliefs and challenges that are in the way of accessing these qualities so you can take them on. When you do this, your existence will take on a new quality and your reality will shift for the better. In fact, you’ll have the energy of creation. It’s time to choose boldness and allow your desires to shine through. 

Key Takeaways:

• What being bold and magnetic truly means. [4:48]
• Getting out of our own way. [6:49]
• Exploring the topic of boldness. [9:19]
• What happens when you close your heart. [21:37]
• An easy practice to help create a supportive and secure relationship. [25:39]
• Creating an open space for love. [38:35]
• Focusing your light on yourself. [40:45]
• An affirmation for you. [43:21]

Memorable Quotes:

“Being goes into our existence. It's life. The definition of being is existence, soul spirit, essence.” (4:56, Josefina)

“When we come from a place of patience and allowance, we can rest in a relaxed reality of trust.” (8:15, Josefina)

“If we're not willing to go into the feelings and we're not willing to allow life to inform us, then we're missing out on the chance to reclaim more of our magnetic power that is existing in that exact moment. Because that exact moment is where everything is existing. ” (14:44, Josefina)

“We can't control life, but we absolutely can control our state of being.” (18:16, Josefina)

“The most bold and magnetic are those that are most authentic because they're open to life and they're expressing what's really real for them in the moment.” (23:59, Josefina)

“If your man isn't giving it to you in the moment, the solution is not to give more because that drains your magnetism. The solution is to give it to yourself.” (38:50, Josefina)

You are about to learn the way towards effortless manifestation.

Whatever it is you desire in life, you can have it just by mastering your own feminine energetics.

In this episode, Josefina guides you through a step-by-step process of using your feminine essence to manifest.

This is a process that she’s taught to hundreds of women throughout the years to help them step into their highest timelines.

Josefina will give you her three keys to strengthening your beliefs and acting on your desires, as well as tips for receiving more into your life.

Feminine manifestation is truly an art, and by the end of this episode you will no longer feel guilty about having desires, but embrace them instead.

Key Takeaways:

• Why it’s okay to have desires. [3:40]
• How fear blocks manifestation. [9:31]
• Asking for what you want. [10:54]
• Fear of rejection. [13:53]
• The joy of receiving the gift. [22:27]
• Your voice gives you freedom. [27:40]
• The reason you should completely surrender. [29:35]
• Dropping into your feminine design. [34:41]

Memorable Quotes:

“Desires are actually a gateway and a pathway to our deeper spiritual awakening. Our desires have medicine for us and our desires have God within them for us to be able to reach our own expansion.” (3:58, Josefina)

“Getting a no does not mean that you don't deserve to have it, that you aren't going to get it, or that you're not worthy of receiving. It's just the story that we make up through the conditioning of the beliefs that come from the human wounding space of unworthiness undeserving.” (6:17, Josefina)

“You deserve to have absolutely everything that you want and you desire because it's yours to have. If you have the desire. Then you're meant to have the receiving of this desire.” (7:42, Josefina)

“If you truly believe in the power of your desire, then that means you're truly believing in the inherent godliness and godliness that is moving through you. That is creating the desire through you.” (15:43, Josefina)

“If you don’t ask, you don’t receive.” (19:46, Josefina)

• Break the old spell of unworthiness.
• Call in pure consciousness.
• Express your soul’s deepest desires.
• Boost unconditional self-love.
• Release lower frequencies of energy

This is a great tool to use during times of loneliness, heaviness, and sadness to assist you in coming back home to yourself and remembering the loving essence within you. 

As you tune into this love spell, you will be guided back home to your inner voice and experience self-love greater than ever before. 

Resources:

Free Self-Love Empowerment Meditation!

When you reconnect with pussy, you create magic within your life.

This week, Josefina shares her personal experience of what can happen to a woman's life when she wakes up her pussy and becomes a portal to the Divine.

She shares bold truths to help shine a light on the disempowering narrative around female sexuality and embodiment. 

By speaking up on this traditionally taboo topic, Josefina will open you up to an entirely new level of healing, wellness, and empowerment. 

She will inspire you to stand bold and strong, living out the energy of the Pussy Priestess each and every day.

Key Takeaways:

• Owning your feminine brilliance and reclaiming your Divine power. [8:01]
• Why you should become connected to the portal of your pussy. [9:41]
• Weeding out the old stories and seeds of victimhood that women hold. [14:13]
• Living the energy of the Pussy Priestess. [21:03]
• How reconnecting to your pussy brings healing energy into all parts of your life. [23:36]
• It is possible to experience ecstatic states of joy through your pussy without penetration. [36:09]
• Josefina shares her Pussy Priestess Positive affirmations through a pleasure activation [38:39]

Memorable Quotes:

“Pussy is the priestess and a gateway into the divine.” (3:19, Josefina)

“We as women need to wake up today to the truth that all of us are a reflection of the Divine in our total expression of her.” (7:33, Josefina)

“Women. We are a powerful cosmic portal. The power that we hold is divine and we are truly fucking brilliant at our core.” (8:01, Josefina)

“Many of you may feel this little whisper inside that says you’re unworthy of this great love, unworthy of this great power. And I want to remind you and give you this permission slip that you were born worthy. All you need to do is reclaim it.” (12:08, Josefina)

“Your pussy, the energy of her, is calling to you right now, whispering for you to call your power back to yourself, to redefine what it is for you. To be an embodied, empowered, radically alive, spiritually awakened heart connected woman who has liberated herself through the reclamation of her body.” (21:11, Josefina)

“My desire is for every woman, every pussy holder in the world today, to have the courage to create their dream. To become greater than what society has programmed us to be.” (42:56, Josefina)

Are you using fantasy in an empowering or disempowering way? 

