Goldy discipline is LOVING. Never, Never- threaten, bribe, lose your temper, refuse to explain, use sarcasm, use embarrassment, dash hopes or dreams, resort to abuse or neglect. Godly discipline is CONSISTENT. Set reasonable limits for behavior. Fences lend security for emotional development. Godly discipline is FUTURE-FOCUSED (on mission and on target). We really aren't raising children; we are raising Godly adults.