In today’s episode, Josefina speaks with Angelika Alana about how to regain your erotic innocence by exploring the sacred slut. Pleasure is at the core of our existence and our culture has weaponized sexual pleasure against women. Slut is a word we can either erase or embrace. Angelika points out that it is important to understand that these labels are a reflection of the person weaponizing them because people are terrified of a spiritually and sexually liberated woman! Something we hope every listener gets closer to experiencing after this episode.

Key Takeaways

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Memorable Quotes

“A lot of times we need to leave home in order to support our spiritual, our sexual, our evolution just across the board,  to fly the nest and  try something different and go somewhere different where we can try on these different parts of ourselves without the collective judgement or  people throwing shade or shame towards our way” [16:41] -Josefina Bashout

“In highschool, The girls that I would see being called a slut didn't even have many casual partners! What they were doing is they were daring to operate in their sexuality in the same way as a man. Which means “I am going to do what I like! When I like! How I like! And I am going to enjoy sex. And to me a slut is essentiall a woman who dares to enjoy sex, outside of the confines of whetehr it is “appropriate” or not  [19:40] -Angelika Alana

“We are so threatened by a liberated woman”  [28:17] -Angelika Alana

‘What is the purpose of the weapon? Because “Slut” is an arrow. So if you’re shooting the arrow…WHY? What are you defending? Do you feel threatened? What is it about them that makes you feel unsafe? Do you feel unsafe? Do you feel pissed off? Let's get to the root of it. [30:00] -Angelika Alana

“If we are not doing that work to come into our own HEALTHY sexual power and our own connection to our  sexual prowess, which is innocent in nature ,as you said in the beginning of the call which is organic and natural in its essence. Then without that there is going to be that continual shaming and misuse.”  [30:54] -Josefina Bashout 

“Learning to work from the inside out. This recognition that; the greatest lie we’re told is that power is external, and if power is external then I have to win it at all cost. And I either have to win or I lose so every conversation, every sexual encounter becomes a win or lose game wherei am a beggar spiritual begger starving for power verses  the truth that we get to awaken to, that power is internal, it’s eternal and when I remember that, sex becomes really fun and playful because there is no hidden agenda.  [35:32] -Angelika Alana

“What word, if I am living it, will make any other word or intention easier or irrelevant, and the answer came through as “listen” If I am listening to life, myself, to the people around me, my body everything else  is easier or irrelevant.” [51:29] -Angelika Alana

Connect with Josefina

Instagram: @josefinabashout 

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In this episode, Josefina speaks with Kayote Joseph, a Holistic healing coach about the process of feminine manifestation. Kayote will show you how to shift your mindset so you can become effortlessly magnetic. 

Many people doubt manifestation because they never accept the unhappiness within themselves, so naturally the world replicates that unhappiness in the external world. Kayote will help you understand that you are worthy of happiness. You will experience peace and happiness once you devote yourself to the present because ALL the good feelings are in the present!

Key Takeaways:

[9:45] The art of feminine manifestation

[11:10] Fight of Flight: Healing by relieving stress through meditation and pleasure

[13:45] Everything, including our health, is a reflection of our energy

[16:40] Enjoying your everyday life so that there is nothing left to desire

[19:50] The first path to pleasure is presence

[26:36] Tension: Everything is a mirror to your internal state 

[28:05] Feel as if it is true instead of acting like it is true

[33:00] How can I love myself into feeling safer

[37:00] Becoming effortlessly magnetic 

[41:10] Do what lights you up and turns you on

[46:32] By virtue you are worthy and you deserve to feel good every single day!

