The holidays are often painted as a season of joy and togetherness—but for kids in foster care, this time can stir up complex emotions, painful memories, and a deep sense of loss. In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we unpack the emotional landscape of the holiday season for foster children and the families who care for them. From navigating traditions that may not feel like theirs to handling grief, guilt, and unmet expectations, we explore what it means to hold space for hurt while still making room for hope. Whether you're a foster parent, bio parent, or someone who loves a child in care, this conversation is an honest look at what it takes to show up with empathy during the most "wonderful" times of the year.

Think you know foster care? Think again. In this episode, we’re breaking down 10 of the most common myths and misunderstandings about the foster care system. From the idea that all foster kids are “troubled” to the belief that foster parents are “in it for the money,” we’re setting the record straight—raw, honest, and unfiltered.Whether you’re a current foster parent, considering getting involved, or just curious about how it all works, this episode is for you.Topics we cover:1. You have to be a foster parent to get involved in foster care2. Foster kids are all troubled kids3. Foster kids did something to get themselves into this situation4. Foster parents are in it for the money5. “Foster to Adopt”6. You can’t bond with a foster child - you’ll get hurt when they leave 7. Biological parents don’t deserve their kids back8. You can’t say “No” to a placement9. Once a child is removed from their parent/adopted, the trauma is over10. It’s too hard💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Drop your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments.🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode.📢 Follow us on social:Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @UnprofessionalParenting#FosterCare #FosterCareAwareness #Adoption #ParentingPodcast #UnprofessionalParenting

Some conversations aren’t easy—but they’re necessary. In this episode, we dive into how to approach tough topics with foster and adopted kids, from identity and loss to trauma and transitions. We’ll share real stories, practical tips, and ways to create safe spaces for open, honest dialogue. Because hard conversations, done right, can build deeper trust and healing.

In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we’re pulling back the curtain on the things we wish someone had told us before jumping into the world of foster care. From the unexpected emotional toll to the unspoken rules of the system, we’re sharing the lessons we learned the hard way—so you don’t have to. Whether you’re considering fostering, just getting started, or deep in the trenches, this episode is packed with real talk, raw moments, and practical advice to help you navigate the journey with a little more clarity (and a lot more grace).

In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we dive into the importance of creating meaningful memories with your family—without the pressure of perfection. From simple everyday moments to special traditions, we share ideas, stories, and laughs about how to make the most of your time together. Because in the end, it’s not about grand gestures—it’s about the love and connection that stick with us.

In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we dive into one of the most crucial aspects of foster care—attachment and bonding. How do children in the system navigate relationships after experiencing instability? What can foster and adoptive parents do to foster secure connections? We explore the science of attachment, the challenges of bonding with children who have experienced trauma, and practical ways to create a sense of safety and trust. Whether you’re a foster parent, adoptive parent, or just curious about the complexities of attachment, this episode offers insights, real-life stories, and expert advice. Tune in for an honest and unfiltered conversation about the heart of parenting in foster care!

One of the most crucial elements to success in parenting (especially foster care and adoption) is to have a healthy support system. In this episode, we talk about our support system, how it came about, the encouragement we have seen through the years, and share a few stories along the way!

We have all had those moments in parenting that made our jaws drop. Whether it was from something you kids did that caught you so off guard, or something they did that left you beaming with how proud you were of them - as parents we need to learn how to respond!

In this episode of UnProfessional Parenting, we dive into the weighty, yet fascinating topic of generational cycles. From repeating patterns to breaking free from unhealthy family traditions, we explore how these cycles shape our parenting—and how we can rewrite the script for the next generation.

Let’s be honest— you may feel prepared to take on any situation as a parent, but the truth is, so much is made up on the spot! In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we’re talking about the art of “faking it until you make it” in the wild, unpredictable world of raising kids