UnProfessional Parenting

In a world quick to reward obedience and punish misbehavior, it’s easy to fall into the trap of behavior management. But what if our goal as parents isn’t just to raise well-behaved kids—but kids with deep character? In this episode, we unpack the difference between controlling behavior and shaping hearts. We’ll explore practical ways to raise children who live with integrity, empathy, and conviction—not just when we’re watching, but when we’re not.

Foster care is more than a calling—it’s a commitment. But before stepping into this life-changing journey, it's crucial to understand your why. In this episode, we unpack the heart behind fostering: What’s driving you? Compassion? Guilt? Faith? Personal experience? We’ll explore how identifying your true motivation can sustain you through the highs and lows, shape the way you care for children, and keep you anchored in purpose when things get tough. Whether you're already fostering, considering it, or supporting others who do—this conversation is for you.

In this episode of the Unprofessional Parenting Podcast, we dive into the powerful mindset shift of reframing what "winning" looks like as a foster parent. Traditional parenting milestones don’t always apply in the world of foster care—and that’s okay. We talk about finding joy in the small moments, celebrating progress over perfection, and embracing emotional wins that often go unseen. Whether it's a child opening up emotionally, or simply making it through a tough day—these are the victories that matter. Join us as we unpack how letting go of unrealistic expectations can actually make space for deeper connection and real growth.

The holidays are often painted as a season of joy and togetherness—but for kids in foster care, this time can stir up complex emotions, painful memories, and a deep sense of loss. In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we unpack the emotional landscape of the holiday season for foster children and the families who care for them. From navigating traditions that may not feel like theirs to handling grief, guilt, and unmet expectations, we explore what it means to hold space for hurt while still making room for hope. Whether you're a foster parent, bio parent, or someone who loves a child in care, this conversation is an honest look at what it takes to show up with empathy during the most "wonderful" times of the year.

Think you know foster care? Think again. In this episode, we’re breaking down 10 of the most common myths and misunderstandings about the foster care system. From the idea that all foster kids are “troubled” to the belief that foster parents are “in it for the money,” we’re setting the record straight—raw, honest, and unfiltered.Whether you’re a current foster parent, considering getting involved, or just curious about how it all works, this episode is for you.Topics we cover:1. You have to be a foster parent to get involved in foster care2. Foster kids are all troubled kids3. Foster kids did something to get themselves into this situation4. Foster parents are in it for the money5. “Foster to Adopt”6. You can’t bond with a foster child - you’ll get hurt when they leave 7. Biological parents don’t deserve their kids back8. You can’t say “No” to a placement9. Once a child is removed from their parent/adopted, the trauma is over10. It’s too hard💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Drop your thoughts, questions, or experiences in the comments.🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode.📢 Follow us on social:Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @UnprofessionalParenting#FosterCare #FosterCareAwareness #Adoption #ParentingPodcast #UnprofessionalParenting

Some conversations aren’t easy—but they’re necessary. In this episode, we dive into how to approach tough topics with foster and adopted kids, from identity and loss to trauma and transitions. We’ll share real stories, practical tips, and ways to create safe spaces for open, honest dialogue. Because hard conversations, done right, can build deeper trust and healing.

In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we’re pulling back the curtain on the things we wish someone had told us before jumping into the world of foster care. From the unexpected emotional toll to the unspoken rules of the system, we’re sharing the lessons we learned the hard way—so you don’t have to. Whether you’re considering fostering, just getting started, or deep in the trenches, this episode is packed with real talk, raw moments, and practical advice to help you navigate the journey with a little more clarity (and a lot more grace).

In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we dive into the importance of creating meaningful memories with your family—without the pressure of perfection. From simple everyday moments to special traditions, we share ideas, stories, and laughs about how to make the most of your time together. Because in the end, it’s not about grand gestures—it’s about the love and connection that stick with us.

In this episode of Unprofessional Parenting, we dive into one of the most crucial aspects of foster care—attachment and bonding. How do children in the system navigate relationships after experiencing instability? What can foster and adoptive parents do to foster secure connections? We explore the science of attachment, the challenges of bonding with children who have experienced trauma, and practical ways to create a sense of safety and trust. Whether you’re a foster parent, adoptive parent, or just curious about the complexities of attachment, this episode offers insights, real-life stories, and expert advice. Tune in for an honest and unfiltered conversation about the heart of parenting in foster care!

One of the most crucial elements to success in parenting (especially foster care and adoption) is to have a healthy support system. In this episode, we talk about our support system, how it came about, the encouragement we have seen through the years, and share a few stories along the way!