Uncensored with MxTomie

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Welcome to Uncensored, Hosted by Mx Tomie ⛓

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This isn’t your typical conversation about kink. Here, we explore the raw, unfiltered realities of dominance, submission, c... more

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February 04, 2026 Louisa Ferre on Opera, Corporate Life & Becoming a Professional Dom: Power, Desire & 2 Days in Dubai
EP 47: In this episode of Uncensored, we interview Louisa Ferre, a professional dominatrix based in San Francisco and Los Angeles, to talk about BDSM, femdom, dominant girlfriend experience, and the real business of professional domination.
Louisa shares how her background in classical music and corporate work informs her sessions, her experience with dungeon mentorships, and how she navigated the transition into online sex work during the pandemic. We discuss common myths about dominance, red flags in dom mentorship programs, emotional labor in BDSM, and how power dynamics extend beyond the dungeon into travel, lifestyle, and long-term dynamics.
Chapters:
00:00 – 00:01:00 Setting the Scene
00:01:01 – 00:02:05 Welcome & Guest Introduction
00:02:05 – 00:03:12 Multiple Lives, One Throughline
00:03:12 – 00:05:08 Origin Story: From Music & Corporate to OnlyFans
00:05:08 – 00:06:00 Moving to the Bay & Dungeon Mentorship
00:06:01 – 00:08:28 Tumblr Era: BL, Femdom & “Love of the Game”
00:08:29 – 00:10:24 Early Kink Influences & Queer Theater Community
00:10:25 – 00:12:01 Classical Training: Discipline, Breath & Timing
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42min
January 27, 2026 The Truth About Working in Dungeon Houses
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January 20, 2026 Unmarried, Successful, and Happy — Cindy Gallup on Life Without Marriage
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1h 1min
January 12, 2026 A Dominatrix Breaks Down Power, Consent, and Censorship | Danielle Blunt
EP 44: In this candid, no-holds-barred conversation, Mx Tomie sits down with Danielle Blunt—a dominatrix, researcher, and organizer working at the intersection of sexuality, technology, censorship, and power. Danielle is the co-founder of Hacking//Hustling and a leading voice on how digital platforms, financial systems, and so-called “safety” policies disproportionately harm sex workers and marginalized communities.
Together, they explore how domination isn’t just about pleasure, but about risk, ethics, and what happens at the edge of consent—both in intimate dynamics and in our relationship to technology and capitalism. From Danielle’s early training in old-guard BDSM spaces to the real consequences of platform censorship and financial discrimination, this conversation connects the dungeon to the digital world in ways you probably haven’t considered.
If you’ve ever wondered who decides what’s “acceptable,” who gets punished for desire, and why intimacy always involves risk—this episode is for you.
Chapters
0:00 — 1:05 Danielle Blunt Introduction
1:00 — 2:02 Mx Tomie Formally Introduces Danielle Blunt
2:15 – 3:25 Danielle is Anti‑Pleasure, Pro‑Torture?
3:25 – 5:30 Origin Story: Sex, Taboo & Power
5:30 – 8:26 The Old Guard BDSM Chateau
8:26 – 12:28 Lifestyle Domination, Manipulation & Negotiation
12:28 – 18:20 Edge Play: A Deep‑Dive Story
18:20 – 22:31 Repair Work, Consent & The Unknown
