You think you’re pushing forward, staying positive, keeping the faith. You tell yourself, “I’ve got this. I just need to keep going.”
But what if you’re not actually swimming toward your goals?
What if you’re just drowning in self-abandonment with a smile on your face?
This episode is your wake-up call, babes.
We’re dismantling the toxic positivity trap that keeps you stuck in ‘good habits’ while secretly running on empty. You don’t need another pep talk. You need a mothering moment—the kind that restores you instead of pushing you to keep moving.
Inside, I’m breaking down:
🔹 How self-abandonment disguises itself as ‘self-love’
🔹 The Restoration Code – why true self-love is about mothering yourself, not just ‘being kind’
🔹 The moment I realized I wasn’t swimming - I was just trying not to drown
🔹 How to spot where you’re
drowning in positivity and what to do instead
👑 If you’re ready to rewrite your Mother Code and start building a legacy of self-worth, here’s your next move:
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Join the Siren Self-Love Challenge inside Divine & Direct the weekly self-love Sermon https://cordinaliving.myflodesk.com/divineanddirect🔥
Come to Soulful – our next free prayer group on self-love and divine restoration. DM me the word ‘Soul’ on Instagram for more info @cordinalivingBefore you hit play, you know the deal. If this episode hits? Send it to a friend, drop a rating, and make sure you're subscribed. It takes two seconds and helps Untamed & Unbothered keep bringing you the kind of conversations that rewrite the rules.
Let’s restore, not just survive. Press play.