If your business is not doing well, it's because you are not doing well. Mrs. Bob Gallagher is the Founder and CEO of Mahalo Massage NYC where she uses Intuitive Massage to help her clients get more in touch with their body and mind. Many of us view a struggling business as a reflection of how successful we are as people, without realizing that this mindset is the real problem. We sacrifice ourselves with our work, and we worry about what others think because societal conditioning has convinced us that we need validation, so we must realize this and choose a new way forward. So much of the anxiety, tension and negativity in our lives is caused by us being stuck in these perspectives and choices that are holding us back, and living in that state creates a negative environment that hinders both our health and our business. Real success starts with recognizing that you have the choice to find and create the solutions you need to create positive change!

Notes
💆‍♀️ Bob's interest in meditation, body movement/mechanics, and many years of receiving bodywork inform her work as a massage therapist: promoting self-healing of the mind and body. 02:55
❗ Society has conditioned us to believe that we need to follow a certain path: it's a choice to make things happen because you attract what you reflect. 05:27
🎁 If you want things to change in a big way, you have to reach out and make a big choice: treat the negative like a gift. 10:20
❄️ We have been able to survive because of our relationships with each other, so why not call upon a friend or a therapist?:  We are unique snowflakes. 18:45
🪞 I can see you if I can recognize where I am: you can't take care of anyone until you take care of yourself. 21:53
✅ What I do is not life or death because my primary goal is to live my life: if I sacrifice myself for my business, I create a dynamic of need and resentment. 24:52
⁉️ Business is a reflection of me: I kind of know what I'm doing, but I also have the humility to recognize that every situation is unique. 29:40
👌 We don't have accessory organs because our design is perfect: art is a practice of observation that opens the mind. 33:01
🪷 When you recognize that you have a choice, the possibilities are endless: one experience feeds the next one, so recognize everything you have done thus far and hang out in the present. 36:13

Links:

  Connect with Bob: www.mahalomassagenyc.com

  Instagram with Spotify: @bobofmahalomassagenyc

  Connect with Adrienne: www.sheleadsmedia.com

  Listen to podcasts for women by women on the She Leads Podcast Network: www.sheleadspodcasts.com