This week Phil and Lizz are joined by Jo Westwood - Codependency Coach Extraordinaire and all round fabulous human!

Have you ever been a relationship that was all drama-drama-drama? Felt like you spend your whole life pleasing other people and end up exhausted? Realised you had totally lost yourself in a relationship?

You might have a problem with codependency…

in this episode, Jo shares with us her top tips on how to tell if you have a problem with codependency and how to spot if you are dating a narcissist. She shares her top tips for dating successfully (it might not be what you’d expect…) and how she helps recovering codependents through her work as a codependency coach.

So if you’ve ever had a dating disaster, ignored the red flags, or felt like your dating life was less successful than Lizz’s attempts at free-pouring a ‘sensible’ gin and tonic, then you’re in the right place! Do we know know what we’re talking about? No! (Our dating lives are both utter shite) But will we have a laugh about them and hopefully make you feel a little less alone on your dating journey? Abso-bloody-lutely!

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…” 

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This week it's just Phil and Lizz and we discuss first dates, where to go, what to wear and who should pay!

What can you expect in episode 13? 

• What is the best thing to do on a first date?
• Should a man pay every time?
• Ghosting and Phil's analogy on why it happens
• Two items to possibly go in the bin
• What should you wear and Lizz time!
• And a dating disaster from Lizz's friend which leaves Phil speechless (yes, it does the impossible)

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…”

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This week it's just Phil and Lizz and we discuss whether Disney has done us a massive disservice in dating, and hear all about Phil's Virtual Speed Dating Experience!

What can you expect in episode 12? 

• Did Disney do a number on dating?
• Toxic relationships - what are they and how can we avoid them like the plague
• Toxic masculinity and that all important question... what's your number??
• The lowdown on Phil's Virtual Speed Dating Shenanigans
• Another Lizz rant
• And Phil and Lizz completely getting the giggles!

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…”

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Its finally time... a lot of things are opening up again here in the UK and a ton of people are heading over to the dating Apps to start filling their social calendar...

This week we bring you a special edition DOUBLE EPISODE, where we grill two dating coaches about:

• The Do’s and Don’t of dating profiles
• Top tips to attract great dates (not those jerks that are currently taking up space on your phone contacts)
• How to spot the red flags
• Which photos to choose
• And insider insights for a great first date!

Join us as we speak to Dating Bites’ Rebecca Bartley -

This episode is especially for you if you’re a woman and want to give your dating life some TLC.

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…”

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Its finally time... a lot of things are opening up again here in the UK and a ton of people are heading over to the dating Apps to start filling their social calendar...

This week we bring you a special edition DOUBLE EPISODE, where we grill two dating coaches about:

• The Do’s and Don’t of dating profiles
• Top tips to attract great dates (not those jerks that are currently taking up space on your phone contacts)
• How to spot the red flags
• Which photos to choose
• And insider insights for a great first date!

Join us as we speak to Kissed and Dismissed’s dating expert and coach, Laura Hucke.

This episode is especially for you if you’re a woman and want to give your dating life some TLC. So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…”

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In the second of our two-part Mental Health special, we explore what it’s like to date when your mental health isn’t tip top, and what tips and tricks you can use to make sure dating is something that is supporting your mental well-being, not wrecking it!

What can you expect in episode 9?

• Why men don’t talk about their feelings as much as women (Get ready for some scienccccce!)
• The people have spoken! What are you guys doing talking about... and not talking about?
• Everyones favourite segment.. Dating Disasters!

So if you’ve ever had a dating disaster, ignored the red flags, or felt like your dating life was less successful than Lizz’s attempts not to DM Ricky, then you’re in the right place! Do we know know what we’re talking about? No! (Our dating lives are both utter shite) But will we have a laugh about them and hopefully make you feel a little less alone on your dating journey? Abso-bloody-lutely!

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…” 

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1 in 4 people will experience problems with their mental health in any given year in England (Mind, 2021)

As this week has been Mental Health Awareness Week, we’ve recorded a special two-part episode, all about mental health and dating.

This wasn’t an easy episode for either Phil or Lizz to record, but we really hope it will be a source of support and solidarity for anyone who experiences challenges with their mental health, and help educate anyone who is fortunate enough not to.

What can you expect in episode 8? 

• Phil shares his experience of dealing with depression
• We talk all things dating with mental health challenges - how does it work and what can you do to look after yourself?
• Lizz talks dating with OCD
• And when the heck do you talk about it with your date??

So if you’ve ever had a dating disaster, ignored the red flags, or felt like your dating life was less successful than Lizz’s attempts not to DM Ricky, then you’re in the right place! Do we know know what we’re talking about? No! (Our dating lives are both utter shite) But will we have a laugh about them and hopefully make you feel a little less alone on your dating journey? Abso-bloody-lutely!

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…” 

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This week Phil and Lizz are joined by Abbie -

After encountering one too many ‘Devil Dick’s to deal with, Abbie took to Instagram to expose the truth about dating...

What can you expect in episode 7? 

• Straight talking Abbie shares her best and worst dating experiences
• How the Singled In podcast was born
• Dating disasters... you know you love them
• We talk best and worst ever opening lines... and Abbie’s killer comebacks!
• Find out how the hell both Phil and Abbie got BANNED from Tinder!?

So if you’ve ever had a dating disaster, ignored the red flags, or felt like your dating life was less successful than the chance of sun on a British bank holiday, then you’re in the right place! Do we know know what we’re talking about? No! (Our dating lives are both utter shite) But will we have a laugh about them and hopefully make you feel a little less alone on your dating journey? Abso-bloody-lutely!

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…” 

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This week Phil and Lizz go on a mission to find out if TV dating shows really work!

Do people find love?

Does it ever last?

And would Phil and Lizz ever consider going on one??

We discuss whether we would take a test to find ‘The One’... and whether ‘The One’ even really exists!

What can you expect in episode ? 

• Another epic dating disaster (we promise there’s no poop in this one!)
• The Dating Show Charts - what is the most successful dating show out there??
• Something unusual that Phil and Lizz have in common...
• The same no-holds-barred honesty you’ve come to expect! 

So if you’ve ever had a dating disaster, ignored the red flags, or felt like your dating life was less successful than that time Madonna wore a cape on the red carpet, then you’re in the right place! Do we know know what we’re talking about? No! (Our dating lives are both utter shite) But will we have a laugh deconstructing them and hopefully make you feel a little less alone on your dating journey? Abso-bloody-lutely!

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…” 

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Welcome back to the second instalment.

Phil and Lizz are back with Ricky 'Tricky' Hill, recent star of First Dates Hotel and Insta-famous built-like-a-god gym owner. We grill Richard about his First Dates Hotel experience, and he opens up about how looks aren't always what they seem, how Asperger's has affected his dating... and shares a fascinating dating fact that will change the way you look at dating forever!

If you are wondering what happened to the challenge from part one, It's on our Instagram @unhingedandbumbledup

What can you expect in episode 5? 

• Dating Do’s, Don’ts and Disasters…Richard share his own experiences and give you the how-to and the how-not-to
• What Richard would gladly chuck in the 2020 dating bin... but does Phil agree?
• A dating trivia challenge with a gruelling CrossFit forfeit if he's wrong
• The same no-holds-barred honesty you’ve come to expect (...and Lizz getting extremely flustered!)

So join Serial Dater Phil and Dating Detoxer Lizz as we talk all things dating… The good, the bad and the “sorry, there’s just no spark…”

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