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  • 112: How to Assume Positive Intent
    In our last episode, we met Lucy, a leader in the hospitality industry who felt the entire weight of responsibility was on her shoulders. With her team not fully showing up, the pressure grew heavier. I spoke with Annie Meehan about how Lucy could take better ownership, care for herself, and step into stronger leadership. That conversation introduced a powerful idea: assuming positive intent. In this solo episode, I explore why assuming positive intent is one of the most valuable lessons I’ve ever learned. I share how it allowed me to release resentment, work with difficult people, and grow my career. Drawing from research by Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky and findings on “hostile attribution bias,” we’ll look at how our choices directly shape our happiness and relationships. I also break down three actionable strategies to help you apply this mindset daily: setting the intention each morning, creating and repeating your own axiom throughout the day, and reframing situations so you respond with compassion instead of resentment. If you’ve ever struggled with difficult people or found yourself holding onto negativity, this episode will give you practical ways to shift your perspective, protect your peace, and strengthen your resilience. Notable Quotes “Whatever anybody says or does, assume positive intent. You will be amazed at how your whole approach to a person or problem becomes very different.” — Indra Nooyi “Our intentional, effortful activities have a powerful effect on how happy we are, over and above the effect of set points and circumstances.” — Sonja Lyubomirsky “They’re doing their best. At times, their version of best won’t be the same as yours, but it’s the best they have right now.” — Jay Abbasi Resources and Links Jay Abbasi Website: https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaylabassi/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story  Join Us Next Time In Monday’s episode, you’ll meet Reggie, a plant manager at a mid-sized food processing facility. After working his way up, he’s now facing a team that’s stressed, overworked, and burning out, and he’s suffering too. I’ll be joined by Mark Black, a resilience expert, coach, and award-winning author, to explore how leaders like Reggie can turn adversity into advantage, cut through excuses, and build lasting resilience. Don’t miss this inspiring and practical discussion!
    15 min
  • 103: The Pineapple Principle: How to Live an Exceptional Life
    Meet Lucy. She slams her laptop shut after another long, frustrating day. Deadlines are missed, clients are unhappy, and she feels like she’s carrying the weight of everyone else’s mistakes. At home, the words spill out: “People just don’t care, and I can’t fix that.” Later that night, she replays her own frustration. Deep down, she knows she’s fallen into a victim mindset, projecting stress onto her team, resenting their lack of motivation, and feeling powerless to turn things around. She wants to lead with positivity and hope, but wonders, where do I start when I’m overwhelmed myself? In this episode, Jay is joined by Annie Meehan, international keynote speaker, author of 11 books, and consultant known as the Pineapple Person. Annie has inspired audiences worldwide with her message of resilience, optimism, and choosing to be exceptional. Her Pineapple Principle teaches people to stand tall with confidence, wear a crown to remember their worth, and be sweet on the inside, leading with kindness and authenticity. Together, Jay and Annie explore how pain can fuel purpose, why excuses keep us stuck, and how small daily choices can transform both our mindset and the culture we create around us. Annie shares her P3 Formula; pain plus passion equals purpose, and practical strategies to eliminate excuses, celebrate wins, and inspire others by example. If you’ve ever felt stuck in blame, burnout, or self-doubt, this conversation will remind you that you always have the power to choose better and to live exceptionally. Notable Quotes “Pain plus passion equals purpose. You always have a choice to become bitter or better.” — Annie Meehan “Stand tall, wear your crown, and be sweet on the inside — that’s the Pineapple Principle.” — Annie Meehan “We can’t always control what happens to us, but we can always control the story we tell ourselves.” — Jay Abbasi About Our Guest Annie Meehan is a professional keynote speaker, author, and consultant who empowers leaders and teams to replace excuses with ownership, build resilience, and create exceptional cultures. Known as the Pineapple Person, Annie has written 11 books, including Be the Exception and The Pineapple Principle. Her life story, from moving 83 times before age 18 to weathering storms both literal and personal, fuels her passion for helping others turn pain into purpose. Annie’s contagious energy, humor, and practical strategies inspire audiences to embrace change and live without excuses. Resources and Links Annie Meehan The Pineapple Principle book – https://www.anniemeehan.com/products-services/#2314 Website – https://www.anniemeehan.com/meet-annie-meehan/LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/anniemeehan/?locale=en_US YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr_sfO33tt3VRf6xIwuEKcg Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/AnnieMeehanSpeaking Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/mikedrobbins/ X – https://x.com/annienoexcuses Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay will take a deeper look at the power of assuming positive intent. He’ll share research, practical tools, and real-world examples on how reframing the stories you tell yourself about others can lower resentment, improve leadership, and make you a happier person. If you’re ready to shift your mindset and bring more compassion into your daily life, this episode will give you the roadmap. Until then, stay intentional, stay kind, and keep choosing to be exceptional.
