What happens when the systems designed to protect people become part of the challenge? In this episode of UThink, Rose Garofano sits down with Pip Rae — founder of Upstream Educator, survivor strategist, podcast producer, and expert in online and technology-facilitated abuse — to explore how education, advocacy and strategic support can help people reclaim their lives after trauma.
Drawing on nearly two decades as a police officer, together with her own lived experience, Pip shares how she now works alongside survivors to help them navigate complex legal, workplace and institutional systems with confidence, clarity and purpose. Together, they unpack:
- Why understanding systems is just as important as understanding trauma
- How advocacy empowers people to reclaim their voice and take back control
- The importance of setting boundaries, building trusted support networks and knowing your rights
- Why institutions must share responsibility in creating safer, more compassionate outcomes
- How education, persistence and small, consistent actions can create lasting personal and systemic change
This is an honest and empowering conversation about resilience, self-advocacy and the courageto challenge systems that no longer serve us. More importantly, it highlights the power of understanding your rights, finding the right support, and recognising that healing isn't about simply surviving adversity — it's about creating a future on your own terms.
Whether you're an educator, leader, advocate, parent, or someone navigating life's toughest challenges, this episode offers practical insights into resilience, empowerment and the transformative impact of knowledge and human connection.
Relevant Links:
Pip Rae's LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pip-rae-76b555179/
Upstream Educator: https://upstreameducator.com.au
Rose Garofano LinkedIn profile:https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosegarofano/
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Texts mentioned in conversation:
Dr Phil McGraw - Self Matters: Creating Your Life from the Inside Out: 1
Sheryl Sandberg - Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead
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Music in this episode is licensed by Rose Garofano and composed and produced by Edward Andrew Schravemade [Schrav]. All rights reserved.