Resources:

The Art of Feminine Manifestation Course

https://www.josefinabashout.com/digital-courses/p/afmm

IG: @Kayotejoseph

Memorable Quotes:

“You don’t awaken to the world of manifestation, pleasure and bliss by going to some yoga classes; I think you get here by having some moment of reckoning, where your path shifts because you need it to.” [10:30] - Kayote Joseph

“People massively worsen after they get a diagnosis from a doctor because when you get a diagnosis then you are very very stressed about this thing that is wrong with you.”   [13:10] -Kayote Joseph

“The body knows what to do, the body absolutely is so intelligent, far beyond what we can imagine.”  [14:40] -Josefina Bashout

“Your consciousness is the common denominator of your reality” [16:26]   -Kayote Joseph

“Freeing yourself by writing it down, by not avoiding it, so then your building, building building, this is what you're going to get more of; so, then we think manifestation doesn't work. But you are manifesting! But You're just manifesting more of what you don't want.”  [35:28] -Josefina Bashout

“The most productive thing you can do is feel good, then you got to be with the pieces of you that don’t feel good and you’ve got to be in radical acceptance of them and then become magnetic.”  [43:19] -Kayote Joseph

“Honey, there is nothing less sexy than faking your energy!”  [44:41] -Josefina Bashout

Josefina discusses self acceptance and finding true bliss with guest, Lynn Traub.

Lynn is an author, life teacher, hypnotherapist, and seminar leader. She does not come from a traditional educational background; rather, her wisdom comes from years of invaluable life experiences. As Lynn likes to put it, "Life is my teacher." Her exceptional gift of expressing love and compassion for the people she interacts with is genuine and palpable.

In this episode, Lynn opens us up to the idea of the “downward ladder” which is the necessary journey you must take inward before you can experience your whole self. Learn that self love begins with accepting who and where you are rather than hiding and fighting with your inner nature. Bliss can be achieved through this process with simple changes in perspective that lead to a loving understanding of who you are. 

Key Takeaways:

• Questioning ourselves and where our idea of a “Woman” comes from? [6:55]
• Why do I have to choose? Deconstructing the fragmented woman [11:00]
• What belief have I constructed about what makes me lovable? [19:00]
• Understanding where you are so you know where to go. Exposing ourselves to ourselves [21:00]
• Self acceptance in a culture of comparison [24:50]
• The downward ladder [26:55]
• Achieving bliss by living in the truth of your authentic self [30:00]
• Experience the emotional communication of your body [38:55]
• How to hold the Masculine and Femenine to achieve wholeness [43:00]
• Simple steps for self acceptance from  [49:00]
• Stay objective and withhold judgment  [56:12]

Resources:

https://lynntraub.com/

IG: @Lynn_Traub

The Empowered Women's Seminar will be on November 4-6th in Austin Texas. Please email [email protected] to stay informed for open registration.

Memorable Quotes:

“People think this work is really difficult but it truly is when you make it as simple as questioning your beliefs, questioning your beliefs even as a woman..where do we make up “woman” from? Where do we learn how to be a woman?[6:55] Lynn

“A lot of my modality is interpersonal communication so whatever is within is going to be without. So everything that I am believing within myself I am going to see in the world around me.” [10:14] Lynn Traub

“Until we start understanding ourselves as this “real woman” rather than this “child woman” or this “victim being”, that when we can see a woman in herself,in her whole self, is a SCARY Motherfucker”  [14:23] -Lynn Traub

“If we are protecting we are not  living, if we are protecting we are not loving. We are not loving ourselves.we cant receive love. We can't give love. [20:20] - Lynn Traub

“We have to be able to look at our darkness, because there is so much light at the center of that darkness.” [23:15] - Josefina Bashout

“Self love is a result of self acceptance”  [26:13] - Josefina Bashout

“A woman who really deeply accepts herself, that’s her tapping into this universal divine love that is endless but it is through the modality , the intention of constantly accepting ourselves.” [34:30] - Josefina Bashout

“Whatever we say we are, we are man and woman. We’re femenine and masculine so if we are making one right and one wrong we’re ALWAYS out of balance, we are never whole.”    [43:05]  -Lynn Traub

“Be in love with you because you are an original expression in this mass consciousness. There is no one that  expresses life like you and that ,in itself, is worth celebrating and being in bliss about.  [53:48] -Lynn Traub

In this special episode, Josefina brings you her raw, unfiltered thoughts on the overturning of Roe v. Wade.