    58 min
  • 110: Heat: A 4-Step Framework to Address Conflict
    In our last episode, we met Cindy, an executive leader struggling to get her team aligned. Jay was joined by Mike Robbins, who shared insights on taking ownership and embracing change. While many leaders buy into these ideas, they often struggle with execution, especially when it comes to addressing conflict head-on. In this solo episode, Jay introduces a simple but powerful tool for handling conflict in professional environments: the HEAT framework. Whether you're dealing with tension that impacts team morale, productivity, or relationships, HEAT equips you to navigate these challenging conversations with clarity and empathy. Jay breaks down each step: start with How it feels, provide a clear Example, explain the Effect, and end with a collaborative Takeaway. Using this approach, you can address conflict without avoiding it or escalating it. The framework empowers leaders to show up with both humanity and emotional intelligence, creating trust and alignment even in tough moments. If you’ve ever hesitated to speak up because you didn’t know how, this episode offers a structured, practical method to help you turn conflict into connection. Notable Quotes "It is teamwork that remains the ultimate competitive advantage, both because it is so powerful and so rare." — Patrick Lencioni "You are human, and you’ve got to show up as a human. But you can’t just express emotions without self-awareness and emotional intelligence." — Jay Abbasi Resources and Links Jay Abbasi Website: https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time In Monday’s episode, Jay introduces Lucy, who manages a mid-sized hospitality group. Lucy feels like she’s carrying the weight of everyone else’s mistakes, with morale low, stress rising, and her patience running thin. Jay will be joined by Annie Meehan, a dynamic keynote speaker, author, and consultant who helps leaders and teams eliminate excuses, build resilience, and create thriving workplace cultures. Don’t miss this inspiring and actionable discussion!
    12 min
  • 109: The Authenticity Equation
    Meet Cindy. She has a fresh agenda in front of her as she works to keep the leadership meeting on track. But already, the conversation has drifted into side comments and jabs between department heads. Marketing blames sales. Sales blames operations. The tension is quiet but sharp, and Cindy can feel the energy spiraling into another round of finger-pointing. As COO of a fast-growing company, she’s proud of the past five years, but trust is wearing thin. Departments guard priorities, collaboration fades, and people hesitate to share. Projects get done, but the spark of we’re in this together is gone. Driving home, Cindy wonders: How do I rebuild trust? In this episode, Jay is joined by Mike Robbins, keynote speaker, author of five books, and expert on leadership, culture, and emotional intelligence. Mike has spent over two decades helping top organizations like Google, Microsoft, and the San Francisco Giants build trust, foster collaboration, and create high-performing teams. A former professional baseball player, Mike brings lessons from the field and boardroom to help leaders strengthen connection and drive results. Together, Jay and Mike explore why authenticity is the foundation of trust and how leaders can create cultures of openness and collaboration. Mike shares his Authenticity Equation, honesty minus self-righteousness plus vulnerability, and explains how to take ownership without self-blame, rebuild relationships, and lead through change with empathy and courage. If you’ve ever struggled with silos, conflict, or the challenge of leading through change, this episode will give you tools to help your team thrive and remind you everything comes down to people and relationships. Notable Quotes “Honesty minus self-righteousness plus vulnerability equals authenticity.” — Mike Robbins “When you argue with reality, you lose, but only 100 percent of the time.” — Mike Robbins “Nothing changes until you do. Leadership begins with looking in the mirror.” — Jay Abbasi About Our Guest Mike Robbins is an internationally renowned keynote speaker, coach, and author of five books, including We’re All In This Together. A former professional baseball player drafted by the New York Yankees and Kansas City Royals, Mike draws on his journey from the pitcher’s mound to the boardroom to help leaders and teams build trust, embrace change, and create high-performance cultures. His work has been translated into 15 languages and has helped organizations worldwide elevate performance and connection. Resources and Links Mike Robbins We’re All In This Together book – https://mike-robbins.com/together/ Website – https://mike-robbins.com/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrobbins/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEdTDA1zhOS4g2f_raFk70w Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/mikerobbinspage/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/mikedrobbins/ X – https://x.com/mikedrobbins TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@mikedrobbins Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay will share a step-by-step communication framework he’s used in workshops and keynotes to help leaders address breakdowns in team dynamics. You’ll learn how to give feedback and navigate conflict with clarity and care, even when emotions are running high. These are the same strategies Jay has seen transform organizations and rebuild trust from the inside out. Until then, stay authentic, stay connected, and remember that everything starts with the courage to own your part.
