What does it mean to truly heal? And what happens when you can see where pain lives in someone's body?

In this episode, Ianthe Mauro sits down with Pearly Montagu: healer, reflexologist, channel, and visionary, for a deeply moving conversation about the gift of sight, the science of water, trusting the unknown, and what it means to live a life of service.

In this episode, we explore:

✨ Pearly's Origin Story: From finance and a near-death boat accident to becoming a healer, Pearly shares the wild surrender experiment that changed everything

🔬 Synesthesia as a Healing Gift: Pearly describes how she literally sees pain in the body, and how she learned to turn this remarkable ability on and off.

💧 Bio Resonance & The Science of Water: We dive into Masaru Emoto's studies on water memory, structured water, and how Pearly is building a sacred water temple in Corfu inspired by Japanese WA principles.

🌿 Near-Death Experiences & What Lies Beyond: Pearly and Ianthe both share their NDE experiences and explore the research of Dr. Bruce Greyson at Virginia University on "cross-border phenomena."

🏃 Movement Is the Medicine: How Pearly healed herself when Western medicine couldn't help, and why movement and gratitude remain the ultimate tools.

🧠 The Heathrow Runway Mind: Pearly's powerful analogy for building mental resilience and navigating life's challenges without being shaken.

🤲 Energetic Surgery & Consent: What it looks and feels like when Pearly channels healing, how she works with energetic bonds between people, and the ethics of working without direct consent.

🚫 The Power of Not Doubting: Why eliminating doubt in your gifts may be the single most transformative thing you can do.

🌊 The Water Temple: Pearly's extraordinary vision: a sacred healing space at 34°, the temperature of the womb, designed for transformation and ceremony.

🛡️ Protection Practices for Healers: How Pearly learned the hard way to protect her energy — and what everyone walking around with an open third eye needs to know.

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00:00 Seeing Pain: The Gift of Energetic Sight

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Welcome to Unhinged Out Loud with Kim Staples, where I say the quiet part out loud.

You are not broken. You are at the threshold.

If you've been feeling restless, heavy, or like something is on the edge of shifting, this episode is for you. This is not a talk episode. This is a transmission. A guided energy experience designed to meet you exactly where you are and walk you through the door you've been standing at.

Because here's the truth: the discomfort you've been trying to outrun? That IS the door.

Most of us were never taught to stay present with what's hard. We were taught to escape it, distract from it, fix it, or numb it. And so we pull back right before the breakthrough. We reach for the exit just before the door opens. This episode is about learning to stay.

In this episode, I'm walking you through:

✨ A brief energy update for where we are collectively right now

This episode includes:

If you've ever pulled back right before the breakthrough, this episode will give you the energetic support to stay just a little longer than you have before.

Because the alchemy doesn't happen when we avoid the fire. It happens when we are willing to sit beside it long enough to be transformed.

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Stay in your sovereignty. Until next time, keep choosing yourself, and keep living unapologetically.

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Join Kim Staples and Ianthe Mauro on Unapologetic Uplift for a conversation that meets you right where the energy is: spicy, fiery, and full of invitation. This week, they're diving into how to work with intense energy rather than against it, why your ideas are sacred downloads that deserve protection, and the spiritual practice that just might be the most advanced one of all.

In this episode, we explore:

🔥 The Current Energy Is Spicy, And That's a Gift. There's a fire energy in the air, and it's showing up as reactivity, defensiveness, and the urge to snap back. Kim and Ianthe break down why this isn't something to suppress: it's something to alchemize. This intensity is creative fuel. The question is what you do with it.

⏸️ The Sacred Pause, The Most Advanced Spiritual Practice. Between stimulus and reaction lives a sacred pause. That pause is where you stop reacting from your trauma and start choosing who you actually are. Kim and Ianthe explore why mastering this space is more powerful than any other spiritual tool in your toolkit.

😤 Anger Isn't the Problem, Suppression Is. Anger is energy in motion, and it's trying to tell you something. The issue isn't the feeling: it's what happens when you throw it at someone, or worse, swallow it whole. Learn how to channel anger into creativity, clarity, and power instead of letting it either explode or calcify.

💡 Your Ideas Are Divine Downloads. If an idea lives in your head, you can achieve it. Full stop. You will never receive a download too big for you — but most people talk themselves out of their ideas before they ever take one step. Kim and Ianthe talk about what it actually looks like to be an action taker and trust your downloads as divine.

🤫 Protect Your Ideas Like Sacred Babies. When an idea is new, it's fragile, and so are you. Sharing it too soon with the wrong people can destroy it before it has roots. Jealousy has a real energetic charge. Kim breaks down the 30-day rule and why your vision is yours for a reason: nobody else will see it the way you do.

