Fundraising drives relationships and the big gifts. Nobody puts the systems, the data, and the back-end operations on the flyer, and that's exactly the work that keeps an organization alive. In this episode of The Focused Fundraiser, host Rob Burke talks with Sami Zoss, founder of Zoss Collaborations and a former higher-ed foundation COO who calls herself a "systems girly with an ADHD aesthetic."

Sami makes the case for a project-management mindset in nonprofits (the non-techie kind), the healthy tension between relationship-driven fundraisers and the people who build the systems, and how to earn trust through small wins instead of big overhauls. We get practical about the smallest data cleanups with the biggest payoff, how to advocate to your board for the time to fix your back end, and where AI is genuinely useful for a development team versus where it's just hype. She closes with one of the most doable tactical takeaways we've shared: get one thing out of your head and into the institution every week.

If you've ever felt too busy raising money to fix the systems underneath it, this one is for you.

Chapters

00:00 - The unglamorous side of fundraising: systems and operations

00:45 - Sami's path: from criminal justice major to foundation COO

03:08 - A "systems girly with an ADHD aesthetic"

03:57 - The most common broken system: no project management

06:25 - Getting relationship-driven fundraisers to trust a process

06:55 - "We're going to trip over money": building trust through small wins

11:06 - Leadership buy-in and the grace to fail

12:27 - Institutional knowledge walking out the door

13:06 - The smallest data cleanup with the biggest payoff

15:42 - "Too busy raising money to fix the back end"

18:52 - Where AI is genuinely useful, and where it's hype

24:12 - Context is everything: using AI safely

26:22 - Tactical takeaway: one thing out of your head each week

Key takeaways

Most nonprofits are so good at saying yes that they lose track of what they're working on and whether it's still mission-aligned. A light project-management mindset fixes that.

Trust between fundraisers and operations is built in small, incremental wins, not big overhauls.

You need leadership buy-in to fail gracefully. Processes are wrong before they're right.

Institutional knowledge walks out the door when staff leave. Document it before that happens.

Smallest cleanup, biggest payoff: keep contact info current and run a monthly contact-record cleanup.

Advocate to your board for the time to fix systems. Lower the short-term fundraising expectation to raise long-term accuracy.

AI is useful when it's genuinely useful, not just interesting. Mind your context and your data, and never let it manipulate the donor relationship. AI amplifies the relationship, it doesn't replace it.

Tactical takeaway: every Friday, write down one thing that lives only in your head and get it into the institution.

Connect with Sami Zoss

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