    56 min
  • 108: 5 Hacks to Make Habits Stick
    In our last episode, we met Bobby, a sales leader frustrated by a stagnant team. Alongside high-performance coach Alan Stein Jr., we explored the importance of simplifying success and committing to the process. In this solo episode, Jay dives into five practical habit hacks designed to help you follow through with the actions that matter most. Drawing from research by James Clear (Atomic Habits) and his own experience coaching professionals around the world, Jay shares strategies to build systems that support consistent action, even when motivation fades. You’ll learn how to preview and review your day to plan ahead and reflect on progress, stack habits by pairing new actions with established routines, pair activities to maximize time, make habits visible so they stay top of mind, and make the process fun to keep yourself engaged. Each hack includes real-world examples, from simple Post-it reminders to creative games, that show how small tweaks in environment and mindset can lead to big results. If you’ve been struggling to stay consistent with the habits you know will move you forward, this episode offers clear, actionable steps to help you finally make those habits stick. Notable Quotes “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” — James Clear “Previewing and reviewing is a requirement to stay committed and continuously improve.” — Jay Abbasi “Make the hard thing fun, and you’ll stop avoiding it.” — Jay Abbasi Resources and Links Jay Abbasi Website: https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time In Monday’s episode, you’ll meet Cindy, the COO of a growing company caught in a culture of blame and finger-pointing. With trust fading and collaboration breaking down, she feels overwhelmed and unsure how to restore a sense of unity. Jay will be joined by Mike Robbins, keynote speaker, author, and team culture expert whose clients include Google, Microsoft, and the San Francisco Giants. Together they’ll explore how Cindy can rebuild trust, strengthen her team’s culture, and inspire people to show up authentically. Don’t miss this inspiring and actionable discussion.
    14 min
  • 107: Simplify Success & Master the Basics
    Meet Bobby. He’s leaning forward at the head of the conference table, arms crossed, listening as his sales team lists missed deadlines, client changes, and delays from other departments. Bobby listens, but as the complaints pile up, his jaw tightens. Finally, he cuts in: “Look, we all have challenges. You want better results? Do the work. Focus on what you can control and stop making excuses.” The room falls silent. Eyes drop to notepads. And as the meeting ends, Bobby walks to his office with an uneasy feeling. He knows barking orders isn’t creating lasting change, but he’s frustrated. His capable salespeople are distracted and failing to execute the fundamentals. He wants a high-performing team that collaborates, hits deadlines, and stays focused without burning themselves or him out. In this episode, Jay is joined by Alan Stein Jr., keynote speaker, author, and former high-performance coach who spent 15 years working with elite athletes including Kevin Durant, Steph Curry, and Kobe Bryant. Alan now helps leaders raise performance by simplifying success, mastering the basics, and creating teams that thrive under pressure. Alan shares powerful lessons from the hardwood, including his first meeting with Kobe Bryant and the surprising drills that defined Kobe’s greatness. Together, they explore why chasing shortcuts undermines execution, how to identify the “big three” responsibilities that drive results, and why discipline is really about making present decisions your future self will thank you for. If you’ve been overwhelmed by complexity or tempted to skip the fundamentals, this episode will help you simplify, focus, and build a culture where excellence becomes inevitable. Notable Quotes “Complexity undermines execution. Success is about mastering the basics.” — Alan Stein Jr. “Discipline is making a decision in the moment that aligns with the person you want to become.” — Alan Stein Jr. “Focus on the process. When you love the work, you’ve already won before the game even starts.” — Jay Abbasi About Our Guest Alan Stein Jr. is a keynote speaker, performance coach, and author of Raise Your Game and Sustain Your Game. After 15 years working with NBA superstars like Kevin Durant, Steph Curry, and Kobe Bryant, Alan now teaches business leaders how to apply the same high-performance habits to their teams. His programs help organizations simplify success, master the fundamentals, and create cultures built on discipline, accountability, and consistent excellence. Resources and Links Alan Stein Jr. Website – https://alansteinjr.com/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/alan-stein-jr/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/alansteinjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/alansteinjr/ X – https://x.com/AlanSteinJr Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay will share five proven hacks to help you stay disciplined and committed to the fundamentals, even when they feel boring or uncomfortable. These are the same strategies he’s used with clients and in workshops worldwide to help people build habits, routines, and rituals that lead to lasting success. If you’re ready to fall in love with the process and master the basics in your work and life, don’t miss this practical, high-impact episode.