⚡ Reactivity Isn't Only Anger, It's Excitement Too. We don't often talk about reactive enthusiasm, but it's real. Announcing ideas before they're ready, posting before you have a plan, outsourcing your accountability to the internet: Kim and Ianthe get real about the maturity it takes to move intentionally with your ideas while still being a bold action taker.

🪜 You Don't Need to Know How, Just Take the Next Step. Don't let the how stop you. With divine downloads, you only ever need one next step. Take it. The next step will appear. The synchronicities will line up. The right person will show up. Kim and Ianthe close with a reminder that 1% progress every day is how big ideas actually become real.

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00:00 - Introduction: This Week on Unapologetic Uplift

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Join Kim Staples on Unapologetic Uplift for a solo episode that cuts through the noise of modern wellness and gets to the truth most practitioners won't tell you — the root cause is energetic, and until you go there, you'll keep spinning.

In this episode, we explore:

🏠 The Five Bodies Framework – Physical, energetic, emotional, mental, and spiritual. You have five bodies, not one — and if you're only tending to some of them, you're creating an imbalance that will eventually show up somewhere. Kim breaks down what each body is, how they're connected, and why ignoring even one keeps you stuck.

⚡ Nervous System Regulation Isn't Enough – You can breathe, ground, and regulate all day long — and still snap at your kids, wake up at 3AM, and feel that low hum of dread. Why? Because regulation addresses the symptom. The energetic charge underneath is still running the show.

🧠 Thoughts Are Downstream – Years of therapy, shadow work, and reframing limiting beliefs... and the same patterns keep showing back up. That's not failure — that's because the root is not a thought. The energetic charge came first. The mind is just trying to make sense of it.

💧 Emotions Are Energy in Motion – When we suppress, bypass, or intellectualize our feelings instead of actually feeling them, they don't disappear. They compress. They calcify. They become stuck energy — and that stuck energy is what keeps you looping no matter how much work you do.

🔌 The Electrical Wiring Metaphor – You can renovate the entire house — new walls, new furniture, new kitchen — but if the wiring is faulty, everything will short circuit eventually. Your energetic body is the wiring. That's where healing has to start.

🌟 Spiritual Disconnection Isn't a Mindset Problem – That feeling of going through the motions, doing everything right and still feeling like something is missing? That's the spiritual body, starved of attention and blocked by unresolved energetic weight sitting in every layer beneath it. Clear the root — and the connection often returns on its own.

🩺 Root Cause vs. Symptom Management – Kim makes the case for why most wellness tools — therapy, mindset work, nervous system regulation — are working downstream. Not because they don't help, but because they were never designed to go where the real disruption lives.

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Welcome to episode 7 of Unhinged Out Loud with Kim Staples, where I say the quiet part out loud.

You cannot drag someone out of their survival strategy, no matter how much you love them.

When you're deep in your healing journey, one of the loneliest things no one prepares you for is this: the grief of loving people who aren't doing the work. Not judging them. Not feeling superior. Just... watching someone you love suffer from the same wounds, the same cycles, the same patterns, and knowing exactly what it would take to shift it. But they didn't ask. And even when they do ask, they don't always have the container to receive it.

That's what this episode is about.

Because truth delivered to a dysregulated nervous system doesn't land as love, it lands as threat. And you, as an intuitive, feel every wall that goes up. You feel yourself pouring into a cup with a crack in the bottom. And then you feel guilty for feeling drained. I see you.

In this episode, I'm walking you through:

This episode includes:

If you've ever felt the quiet grief of loving someone who isn't ready, this episode will give you permission to stop carrying what was never yours to carry.

Because the most loving thing you can do for the people in your life is refuse to disappear for them.

Ready to go deeper?

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This bonus episode of Intentionally Ianthe is a soft, candlelit moment of protection. Just for you.

In this episode, I'm setting an intention for safety and light. No matter what the news is bringing, no matter what storms are gathering, inside or out. I want you to remember this moment and feel that you are surrounded, protected, and held in light.

✨ How to Participate:

💫 Today's Intention:"May you feel protected. May you remember that you are surrounded by light. Wherever you go, whatever is happening around you. You are a light being, and that light is with you right now, and always. Even when it doesn't feel like it."

🕯️ A Note on Candles:

Connect with me:

Much love, and remember: you are safe, you are protected, and you are surrounded by light. 🕯️

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Join Kim Staples and Ianthe Mauro for a conversation on Unapologetic Uplift that will make you rethink everything you've been told about planning, preparation, and trusting yourself.

In this episode, we explore:

🎯 The Myth of Being "Prepared" – What if over-preparing is actually getting in your way? Kim and Ianthe break down the difference between conventional preparation (outlines, schedules, scripts) and the deeper kind of readiness that comes from doing the inner work and trusting yourself to show up.

✨ Spontaneity Is a Superpower – Being in the moment isn't irresponsible — it's a radical act of self-trust. Learn why some of the most successful, creative, high-performing people in the room aren't following the plan at all.