This is a decision that radically impacts the health of women everywhere, as well as all communities as a whole. It’s natural to feel distraught and defeated, but Josefina is here today to help you take your power back.

If you live in a state without access to abortions or don’t have transportation, she will share resources so you can keep all of your options open. She’ll also give you a powerful ritual that she uses daily to help connect with and open your body.

No matter what’s going on in the world, you have the ability to be centered, grounded, and secure. She’ll show you a new perspective, one that will keep your heart open even through the chaos. 

Your sense of safety does not need to rely on the government because, as it turns out, it’s an inside job. 

Key Takeaways:

• How Josefina felt when she got the news. [3:06]
• What if this happened FOR women? [8:14]
• How to handle your anger. [10:22]
• Finding access to abortions, no matter where in the country you are. [11:37]
• Taking on a new perspective. [15:53]
• Why you should take action and increase your pleasure. [19:01]
• A ritual to open and connect with your body. [24:09]
• Josefina’s final invitation for you. [33:52]

Resources:

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Memorable Quotes:

“It is hard to be a mother already when you choose to have a child, but when you're not even ready for it to be forced upon you, your body, this responsibility, it's to say that your life does not matter.” (2:26, Josefina)

“I cannot believe where we are in America, in the land of the free, and yet women are the least free here.” (4:20, Josefina)

“This is the time that I truly believe that we can learn to fuel our feminine as opposed to fueling the collective anger.” (10:14, Josefina)

“That is what I stand for. Not accepting the way that the patriarchal society says we need to do things.” (15:14, Josefina)

“I'm extending this invitation to each of you to see how this can truly serve your mind, your body, and your spirit, as well as your community, because your pleasure, ripples, and benefits, the pleasure of all.” (19:46, Josefina)

“If we're waiting for the states to change, if we're waiting for the governments to change, until we decide that it's time to feel good when the world is feeling good, it could be our entire lifetime that we're waiting.” (22:03, Josefina)

Ready to get wild and feel free to enjoy your sex life?

In today’s society, there’s a lot of fear and misunderstanding around promiscuity. In this episode, Josefina dives into this complex topic and explains how we can evolve into what’s known as the “naughty provocateur.” 

She’ll help you move past your fear of appearing promiscuous and drop any shame you hold around your sexuality. By bringing the wildness back into your soul, you can unlock sexual liberation.

Josefina will leave you with an invitation to unlock your deepest pleasure and your most sensual self. 

Key Takeaways:

Resources:

Instagram: @josefinabashout 

JosefinaBashout.com

XOAfterglow.com

Memorable Quotes:

“Your nature is not to be domesticated, but to be wild.” (5:40, Josefina)

“We need to do what we were put here on the earth to do as women. We're here to feel. We're here to move. We are here to emote and to be erotic in a wholesome, beautiful way and to create and live our life in a beautiful state.” (6:25, Josefina)

“Promiscuity and being promiscuous also brings in an opportunity for liberation for an opportunity for you to shift into a sex-positive mindset. Into light. Into wildness.” (15:33, Josefina)

“You can have beautiful, meaningful sexual engagements with people that you choose to have sex with when you let go of the sexual shame and you allow yourself to be enticed by the freedom to let go of these old paradigms.” (25:42, Josefina)

“There's a lot of spiritual shaming that goes on that if you are sleeping around and having sex with people that this is going to block you from your life partner, this is a shaming narrative, and it's a fear-based narrative. I absolutely don't believe that.” (29:22, Josefina)

“It is actually so erotic, so sexy, so attractive when you know your body when you master your craft of sexuality as a woman because you bring more to your man, you bring more to the world, you bring more to your relationship.” (32:59, Josefina)

Have you ever gone through a friend breakup? Today’s guest has a long history with the host and will inspire you to see relationships in a new way. 