22:31 – 26:05 Long‑Term Subs, DS Dynamics & Training
26:00 – 30:13 Femdom GFE, Sex & The “Untouchable Dom” Myth
30:13 – 32:34 Censorship, “Safety” Rhetoric & Who’s Protected
32:34 – 35:55 Financial Discrimination & Banking Deplatforming
35:55 – 37:43 Digital Security & Threat Modeling
37:43 – 40:30 Censorship, Codes & Fetish Evolution
40:30 – 42:55 Content Creation Fatigue & Forced Innovation
42:55 – 44:10 Quick‑Fire Segment (Presented by IWantClips)
44:10 – 45:05 Outro & Closing
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46min
January 08, 2026 The Real Reason We Struggle to Talk About S3x | Dr Tara
EP 43: Mx Tomie sits down with award-winning sexologist and TV sex expert Dr. Tara to explore how pleasure, kink, and communication intersect with power, shame, and liberation.
They unpack why conversations about sex—and money—are often the hardest in long-term relationships, how shame is used as a tool of control (especially against women and marginalized communities), and how reclaiming pleasure can radically shift how we show up in our lives.
From morning “pleasure routines” that replace coffee, to kink-aware ways of talking about desire with a vanilla partner, to the deeper psychology behind BDSM and humiliation, this episode weaves together practical tools, personal stories, and unapologetically real talk. Dr. Tara also shares insights from her domme training with a professional dominatrix, her perspective on television as a form of sex education, and what happens when high-powered people finally have permission to let go—and be held.
Chapters
0:00 — 1:00 Dr. Tara Introduction
1:00 — 2:00 Mx Tomie Introduces Dr. Tara
2:00 — 04:50 Sexual Wellness as “Morning Coffee” and Pleasure Routine
04:50 – 7:36 Sex Toys, Pleasure Pathways & “Desensitization” Myths
07:36 – 10:01 Growing Up Repressed in Bangkok & Finding Sexology
10:01 – 12:44 Sex, Money, Power & Walking on Eggshells
12:44 – 16:38 Kinks, Shame & What Clients Confess
16:38 – 21:21 Three Practical Tips for Sharing Kinks with a Partner
21:21 – 26:50 Coaching Couples, Normalizing Kink & Finding the Right Therapist
26:50 – 28:50 Dom Training: From Theory to Practice
28:50 – 30:33 | Favorite Dom Activities & Dominant Archetypes
28:58 – 30:38 TV, Sex Ed & Where the Biggest Gaps Are
30:38 – 34:04 Shame as Social Control & Performing Sex
34:04 – 35:09 Cultural Shame Around Divorce & Staying “For the Kids”
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59min
January 02, 2026 If I Didn’t Make It on the Meter, I Made It in the Backseat of the Taxi
EP 42: A Vietnam War veteran turned anti-war activist. The Queen of Hell’s Kitchen. A trans activist and longtime sex worker who survived eras most people only read about.
In this unforgettable episode, Renee Imperato sits down with Mx Tomie to share New York stories you won’t find in history books—from growing up in 1940s Hell’s Kitchen against the backdrop of the theater district, to Vietnam’s war zones and Agent Orange, from Mafia-run queer clubs to a 30-year career driving NYC taxis, where backseats became mobile dungeons.
Renee reflects on being raised by drag queens, carrying an axe for protection, surviving loss and violence, and how war radicalized her into a lifelong anti-imperialist. What emerges is not just a conversation, but a living archive of queer, trans, sex worker, and anti-war history—told with tenderness, sharp humor, and an absolute refusal to apologize.