🌿 Flow Over Formula – From running top-performing corporate locations without following the playbook to tapping into universal energy before client sessions, Kim and Ianthe share how responding to what's actually alive beats any rigid system.

🌤️ Look at the Sky – Are you checking your phone for the weather, or opening a window and actually feeling it? This simple practice becomes a powerful metaphor for how to stop consuming secondhand reality and start responding to what's really in front of you.

💪 Trust, Resilience & Self-Worth – When you throw away the script and still do brilliantly, something shifts. You build a new relationship with yourself — one rooted in evidence, not anxiety. That's where real confidence grows.

🤝 We Need Each Other – Type A or totally in-the-flow, neither way is wrong. The magic happens when we stop making ourselves wrong for how we're wired, find what lights us up, and surround ourselves with people who complement (not clone) us.

🏢 Leadership Without Ego – The best leaders aren't the ones with the most structure — they're the ones who trust their teams enough to let them find their own way to the result. Kim shares lessons from managing diverse teams across multiple departments and what she learned from every single one of them.

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Welcome to episode 6 of Unhinged Out Loud with Kim Staples, where I say the quiet part out loud.

Your wounds didn't close you. You did. And you can choose differently.

When betrayal stacks up, when the people you trusted let you down, it becomes dangerously easy to let those wounds quietly harden into armor. You stop letting people in. You stop trusting yourself. You forget that staying open isn't weakness — it's the most radical act of courage you can choose.

But here's what they don't tell you: An open heart isn't naive. An open heart has boundaries. An open heart trusts its gut. An open heart stays present with pain without shutting down. And an open heart chooses love — not because nothing hurts anymore, but because you've built the inner foundation to stay soft and strong at the same time.

In this powerful guided energy transmission, I help you shift from:

This episode includes:

If you've been betrayed, hurt, or quietly closing yourself off without even realizing it, this episode will bring you back home to your heart.

Because your heart does something your armor cannot: it keeps you truly alive.

Ready to go deeper?

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You are safe to stay open. Until next time, keep choosing love over fear — and keep living unapologetically.

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This bonus episode of Intentionally Ianthe is a quiet, candlelit moment just for you.

Rooted in a practice that began when I was five years old at the Waldorf School — where my teacher would light a candle at snack time and set an intention for all of us — I've carried this ritual my entire life. Today, I'm sharing it with you.

In this episode, I'm setting an intention for kindness toward yourself — because those things that bother you about yourself? They might just be proof that you're on a beautiful journey of self-awareness. Let's let them go together.

✨ How to Participate:

💫 Today's Intention:"May you be kinder to yourself today. May you notice what's bothering you about yourself, recognize it as proof you're on a journey of deeper self-awareness — and then let it go. Find something truly beautiful about yourself that you love, and let that be."

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Much love — and remember: you deserve your own kindness. 💛

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Join Kim Staples for a solo episode on Unapologetic Uplift that will change how you think about pain, healing, and transformation.

In this episode, we explore:

💔 Pain vs. Suffering – Discover why pain that is felt is moved, but pain that is avoided is stored. Kim breaks down the difference between the inevitable pain of being human and the suffering we create when we refuse to let that pain move through us.

🔬 Why Western Medicine Has It Wrong – The medical model teaches us to eliminate symptoms and return to function, but what if pain isn't the enemy? What if it's the messenger? Learn why silencing pain often makes it louder in other ways: chronic illness, autoimmune disease, addiction, and anxiety.

🧠 The Body Keeps the Score – Drawing on the work of Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, Peter Levine, and Dr. Gabor Maté, Kim explains how trauma lives in your fascia, nervous system, and gut. You can't think your way out—you have to feel your way through.

🌍 Ancient Wisdom, Modern Science – From Buddhism's Four Noble Truths to Rumi's "The Guest House," from Taoism's principle of wu wei to Indigenous healing rituals, Kim shows how ancient traditions have always known what we're just rediscovering: the path to liberation runs directly through pain, not around it.

🌊 Surrender Is Not Weakness – Surrender isn't giving up—it's the radical act of stopping the fight against reality. Learn why the breakdown is often the breakthrough, and how saying "this is what is" becomes the doorway to real healing.

🛠️ Practical Tools for Leaning In – Kim offers concrete practices: somatic work, affect labeling, breath work, trauma-informed movement, and building your window of tolerance. This isn't just philosophy—it's actionable wisdom for when you're dissociating at your kitchen table on a Wednesday.

✨ The Alchemy of Pain – "The wound is where the light enters." Your suffering isn't a sign something has gone wrong—it's an invitation to go deeper. Pain that you allow, breathe with, and let move becomes the raw material of your greatest compassion, clearest sight, and most unshakeable strength.

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