Zahara Zimring is a transformation coach, practitioner of spiritual psychology, and the creator of the Liberation Dojo.

Once an elite martial artist who was training for the Olympics, Zahara talks about her recovery from a debilitating spinal fusion and how she learned that trauma can be turned into transformation.

Zahara and Josefina also talk about their long history as both close friends and business partners. They share what they’ve learned from each other and how their former falling out pushed them to embody their highest selves. 

Zahara and Josefina’s story will help you see that every single relationship in your life is there to teach you important lessons. They will push you to drop the disempowering narratives that you’re holding inside of you so you can reach a new level of freedom. 

Key Takeaways:

• What Zahara’s spinal problems taught her. [6:30]
• How Zahara began her healing journey. [12:24]
• Zahara and Josefina’s experience being business partners. [20:34]
• How Josefina released her fear of being left behind. [31:35]
• Magnetizing people back into your life. [41:21]
• Self-abandonment. [47:01]
• Going through a friend breakup. [43:33]
• Zahara talks about her work at the Liberation Dojo. [54:38]

Where to Find the Guest:

ZarharaZimring.com 

@zaharazimring

Memorable Quotes:

“I feel like a lot of individuals live their lives into success that is determined and conditioned by the collective expectation of what success looks like.” (10:53, Zahara)

“I think that when we surround ourselves with women who reflect back the qualities that we seek, it helps embody the qualities that we desire.” (26:39, Zahara)

“For anyone listening who's gone through friend breakups. That can be sometimes just as hard, if not even harder, than breakups with a partner.” (43:33, Zahara)

“It actually doesn't serve the world at all for us to pretend in any arena and to placate what's happening as a result of us authentically being expressed as who we are in the moment.” (49:49, Zahara)

“The feeling, it's the freedom, it's the liberation, right?” (1:02:57, Josefina)

“We're all human. That's the fact. So it's about embracing our human experience.” (1:05:21, Josefina)

Do you want to live a life where you are unabashedly free through authentic self-expression?

This episode is extraordinarily special because Josefina is joined by her impressive sister, Samira.

Last week, Josefina taught you how to be bold. Today, the Bashout sisters add another layer to your newfound magnetic nature by sharing the secrets to full authenticity. 

Samira brands herself as an “Event Architect” and is the founder of A Bashout Creation, an event production company. 

Being the youngest of six girls, Samira shares how she carved her own path and created a happy, carefree life. The sisters reflect on their own paths to authenticity, explaining how they found their own unique expressions. 

To top it off, Josefina and Samira talk about the beautiful gift of sisterhood and why it is important. 

The Bashout sisters have mastered their boldness and authentic expression. Are you ready to join them? 

Key Takeaways:

• How Samira found her role as an Event Architect. [6:35]
• Easy practices to discover who you are in the world. [29:30]
• How to do the write and burn exercise. [35:14]
• Trusting your inner voice. [41:05]
• Commanding your desires. [47:49]
• What Samira has learned from Josefina. [52:28]
• Coming back to self-validation. [1:01:24]
• Samira’s biggest piece of advice for living more in your pleasure. [1:04:39]

Where to Find Samira:

BashCreate.com

@samirabashout

Memorable Quotes:

“For both of us, it's not just about what we look like. It's really about what we feel, that inner glow up. And then we're making sure the outside is matching the vibe of how we feel.” (16:49, Josefina)

“It has been just so great to finally be able to say what I want and actually have people receive me for what I want and not what they want.” (26:51, Samira)

“When we dump things out, it naturally creates more space. And in the space is where creativity comes in. Our authentic expression comes in. Our radiance comes in.” (36:46, Josefina)

“It all started once I stopped caring about what people thought and started listening to myself and to my voice. That's what became liberating to me. That’s how I was able to show up authentically and be myself.” (40:02, Samira)

“I take full ownership of who I am and because I'm taking full ownership of Samira Bashout, I am able to magnetize and bring in all the juicy things that are meant for me. And I really believe what is meant for you will be for you.” (49:06, Samira)

“Truth in the moment always brings us back to more love in the moment.” (1:00:05, Josefina)

When you are bold, everything that you want is magnetized towards you. Join Josefina on a journey of rediscovering your sense of boldness and magnetism. She’ll help you clear away the limiting beliefs and challenges that are in the way of accessing these qualities so you can take them on. When you do this, your existence will take on a new quality and your reality will shift for the better. In fact, you’ll have the energy of creation. It’s time to choose boldness and allow your desires to shine through. 