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1h 22min
December 23, 2025 Why Doms Need Safewords Too: Parker Penn on Risk, Consent, and Power Exchange
EP 41: Mx Tomie sits down with NYC-based domme, escort, and creative Parker Penn to explore where art, sex, power, risk, and healing intersect. They discuss professional dominance, kink as somatic mindfulness, consent beyond clichés, and the vulnerability and ethics of domming—venturing into edgy terrain along the way. Parker also shares how motorcycles, art, and erotic practice all strip identity down to pure sensation and meaning-making.
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1h 2min
December 19, 2025 From Extreme Sadism to Hard Limits: Yin Q on Edge Play, Trauma, and Knowing When to Stop
EP 40: Mx Tomie sits down with legendary dominatrix, writer, filmmaker, and sex worker organizer *Yin Q* for a raw conversation about pain, power, kink, trauma, and politics. Drawing on over three decades in BDSM, Yin reflects on their evolution from hard sadism and edge play into disability-informed kink, art-making, and community organizing—speaking candidly about burnout, the emotional toll of professional domination, and the sessions that pushed them past their limits.
Together, they unpack the difference between negotiated violence and abuse, why boredom and dissociation are important data, and how kink can function as art and ritual without being sold as a cure. They also explore dom aftercare, the myth of the flawless 24/7 dom, class divides in sex work, and the responsibility that comes with being visible. The episode closes with reflections on activism and Yin’s forthcoming documentary, *The Whores’ Feast.*
Chapters
0:00 — 1:06 Yin Q Introduction
1:06 — 1:54 Mx Tomie Introduces Yin Q
1:54 — 6:46 Origins of Kink, Violence & Childhood Wounds
6:46 — 10:57 Using pro work to explore different scenes and discover personal tastes
10:57 — 14:07 Boredom, Burnout & Rotating Clients
14:07 — 16:41 From “Hard Sadist” to Pain With Limits & Disability
16:41 – 20:03 Kink as Art, Therapy & Imperfect Healing
20:03 — 21:23 Why Keep Doing the Work? Kinkout & Community
21:23 – 22:20 Art, Academia & Lived Experience
22:20 – 23:17 How the Literature Has Changed: Healing & Exigent Sadism
23:17 – 25:53 Edges, Cruelty & Emotional Toll in Consensual Non-Consent
25:53 – 31:14 Two Sessions That Caused Rupture (Content Warning: Blood & Emotional Abuse Roleplay)
31:14 – 33:30 Safety, Aftercare & Tracking Shifting Boundaries
33:30 – 36:22 Bringing Kink & Sex Work Voices Into Museums
36:22 – 37:38 Glamour vs Reality of Activism, Being recognized by Spike Lee
37:38 – 40:01 — Mercy Mistress, Margaret Cho & Asian American Representation
40:01 – 42:07 The Unfinished Storyline: Stalking, Power Flips & State Violence
42:07 – 43:35 Class Divides in Sex Work & Ethical Use of Privilege
43:35 – 45:19 Rapid Fire: Music, Pre‑Session Rituals & Atmosphere
45:19 – 47:20 Favorite Gear & Dominatrix Misconceptions
47:20 – 50:14 Dungeon Memories & Old-School Training
50:17 – 51:40 What’s Next: The Whores’ Feast Documentary
51:40 – 0:52:01 — Closing, Plugs & Farewell
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54min
December 16, 2025 From Extreme Sadism to Hard Limits: Yin Q on Edge Play, Trauma, and Knowing When to Stop
Mx Tomie sits down with legendary dominatrix, writer, filmmaker, and sex worker organizer Yin Q for a raw conversation about pain, power, kink, trauma, and politics. Drawing on over three decades in BDSM, Yin reflects on their evolution from hard sadism and edge play into disability-informed kink, art-making, and community organizing—speaking candidly about burnout, the emotional toll of professional domination, and the sessions that pushed them past their limits.
Together, they unpack the difference between negotiated violence and abuse, why boredom and dissociation are important data, and how kink can function as art and ritual without being sold as a cure. They also explore dom aftercare, the myth of the flawless 24/7 dom, class divides in sex work, and the responsibility that comes with being visible. The episode closes with reflections on activism and Yin’s forthcoming documentary, The Whores’ Feast.
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55min
December 09, 2025 From Fetish To Fine Dining: Lucy Sweetkill's Journey as a NYC Dominatrix
In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with legendary New York dominatrix, educator, and dungeon owner Lucy Sweetkill for a raw conversation about kink, identity, business, and—yes—food.
Lucy shares her path from the fashion world to moonlighting in an all-Asian dungeon she found on Backpage, eventually becoming a full-time pro dom and co-founder of La Maison de Rouge. She opens up about the emotional and spiritual labor of domination, navigating Asian fetishization, Buddhist approaches to pain, and the realities of running a kink space in NYC.
They also dive into Lucy’s obsession with food culture—chef subs, sploshing, human trash bags, frozen Peeps as insertables, and humiliation scenes followed by Eleven Madison Park dinners.
Smart, gritty, funny, and philosophical, this episode moves from cake-sitting chaos to gender journeys and building a sustainable, values-driven life as a creative and sex worker.
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1h 7min

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