You, my friend, feel guilty. I understand; believe me, I understand. The thought of leaving him to make yourself happy, to live the life you long to live, is almost unbearable. And you usually ignore it. Because you’re kindhearted; otherwise, you would have left a long time ago. And that is the problem with people like us — we care too much. We care so much about others, their feelings, their situations, and their circumstances that we neglect our own. We are not living our own lives, we are living everybody else’s, and sometimes we have to let go.