Today’s episode features Dr. Cat Meyer, a psychotherapist who specializes in sex trauma and the founder of SexLoveYoga.com. 

In this episode, Dr. Cat is here to evolve the relationship you have around sexuality and your body.

She’ll dive deep into fantasy, which you’ll learn can either be used as a tool to propel your intimate life forward or can hold you back tremendously. After this episode, you’ll be able to tell the difference between fantasy and reality in both dating and love.

Dr. Cat will also teach you how to see the big picture around your body, while having compassion for your human condition. By shifting your relationship around sexuality and your body, you’ll create a deep pleasure that will ripple through every area of your life. 

Key Takeaways:

• The benefits of fantasy in dating and sex. [8:02]
• When fantasy is used as a form of escapism. [13:46]
• Working with body intelligence. [20:48]
• Why compartmentalizing is an illusion [24:26]
• What it means to be in your body. [32:41]
• How to take the pressure off of intimacy and just have fun. [40:42]
• Dr. Cat’s key to unlocking more pleasure in your whole existence. [50:09]

Where to Find the Guest:

SexLoveYoga.com

@sexloveyoga

Memorable Quotes:

“I think so many people will say they don’t have expectations, I don’t think that’s necessarily honoring the human condition.” (11:10, Dr. Cat)

“The body has a different intelligence than our mind. And when we work those together, we can get more of a whole picture instead of just one.” (22:16, Dr. Cat)

“Dating is a process of discovering somebody and it’s going to take time.” (29:31, Dr. Cat)

“You actually can be the firestarter in a relationship, You can be the source of that chemistry that is awaiting.” (36:37, Dr. Cat)

“Dating is such a beautiful classroom for learning more and more about ourselves through the mirror of relation.” (43:03, Josefina)

“Successful sex doesn’t even have to have an orgasm.” (48:07, Dr. Cat)

Do you acknowledge your own greatness?  

Today, Josefina will help you remember your divine majesty and let go of the belief that you are “too much.” 

You’ll be reminded that there’s no time to waste hiding, and that embracing all of who you are is one of the greatest feelings in the world.

By letting go of your negative labels, you’ll improve your relationships and open yourself up to a whole new world of possibilities.

Key Takeaways:

• You ARE too much—and that’s not a bad thing! [4:47]
• Owning your divine majesty will enhance your level of intimacy with others. [5:29]
• Josefina shares her own story of awakening to her greatness. [6:07]
• Why there’s no time to waste hiding. [19:09]
• Taking hope in the emptiness. [23:43]
• What to do if your loved one isn’t ready to grow. [30:15]
• Looking for your greatness in the mirror. [42:32]

Want more juicy love?

Here is a free self-love empowerment meditation:

www.josefinabashout.com/free-self-love

Instagram: @josefinabashout @pusssypriestessshow

Memorable Quotes:

“You are no small prize. You are no small snack. You are greatness. Maybe you’ve forgotten because you’re wearing a disguise, but honey, you can’t hide from the truth of the fact that you are glorious far beyond what the eyes could see.” (3:36, Josefina)

“If we show up in our greatness, we become a mirror for greatness in our relationships.” (13:18, Josefina)

“We’re never alone, my love. Spirit is always with us. Nature’s always with us. Love is always with us. Our heart is always with us.” (18:23, Josefina)

“Making what you desire okay is the secret sauce to unlocking your greatness.” (33:59, Josefina)

“Be the meal, be the ambiance, be the vibe. And then don’t break yourself down into small little bite-sized pieces so they can just digest you.” (36:47, Josefina)

“The more that we own the fulness of this, of who we are without the shame, without the blame, the more we could experience the lovely majesty of our divine divinity.” (14:38, Josefina)

In this episode, Josefina will help you reclaim and liberate your own irresistible sex priestess. 

You’ll learn why this archetype has been repressed within women for thousands of years, and how you can release subconscious programming to call forward your most sexually, spiritually aligned version of yourself.

You’ll be inspired to fully express your sexual energy and become liberated. 

Now is the time to embody the sex priestess archetype, once and for all.

Key Takeaways:

• Josefina’s definition of an archetype. [3:18]
• Who are sex priestesses? [6:45]
• The cause of feminine repression. [7:53]
• Josefina’s magic key for holding love. [20:37]
• How you can call forward your most aligned life & romantic partners by reclaiming your sexual energy. [28:56]
• Pussy gazing. [33:54]
• An invitation to use ancient rituals and practices in the modern world. [37:50]
• Josefina’s promise to you about liberation. [42:10]

Memorable Quotes:

“I’m here to help you be curious and drop judgment. That’s the biggest piece.” (6:39, Josefina)

“We are not meant to be contained. We are meant to be free and wild, holy and creative, and leaderful and expressive in whatever shape, way, or form we decide.” (8:50, Josefina)

“There is nothing bad, wrong, dirty, shameful, about our sexuality.” {16:34, Josefina)

“You don’t need to have anything outside of you to change in this moment right now.” (23:57, Josefina)

“As the priestess archetype, we are the ones who are the sexual healers and the sexual leaders when we reclaim and re-own.” (37:01, Josefina)

“Trust it. Trust the magnetism, trust the whole of your heart, of your body, of your energy. And you will find deeper layers of liberation.” (42:15, Josefina)