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Lately I have been seeing and reading a lot of content around what positive masculine and positive feminine energy looks like. For too long we've seen the shadow sides of this energy play out in our communities and in politics. While I can't influence much of that, today I explore the my journey of embracing positive masculine and feminine energies within my marriage. I shares personal experiences of how my husband and I have  stepped into these traits, and what has surprised me. Reflecting on this topic has truly brought about a transformative impact of embracing and balancing these energies in the context of a loving relationship... all of which I probably would never have found without Lincoln.

Resources:

• Divine Feminine vs. Divine Masculine
• Strong Fatherhood in a Soft World

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Today I engage in a profound conversation with Coach Karen, delving into the multifaceted aspects of grief, identity struggles, and the nuanced dynamics of personal and professional growth within the workplace. Karen shares her experiences witnessing various types of grief in organizational settings, shedding light on the impact these challenges can have on individuals and teams. We will also be unraveling the threads of workplace dynamics, resilience, and the pivotal role of emotional intelligence in leadership. This episode is a testament to the profound impact that thoughtful coaching can have on navigating the complexities of the modern workplace.

Resources:

• Karen Konrath 
  • LinkedIn
  • Transitions Coaching
  • [email protected]

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When will this feel better? What does the work of grieving look like? If you've ever asked yourself these questions, I invite you to join me today as delve into the profound and often challenging journey of grief. Today I discuss the importance of doing the emotional work, and emphasize some paths I've taken on my own healing journey. Patience, self-compassion, and grace will be your loving guides along the way, and I can guarantee the process will lead you to a place where hope and joy can be found, while still having a deep and meaningful relationship to whomever or whatever you've been grieving.

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I'm so incredibly honored to introduce you to my friend, Courtney, and her beautiful light of a son, Lucas. This week we sit down with this resilient mama of four as she shares the heart-wrenching experience of navigating grief while also holding space for her surviving son. The conversation delves into the complexities of grief, exploring the unique challenges that arise when trying to support a child through the loss of a sibling.

Amidst the shadows of loss and infertility, Courtney reveals the glimmer of hope that has sustained her. The episode explores how she found strength in the midst of despair, ultimately uncovering a renewed sense of purpose and optimism for the future. Listeners will be moved by Courtney's resilience and inspired by her ability to find hope even in the darkest moments.

Resources:

• Helping Parents Heal
• Isabella Johnson - The Soul Reading Medium

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"It's my fault!", "I should have known this would happen", "I need to stay strong for..." do any of these statements sound familiar? I've recently read a book that opened my eyes to some deeply packed down trauma and the lies I've been telling myself over the years. I share some of these narratives today to hope it helps you to recognize what a lie could look like to yourself, give yourself a difference lens to look at it, and through your vulnerability acknowledge the struggle and what you've needed to embrace self-compassion. 

Resources:

• The Body Keeps The Score - Bessel A. van der Kolk

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Hello again to the amazing listeners of Uncomfortable Friend. I've been so moved from some of your stories and emails over the course of recording that I've decided to come back with a Season 2! This time, we'll be talking about a wider variety of subjects including generational trauma, grace, masculine/feminine energies, and thoughts around active waiting. Most of all, I'm looking forward to introducing you all to some remarkable people share how they've transformed their journey of loss, trauma, grief, and sadness into something more meaningful to bring comfort and support to others.

Season 2 will begin January 3rd! 

Hope you all have a restful and peaceful holiday season.

With love, 
April McCormick (Host of Uncomfortable Friend)

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I've been so very blessed with the support I've received from hosting this podcast and sharing my story. Thank you for coming on this journey with me as I work to figure out life after the loss of my beautiful son, Lincoln. I've been recently motivated to combine my focus and use my energy for something that can be even bigger... what that looks like, I'm not sure yet... but when I start to get nervous AND excited, I'll know I've found it. Until then, thank you for letting me into your ears and for the beautiful messages you have sent me through Lincoln's email. 

Resources:

• SeattleCoach
• Playing Big - Tara Mohr

If you'd like to be a guest and share your story of loss, grief, hope, and love, please reach out and I'd be honored to interview you. If you'd like to leave me a message, please email: [email protected].

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Nothing stays the same, especially not grief. Impermanence is a fundamental concept in various philosophies and spiritual traditions, highlighting the idea that everything in life is in a constant state of flux and that nothing remains the same forever. This week doesn't have much structure... I discuss some observations from a walk we recently did to remember another beautiful child who has passed on, how challenging it's been to find space for grief with two young kiddos at home and the impacts of COVID on work, and share some memories while scrolling through some pictures of my son, Lincoln.

If you'd like to be a guest on an episode, would like to share a story of your beautiful child, and/or would like to send me a note, please email: [email protected]

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Have you ever let your emotions take over your thoughts? Use them to justify why you should or shouldn't do something or if you like or dislike someone? We all do it... and  judgement can definitely be important... but how may we shift this thinking into something more meaningful? Something that allows you to better align your desires with the situation or people you're with? Bonus points if you can do that AND let go of what the outcome could be.

Resources:

• Center for Action and Contemplation

If you have thoughts on how you judge vs discern, would like to be a guest on a future episode, or would like to send me a note, please email: [email protected].

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I am inspired by this concept of individuals known as "volunteers" or "volunteers from other dimensions" who have come to Earth to assist humanity during times of transition, struggle, and transformation. If you haven't listened to "The Matrix" and/or "Finite vs Infinite Game", you may want to listen for greater context, but I tried my best to make it as stand alone as I could within a 40ish minute time frame.


Resources:

• The Three Waves of Volunteers and The New Earth - Dolores Cannon
• The Team - Teddy & Frances Key
• Short Film by Charles Eisenstein (from Grief 2 Growth Channel by Brian Smith)
• Jesus Revolution

If you have thoughts or comments about what I've discussed, if you'd like to be a guest on my show, have an idea for a new episode, or would like to send me a note of encouragement, please write to [email protected] or [email protected].

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