Key Takeaways:

• What being bold and magnetic truly means. [4:48]
• Getting out of our own way. [6:49]
• Exploring the topic of boldness. [9:19]
• What happens when you close your heart. [21:37]
• An easy practice to help create a supportive and secure relationship. [25:39]
• Creating an open space for love. [38:35]
• Focusing your light on yourself. [40:45]
• An affirmation for you. [43:21]

Memorable Quotes:

“Being goes into our existence. It's life. The definition of being is existence, soul spirit, essence.” (4:56, Josefina)

“When we come from a place of patience and allowance, we can rest in a relaxed reality of trust.” (8:15, Josefina)

“If we're not willing to go into the feelings and we're not willing to allow life to inform us, then we're missing out on the chance to reclaim more of our magnetic power that is existing in that exact moment. Because that exact moment is where everything is existing. ” (14:44, Josefina)

“We can't control life, but we absolutely can control our state of being.” (18:16, Josefina)

“The most bold and magnetic are those that are most authentic because they're open to life and they're expressing what's really real for them in the moment.” (23:59, Josefina)

“If your man isn't giving it to you in the moment, the solution is not to give more because that drains your magnetism. The solution is to give it to yourself.” (38:50, Josefina)

You are about to learn the way towards effortless manifestation.

Whatever it is you desire in life, you can have it just by mastering your own feminine energetics.

In this episode, Josefina guides you through a step-by-step process of using your feminine essence to manifest.

This is a process that she’s taught to hundreds of women throughout the years to help them step into their highest timelines.

Josefina will give you her three keys to strengthening your beliefs and acting on your desires, as well as tips for receiving more into your life.

Feminine manifestation is truly an art, and by the end of this episode you will no longer feel guilty about having desires, but embrace them instead.

Key Takeaways:

• Why it’s okay to have desires. [3:40]
• How fear blocks manifestation. [9:31]
• Asking for what you want. [10:54]
• Fear of rejection. [13:53]
• The joy of receiving the gift. [22:27]
• Your voice gives you freedom. [27:40]
• The reason you should completely surrender. [29:35]
• Dropping into your feminine design. [34:41]

Memorable Quotes:

“Desires are actually a gateway and a pathway to our deeper spiritual awakening. Our desires have medicine for us and our desires have God within them for us to be able to reach our own expansion.” (3:58, Josefina)

“Getting a no does not mean that you don't deserve to have it, that you aren't going to get it, or that you're not worthy of receiving. It's just the story that we make up through the conditioning of the beliefs that come from the human wounding space of unworthiness undeserving.” (6:17, Josefina)

“You deserve to have absolutely everything that you want and you desire because it's yours to have. If you have the desire. Then you're meant to have the receiving of this desire.” (7:42, Josefina)

“If you truly believe in the power of your desire, then that means you're truly believing in the inherent godliness and godliness that is moving through you. That is creating the desire through you.” (15:43, Josefina)

“If you don’t ask, you don’t receive.” (19:46, Josefina)

• Break the old spell of unworthiness.
• Call in pure consciousness.
• Express your soul’s deepest desires.
• Boost unconditional self-love.
• Release lower frequencies of energy

This is a great tool to use during times of loneliness, heaviness, and sadness to assist you in coming back home to yourself and remembering the loving essence within you. 

As you tune into this love spell, you will be guided back home to your inner voice and experience self-love greater than ever before. 

Resources:

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