Ever felt like your donor relationships are turning into guilt trips?

After nearly 30 years in major gifts, I’ve seen how easy it is for the line between professionalism and friendship to blur.

One story still sticks with me: a fundraiser got so close to a donor, she couldn’t bring herself to ask for support. The result? The mission lost out.

Here’s the truth: 70% of donors say their relationship with the fundraiser influences their giving decisions. But when things get too personal, it can lead to guilt, hesitation, and even burnout. I’ve been there—and I know many of you have, too.

So, where should we draw the line? How do we build trust and connection—without sacrificing our mission or our own well-being?

If you’ve ever wrestled with these questions, you’re not alone. I just dropped a new episode of The Intentional Fundraiser podcast diving deep into this very topic. I share real stories, practical strategies, and tools you can use to keep your donor relationships professional and impactful.

Curious how to protect your role, your donors, and your organization—without losing your heart?

Listen to the latest episode and share it with your team. Let’s start a conversation that every nonprofit leader needs to have.

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Donor hesitation is NOT your cue to retreat.

I’ve seen firsthand how economic storms can freeze even the boldest fundraisers—but I’ve also watched organizations thrive by leaning in, not pulling back. In my latest episode, I share real stories, actionable strategies, and a few hard-won lessons to help you fundraise with confidence—even when the ground feels shaky.

What’s your go-to move when uncertainty hits—do you wait it out or double down with intention?

Listen in to this episode, share it with your team, and let’s stay bold, stay connected, and stay intentional.

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Have you ever felt like your organization is stuck in the same old fundraising routines, even as the world around us demands more courage and authenticity? I’ve been there too. 

That’s why my recent conversation with the brilliant Maia McGill hit home—her story of moving from “checking the DEI box” to building truly inclusive philanthropy is both eye-opening and deeply relatable. 

Maia’s journey reminded me of the power (and the risk) of standing “ten toes down” for equity, even when it’s uncomfortable. She doesn’t sugarcoat the challenges—she’s seen organizations retreat or “scrub” their DEI commitments out of fear. 

But she also shares how real change happens: by centering the voices that matter, budgeting for inclusion, and refusing to let fear drive our decisions.

What would it look like if your board meetings and donor relationships reflected the full diversity and lived experiences of your community? 🤔

If you’re ready to reimagine what’s possible in your fundraising—and want practical, honest advice from someone who’s walked the walk—listen to this episode and share it with your colleagues. 

Let’s build a future for philanthropy that’s bold, inclusive, and transformational.

Guest: Maia McGill, Founder, Inclusive Philanthropy Institute / CEO, Maia McGill Consulting / Advocate for Marginalized Communities / Faculty, Modern Institute for Charitable Giving

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In this episode of the Intentional Fundraiser podcast, I had the pleasure of sitting down with David Kravinchuk to talk about why philanthropy is so important for everyone. We also chatted about the upcoming Western Canada Fundraising Conference, and I loved hearing David describe what makes it so unique—from its warm, intimate community feel to the practical, hands-on sessions attendees can look forward to.

David introduced me to the idea of the "slow fundraising movement," which is inspired by the slow food movement. He explained how taking time to build deeper relationships and communicate thoughtfully with donors can really transform our fundraising efforts. As we talked, we explored how the world of fundraising is evolving, and why it’s so crucial to focus on building lasting, meaningful connections with donors instead of just chasing numbers.

We also discussed the impact of community-driven fundraising and why embracing a more intentional approach—one that includes self-care and prioritizes genuine relationships—can make such a difference.

It was such an inspiring conversation, and I hope it encourages you to slow down, connect more deeply, and truly appreciate the people who make our work possible.

Guest: David Kravinchuk, Philanthropy Firebrand, The Common Good fundraising agency

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Have you ever felt like you’re juggling donor relationships in the dark, hoping you don’t drop the ball?

In this week’s episode, I share how a data-driven moves management process turned my fundraising chaos into clarity—and how one missed thank-you nearly cost us a loyal donor.

You’ll hear real stories, practical tips, and a few fun surprises that will make you rethink how you engage your top supporters.

What if you could use data to make every donor feel like your only donor? 🤔 Listen now and share this episode with your colleagues who are ready to transform their fundraising game!

