Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

This is episode número dos of me reading the highly scientific book of 1988 titled “The One Hour Orgasm” by 2 Dr. Schwartz (what a lovely marriage to be able to “study” orgasms in real time together; this is real couple goals… assuming, of course, they are still happily married). This is a wild ride for me and the information is astonishing as well as hilarious. Join the fun if you can last through it (see what I did there 🤓) and if not, you can always keep trying. Toodles 🫰🏾

This is an episode of me reading a book verbatim for the first time while inserting my own unique spin as well as real time reactions. Thinking I will continue the episodes like this until I’ve read the thing in its entirety. So if you don’t want to hear about sexual pleasure principles backed up by 1988 science then this shit is most definitely NOT for you 🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♂️

I can’t seem to record an episode without it erasing again and it’s been a few days. Here’s a short episode I recorded awhile back about how one can become whatever they want if they are motivated enough. Hope you enjoy and I hope the next episode will be easier for me to record and upload. Til then, have a fabulous evening and I will be back again 👌🏾🧡

A conversation of me revealing some details of my marriage and how it pertains to developing strong family ties. As women we often forget to care about the man’s side (and I mean EVERYTHING: family, friends, opinions, beliefs, ideas, work, etc etc) so I just want to help illuminate things for anyone who is looking or potentially looking to change personal beliefs and attitudes; especially those that pertain to family 👨‍👩‍👧

Me thanking men for being phenomenal, amazing, helpful and protective. Especially older gentlemen — you are for sure my faves ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Firstly, I have only the audacity and not the credentials to title this a history lesson. You just need to know that. Secondly, this is a brutal dose of (potential) reality to all my people of color focusing on racism injustices and whose only way of fixing it is to cry like a titty baby. “Colonizers” as you call them achieved INCREDIBLE FEATS and deserve some ma’ fuckin’ respect on their names!!!! Okay okay, I know I’m intense but just allow my odd perspective to cause a deep thinking process if you can and are willing. Bc I think that, collectively, we sit so comfortably in our privileges it makes us arrogant and, at times, ignorant and dumb. I’m pleading for a consideration of changing a perspective that may not be as helpful as we may originally think it is. Bc in the end it could be more helpful to accept what is and move forward in our own way 🪐⚡️☄️ Also I keep going in and out of the speaker. Still cringy and disgusting but I felt called (forced) to post regardless so here it is. Get offended if you must yet there may still be an air of truth here to consider….

Me illustrating to women, by using my personal experiences, that men and women can’t actually (& really shouldn’t without FIRM ASS BOUNDARIES) be friends and why hoeing IS NOT A FUCKING RIGHT OF PASSAGE Jesus Fucking Christ

Just another intense speech about considering fairness as it pertains to parenting

Using Sam Hunt’s song and video “Take Your Time” to discuss real life situations like that. Often people only see one side then condemn the other & I just want to put it out there that as humans here in this reality: we are fallible & usually just receiving what we dished out. The good news? This accountability helps us move forward in a more positive, loving way 👩🏽👩🏽‍🦰👩🏽‍🦳. 🪐Update on meaning of song: He DOES want her romantically but will take breadcrumbs… I knew he wanted to fuck her!

A conversation about freedom of speech impediments such as ignorant hate speech & why different points of view deserve an accurate evaluation regardless of one’s personal opinions and biases 🤝🏾🤟🏾