VagEsteem Podcast

So! We had some technical difficulties last week and my computer died. SO! We're back! and we're back with the author of Becoming Cliterate, Dr. Laurie Mintz. We discuss the orgasm equality gap, how to get in tune with the clit, asking for what you want and much more!

Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, and joyful lives through the art and science of psychology.

As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She is the author of two popular press books—both written with the aim of empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get it and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship.

Follow her on:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/

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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurieMintz/

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We got fried of the podcast, Goody- our dildo dealer! This show is about the toys for the holidays lol! Goody is an intimacy consultant, sex educator and HIV activist! She’s been an adult industry insider for over 10 years and she informs, educates and empowers her clients with the knowledge that sexual pleasure IS sexual health.

She's giving the listeners on a discount on toys on her website www.askgoody.com. Use coupon code "vagesteem" to get 15% of your purchases!

Oh, and the toy she refers to is called the "sybian".

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Today on the podcast, we discuss STDs, getting tested, what they are, dating and sharing your STD status and more! with Nhakia Outland.

A little about Nhakia, Nhakia Outland, MSW is the owner and principal consultant of Prevention is Key Consulting, LLC, a sexual health consulting business that provides inclusive and supportive education, training, and consultation services. Nhakia enjoys talking about sex in a bold, raw, and honest way. Nhakia started her business after working in social services in different capacities for over 10 years; and in the HIV/AIDS community for over 6 years in various roles. Nhakia began to realize that many of her clients were concerned about sex and sexuality issues after their diagnosis and/or treatment of various STIs and

STDs, including HIV and AIDS, but were not getting answers to their questions or were meant with resistance from social workers and case managers that were uncomfortable discussing sex and sexuality.

Follow her on Instagram (PREVENTION_IS_KEY) and Facebook(PREVENTIONISKEYCONSULTINGLLC)

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SPOILER ALERT:

I have a special guest talking about She's Gotta Have it! Tune in and follow the conversation using #vagesteem and share your thoughts!

Shout out to Deidre, Khadija, Kandaka, and Niki Gee for sharing their thoughts this week!

ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com!

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Paris, the mansplainer and I discuss rape culture, Lena Dunham being the mansplainer of the week, Gabby Douglas shaming Aly Raisman (EDIT: this was recorded on Tuesday before Gabby shared her story), Russell Simmons, relationships being a partnership instead of ownership, and more.

So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on:

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ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com!

This week we are chatting with professional cuddler, Shayla D. Tumbling! We discuss what is it, who gets "cuddled" and if black folks actually get this service lol!

A little about our guest:

Shayla’s mission is to educate people in understanding historical, cultural, generational trauma; the impact it has on our daily functioning and supporting them in developing solutions and healing the trauma in order to have a healthier quality of life

Understanding the different levels of Human Connection & Intimacy she is the co-founder of A Southern Touch Company LLC: A Cuddling & Companionship Company, which specializes in healing platonic touch services based in Atlanta, GA.

Her core mission supports Black Women reconnecting with their personal power through bliss and pleasure. She teaches Black Women how Generational Trauma impacts their sexuality, emotional health, and self-image. Her signature program: S.E.E. (Sexuality & Emotional Empowerment) for Black Women is a 5 Week Virtual Program designed to aid Black Women on their healing journey & to improve their relationship with self, sexuality, and others. She is dedicated to positive sexuality, advocacy, humanitarianism, and re-alignment.

Follow her:

Shayla D. Tumbling, M.S., NCC

Professional Platonic Cuddler

Sexuality & Emotional Empowerment: Educator|Coach|Healing Facilitator O.School Pleasure Professional

Humanitarian Ambassador

www.shayladtumbling.com

FaceBook: Shayla D Tumbling

FaceBook: A Southern Touch Company

Instagram: shayladtumbling

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So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on:

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This is Part 2 of the week I was on the Spiritual Homegirl podcast!

We discuss all the listener questions! From sex toys to bedroom performance! Tune in!

Shoutout for the Spiritual Homegirl for inviting on to your platform! I'm grateful and humbled!

A little about the podcast: The Spiritual Homegirl Podcast about talk self development and bettering the spirit, but from the homie perspective. Check her out on itunes and Soundcloud.

Check out her work:

http://spiritualhomegirl.com/

https://twitter.com/spirithomegirl

https://www.instagram.com/spiritualhomegirl/

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So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on:

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Text us or leave a vm at 443-692-7802

ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com!

Paris, the mansplainer and i discuss freezing with powerful people encroach on your personal space, Kevin Spacey crimes and ridiculousness, and more AND guess what!? Paris is getting married yall!!!!

So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on:

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Text us or leave a vm at 443-692-7802

ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com!

This week is all thing booty, butt, anal! We discuss eating it, we discuss sticking it, we discuss loving it or not so much with Dr. Donna!

Just a little bit about our guest:

Dr. Donna Oriowo is a speaker, sex educator and therapist in the DMV area. Focusing on Black women, texturism, colorism, self-esteem and the anxiety (&depression) life can bring for having to be strong all the time. MSU alum, Owner and Lead Therapist of AnnodRight, most likely to be found reading and eating pretzels (only Snyder's of Hanover Mini unsalted--no judgement please). Find her on Instagram @AnnodRight and check out her website www.AnnodRight.com

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Special shoutout to the contributors! Check out Boonie from the Oshun from the River Oshun (https://www.theriveroshun.com/), Tia #tthesextherapist, Jessica, and Boonie from the Boonie Breakdown Podcast (http://www.thebooniebreakdown.com/podcast/). Thanks for sharing your stories and insights!

ALSO!! ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com!

So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem

instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem

Text us or leave a vm at 443-692-7802

This week I was on the Spiritual Homegirl podcast!

We discuss the makings of VagEsteem, pleasure, gender roles, answer awesome listener questions, and more!

Shoutout for the Spiritual Homegirl for inviting on to your platform! I'm grateful and humbled!

A little about the podcast: The Spiritual Homegirl Podcast about talk self development and bettering the spirit, but from the homie perspective. Check her out on itunes and Soundcloud.

Check out her work:

http://spiritualhomegirl.com/

https://twitter.com/spirithomegirl

https://www.instagram.com/spiritualhomegirl/

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ALERT! VagEsteem is going on college tours! Do you attend a college/university? Do you work at one? Get your speaker packet today on my website at www.vagesteem.com!

So what are you waiting for? Listen, download, subscribe, comment and rate!!! (like for real, I need you to do that) and get in touch with me at www.vagesteem.com or on:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/vagesteem

instagram: http://instagram.com/vagesteem

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vagesteem

Text us or leave a vm at 443-692-7802