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I’ve got some BIG news to share — something that could change the way you think about major gift fundraising! After 30 years in this field, I’ve seen our world shift in ways we never imagined: donor expectations are evolving, technology is accelerating, and the challenges we face are more complex than ever. 

Imagine standing at the intersection of legacy and innovation, where the wisdom of fundraising giants meets the energy of the future. What if you could access the very best in major gift fundraising education, not just from your city or state, but from anywhere in the world?

Well, that future is here.

If you’re ready to reimagine what’s possible for your organization, don’t miss this edition of Scaling Major Gifts.

👉 Listen in, get inspired, and please share it with your colleagues who are ready to lead the future of major gift fundraising! 💡

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Have you ever wondered why some major donors become lifelong champions while others quietly slip away?

After nearly three decades in fundraising, I’ve learned that the answer lies in how we steward those relationships-not just with a thank-you, but with genuine, ongoing care.

In this episode, I’ll share the real-life story of how one intentional stewardship journey turned a surprise $25,000 gift into a $250,000 legacy commitment. You’ll hear the strategies, the stumbles, and the simple shifts that made all the difference.

Are you making your major donors feel truly seen, heard, and valued? Or are you missing opportunities to deepen those critical partnerships?

Tune in to discover practical tips, timely trends, and tools you can use right now to retain and grow your most important supporters.

And if this episode resonates, please share it with your fellow fundraisers-let’s raise the bar for donor care together!

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Are major gifts feeling out of reach? 

Here's how to tackle the toughest major gift fundraising challenges! 🚀

Feeling like you’re chasing ghosts instead of donors? I know that struggle all too well. After nearly 30 years in fundraising, I’ve seen firsthand how major gift officers, development directors, executive directors, and board members pour heart and soul into donor outreach—only to hit walls of silence, “ghosting,” and stalled relationships.

But here’s the good news: you don’t have to stay stuck. In my latest episode of The Intentional Fundraiser podcast, I share real stories and proven strategies that helped one organization boost major donor revenue by over 453%. From overcoming the fear of the ask to leveraging technology that actually frees up your time, I walk you through practical steps you can implement right away.

Imagine what your nonprofit could achieve with a thriving major gift program. What’s the one challenge holding you back from transformational fundraising success? 🤔

Tune in to this episode for actionable insights, a few laughs, and a whole lot of encouragement. 

If you find it helpful, please share it with your team and fellow changemakers—because together, we can transform the world, one intentional gift at a time.

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Have you ever felt the goosebumps when a grateful patient shares how your organization changed their life? 💙 

Those stories don’t just move us—they move mountains for our missions. But inviting patients and families to share their journeys? That’s a delicate dance between inspiration and sensitivity.

In this week’s episode of The Intentional Fundraiser podcast, I open up about what I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way!) after nearly 30 years in major gifts and nonprofit leadership. I’ll share real-world stories, practical strategies, and a few “aha!” moments about how to honor patient voices, protect privacy, and turn gratitude into lasting impact.

Here’s my question for you: How do you invite authentic stories without ever making someone feel like a fundraising tool? 🤔

If you’re a major gift officer, development director, executive director, or board member who wants to fundraise with heart—and results—this episode is for you. 

🎧 Tune in, share it with your team, and let’s create a culture of storytelling that transforms communities.

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Have you ever felt the weight of navigating donor relationships, balancing mission integrity, and leading with courage in the nonprofit sector? I know I have. It’s not always easy, but conversations like the one I had with Roger Ali, AFP Global Board Chair, remind me why we do this work. 🌟

Roger’s journey from a Chamberlain Scholar to a global leader is nothing short of inspiring. He shared powerful lessons about standing firm in your values—even when it’s hard—and embracing collaboration to create richer outcomes. His mantra? “Be courageous. We can do this together.” 💪

We also explored exciting trends shaping the sector, including AFP’s strategic priorities and the must-attend ICON conference. But here’s my question for you: How can we, as nonprofit leaders, show courage in the face of challenges while staying true to our mission? 🤔

👉 Dive into this episode for actionable insights and inspiration.

Let’s elevate our work together! 🎧 Share this post with your colleagues and join the conversation.

Guest: Roger Ali, MBA, C.Dir., CFRE, AFP Global Board Chair

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