    1 hr 3 min
  • 106: 7 Techniques to Become a Master Communicator
    In our last episode, we met Chloe, a talented director struggling to communicate with confidence and influence senior leaders at her company. Alongside guest expert Stacey Hanke, we explored her “Monday to Monday” philosophy and how consistent communication builds trust and credibility. In this solo episode, Jay reveals seven actionable techniques that anyone can develop to communicate with more clarity, confidence, and impact. From mastering eye contact to owning your tone, Jay explains why each skill matters and how practicing them can transform your presence, whether you’re leading a team, pitching an idea, or deepening personal relationships. Jay challenges listeners to pick one technique to focus on first, practice it until it becomes habit, and then move to the next. These are the same fundamentals he has refined over years as a speaker, coach, and podcast host, and they remain the hallmarks of every great communicator. If becoming a more influential and engaging communicator is important to you, this episode gives you a clear starting point and a plan to improve starting today. Notable Quotes “Being a great listener makes you a great leader.” — Jay Abbasi “Practice isn’t optional. It’s the requirement for becoming a master communicator.” — Jay Abbasi “Pick one technique, master it, and only then move on to the next.” — Jay Abbasi Resources and Links Jay Abbasi Website: https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time In Monday’s episode, you’ll meet Bobby, a seasoned construction leader who has worked his way up from sales to general manager. Despite his experience, Bobby finds himself frustrated with an underperforming sales team and struggling to manage his own impatience, both at work and at home. Jay will sit down with Alan Stein Jr., keynote speaker, author, and former high-performance coach who has worked with NBA superstars like Kevin Durant, Steph Curry, and Kobe Bryant. Together they’ll explore how Bobby can lead his team to peak performance while keeping himself, and those he loves, out of burnout. Don’t miss this inspiring and actionable discussion!
    20 min
  • 105: Master Your Influence, Monday to Monday
    Meet Chloe. She’s seated in a Monday morning strategy meeting, fingers laced tightly in her lap, nodding as the VP speaks. Her idea, an inventory strategy that could cut costs by 18%, burns on the tip of her tongue. "Say it,’’ her mind urges. ‘’But don’t. You’ll sound like you’re challenging him. What if you’re wrong?’’ This isn’t the first time Chloe has held back. As Director of Supply Management for a leading electronics manufacturer, she’s sharp, organized, and dependable. But when it matters most, her voice disappears. She’s seen as reliable support, not a strategic thinker. She wonders, ‘’why do I shrink when it matters most?’’ In this episode, Jay is joined by Stacey Hanke, Hall of Fame speaker, bestselling author, and communications expert who has coached Fortune 500 executives and business leaders to speak with influence and build trust. Stacey’s Monday to Monday philosophy is about showing up with consistent presence and credibility in every interaction, not just when it’s convenient. Together, they unpack the hidden gap between how we feel when we communicate and how others actually perceive us. Stacey shares her top skills for mastering influence: increasing awareness, practicing daily consistency, and seeking real feedback instead of vague “good job” praise. She explains why recording yourself is the ultimate truth-teller and why every conversation, from the boardroom to the dinner table, is a chance to practice influence. If you’ve ever wondered how to project confidence, inspire trust, and get your ideas heard in any setting, this episode will give you the tools to show up with influence Monday to Monday. Notable Quotes “Your level of communication determines where you are in your career.” — Stacey Hanke “Don’t let feeling be your guide. Feeling good doesn’t always mean you sound good.” — Stacey Hanke “True influence is what people say about you when you leave the room.” — Jay Abbasi About Our Guest Stacey Hanke is the author of Influence Redefined: Be the Leader You Were Meant to Be, Monday to Monday. A Hall of Fame keynote speaker and communication strategist, Stacey has worked with top executives and teams across industries to help them communicate with clarity, consistency, and impact. Her practical tools help leaders build trust and credibility every day,  not just during high-stakes moments. Resources and Links Stacey Hanke Influence Redefined (Book) – https://staceyhankeinc.com/product/influence-redefined/ Website – https://staceyhankeinc.com/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/staceyhanke/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/staceyhanke Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/StaceyHankeInc Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/staceyhankeinc/ X – https://x.com/staceyhankeinc Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay will reveal seven powerful communication hacks he’s discovered through years of studying, testing, and refining his own speaking style. These are the practical strategies he uses on stage, in coaching sessions, and in everyday conversations to connect with audiences and build trust. If you want to communicate with confidence and authority in any situation, don’t miss this actionable episode. Until then, stay consistent, stay authentic, and keep influencing Monday to Monday.
    57 min
  • 104: 3 Components to Maximizing Happiness and Resilience
    In our last episode, we met Sam, a communications manager wrestling with self-doubt and hesitation. Together with guest Hussain Halak, we explored how fulfillment and resilience begin when we stop clinging to ourselves and start serving others. In this solo episode, Jay expands on that idea with a powerful framework drawn from his upcoming book and TEDx talk. He explains why our primal brains are wired to constantly scan for threats, how that wiring keeps us self-absorbed, and what it really takes to break free. Through research and personal reflection, Jay reveals three essential components: safety, concentration, and connection. It allows us to “lose ourselves,” the very state where happiness, performance, and resilience flourish. Jay walks listeners through practical ways to create inner safety by caring for physical well-being and learning to respond rather than react, to cultivate focus in a world full of distractions, and to intentionally reconnect every day to people and purpose. With these three practices in place, you’ll have the foundation to thrive no matter what challenges come your way. Notable Quotes “Safety is the foundation. Without it, the mind will always search for threats instead of possibilities.” — Jay Abbasi “Focus is like holding the reins of a wild horse. If you can guide your attention, you can guide your life.” — Jay Abbasi “Connection is what the human heart is chasing. Without it, we simply can’t thrive.” — Jay Abbasi Resources and Links Jay Abbasi Website: https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Join Us Next Time In Monday’s episode, Jay introduces Chloe, the Director of Supply Management at a leading electronics manufacturer. Chloe feels stuck in a loop, taking orders, checking boxes, and going unnoticed, because she struggles to advocate for herself. Jay will be joined b yStacey Hanke, Hall of Fame speaker and communications expert, to explore how someone like Chloe can find her voice, speak with confidence, and influence the direction of her team and organization. Don’t miss this inspiring and actionable discussion!
    14 min
  • 103: Play, Learn, Get Better
    Meet Sam. He’s just stepped off stage at a media leadership conference, still riding the high of a panel that went better than expected. An attendee leans in and says, “You could be a motivational speaker. You’re so good at this.” Sam smiles, but inside, those words don’t land as encouragement. They echo as doubt. He thinks, “Who am I to do that? I’m not an author. I don’t have a TED Talk. I’m not a thought leader with a massive following.” He goes back to his Monday routine, preparing someone else’s presentation instead of building his own. He tells himself maybe next year, but the quiet voice inside keeps asking: What if now is the time? In this episode, Jay is joined by Hussein Hallak, entrepreneur, writer, and startup mentor who has helped thousands of founders in 100+ countries bring bold ideas to life. Hussein’s philosophy, Play, Learn, Get Better, comes from a lifetime of saying yes first and figuring it out later, from launching businesses to fronting a rock band without knowing how to sing. Together, they explore why fear is natural, how to de-risk failure with small experiments, and why overpreparing can turn fear into fuel. Hussein shares his “million-dollar rule,” the concentric circles approach to aligning your work with what you love, and a powerful mindset shift that moves you from self-focus to service. If you’ve been waiting for the perfect moment to act or have felt stuck in fear of failure, this episode will inspire you to take that first step and trust you’ll get better as you go. Notable Quotes “Say yes first, then figure it out later. That’s how you play, learn, and get better.” — Hussein Hallak “Fear is natural. The key is to redirect it into preparation and practice.” — Hussein Hallak “When you show up in service of others, fear dissolves and purpose takes over.” — Jay Abbasi About Our Guest Hussein Hallak is a writer, entrepreneur, and startup mentor who has guided over 1,000 founders worldwide. He is the founder of Next Decentrum, a company focused on innovation and education in emerging technologies, and the author of The Dark Art of Life Mastery, a guide to navigating uncertainty with courage and clarity. Hussein is known for his candid storytelling, practical wisdom, and frameworks that empower people to take risks, embrace failure, and live in alignment with their true purpose. Resources and Links Hussein Hallak The Dark Art of Life Mastery book – https://geni.us/thedarkartoflifem  Website – https://www.husseinhallak.com/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/husseinhallak/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/hhdarkal/ Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay will dive deeper into his conversation with Hussein about letting go of yourself, becoming like the mango tree that gives mangoes or the sun that gives away its light and warmth. He’ll share how this theme has become the key takeaway in his own upcoming book and give you a behind-the-scenes look at the writing process. If you’ve been searching for fulfillment beyond self-focus, this episode will give you a fresh lens to live with meaning. Until then, stay bold, stay playful, and keep getting better
    51 min

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Real people. Real stories. Real solutions. I’m Jay Abbasi, host of Unstuck, and as a former leader at Tesla, I understand the whirlwind of challenges in the modern work scene. In this podcast, we…